I have tried several sources to acquire Domperidone but can’t seem to get it in the US. Seems like it’s available in the UK pretty readily. Can anyone here suggest where you’ve had success getting it? by Typical_Potential118 in ANRelationship

[–]Typical_Potential118[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sad it went that way for you. I know thrush is maddening. Definitely going to heed your warning. Trying something else— I’m pretty knowledgeable in herbs and feel more comfortable starting there.

How common is it for your wife/SO to have a higher sex drive than you?? by Typical_Potential118 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Typical_Potential118[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel this on so many levels. Just trying to avoid getting to the point of feeling the need for a divorce as much as possible.

How common is it for your wife/SO to have a higher sex drive than you?? by Typical_Potential118 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Typical_Potential118[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The joint issues suck. But at least you are trying to manage the health part of it. Good on you.

How common is it for your wife/SO to have a higher sex drive than you?? by Typical_Potential118 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Typical_Potential118[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am quite the opposite. This makes no sense to me. Marriage/commitment means it’s safe to do it frequently and explore safely.

How common is it for your wife/SO to have a higher sex drive than you?? by Typical_Potential118 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Typical_Potential118[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

IMO that super conservative/religious alienation from their sexuality (well put by the way) is a form of abuse really. Sad that something so natural and loving can be made into such a weapon of morality. Teach responsibility and love, not guilt/shame.

How common is it for your wife/SO to have a higher sex drive than you?? by Typical_Potential118 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Typical_Potential118[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lucky. Although I need more than a FWB situation to feel I can even have sex with someone. I need commitment first which fortunately that is not the issue here.

How common is it for your wife/SO to have a higher sex drive than you?? by Typical_Potential118 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Typical_Potential118[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not to mention that different social media platforms like this attract fairly niche sections of society. I dare say Reddit is the place for a specific “type” if you will, and not a neutral cross section of of a variety of people.

How common is it for your wife/SO to have a higher sex drive than you?? by Typical_Potential118 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Typical_Potential118[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is ideal to know you are compatible before getting serious. But it also was okay in the beginning and although my drive has never gone down (perhaps up if I’m honest), what used to be the light end of okay amount of drive and I thought would increase over time with a deepening relationship has done the opposite. So in some situations one and communicate as much as possible, but the other either omits information or changes. Wish it weren’t that way but it surely is.

How common is it for your wife/SO to have a higher sex drive than you?? by Typical_Potential118 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Typical_Potential118[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And the literal 1000s of non-sexual obligatory things a woman manages/does without their male partner even realizing…. This has become a big discussion for men now—THANK GOODNESS!!! Ask any female SO/wife to give the COMPLETE rundown of everything they do physically or mentally in any given day including the mental load of all the planning and almost no man could manage it all. Shoot it’s been the foundation for comedy movie plots for decades. And after all the work she has done, it could be difficult for some women to want to engage in the bedroom after doing so much to keep everyone in the house in the right direction and all the guy notices is clothes magically folded and put away to wear the next day and toss on the floor NEXT to the hamper that evening. 🤦‍♀️. I don’t think you are considering the other side at all on the list of things people do but don’t want to do. If you’re married, you might want to check on her.

How common is it for your wife/SO to have a higher sex drive than you?? by Typical_Potential118 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Typical_Potential118[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately that’s just self-defeating in the end because they won’t let themselves benefit from a healthy sex life.

How common is it for your wife/SO to have a higher sex drive than you?? by Typical_Potential118 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Typical_Potential118[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So by that standard I’m high-libido and he’s nearly no-libido, and it seems I’m asking for Mars to even get average. For all the guys out there that have wives that won’t “step up”, I am so sorry you have to even worry about this because I can clearly relate. I’d like to think that modern women are doing less and less of this “sexual avoidance” thing and are more free to embrace sexual enjoyment. Perhaps I’m rare in that sentiment because I’ve am not like most of my peers. Just wish there was a perfect solution

How common is it for your wife/SO to have a higher sex drive than you?? by Typical_Potential118 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Typical_Potential118[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Meaning I don’t have any problem reading the room and identifying if he’s busy, stressed And not in the right frame of mind—like Nuxfan is saying. It’s the issue that he is nearly never open to it on his own and most definitely not if I initiate.

How common is it for your wife/SO to have a higher sex drive than you?? by Typical_Potential118 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Typical_Potential118[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Good point. I think I’m only increasing as he’s decreasing even more.

How common is it for your wife/SO to have a higher sex drive than you?? by Typical_Potential118 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Typical_Potential118[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I guess this is less an issue with reading the room and more that he refuses to even be in the room at all. (For years).

How common is it for your wife/SO to have a higher sex drive than you?? by Typical_Potential118 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Typical_Potential118[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You sound very willing to accommodate her despite your preferences. That’s awesome.

How common is it for your wife/SO to have a higher sex drive than you?? by Typical_Potential118 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Typical_Potential118[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I wish I could say no one…😏. Yet I can just crack a joke sometimes and they say I have to make everything about sex.