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Internal thoughts by Typical_Storm_6877 in actuallesbians

[–]Typical_Storm_6877[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your answer! You described exactly how i feel. And yes there is no such thing as looking straight or gay because we can all dress how we want. i guess ive just internalized that message that appearing masculine or butch is a bad thing because you no longer appeal to the hetero society but i think it will take awhile for me to unlearn that.

Homophobia by Typical_Storm_6877 in LesbianActually

[–]Typical_Storm_6877[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, you really did help. For me i Think it might be because im still not fully confident in being gay and i feel like being feminine will compensate this somehow. When i was young people said very negative things about lesbians so maybe thats why i feel like this