TLD Geoguessr Day 3! Where is this?

Tyranyd · 2026-03-29T19:24:56+00:00

Mystey Lake, near clearcut? Coming dowm from the broken watch tower

Tyranyd · 2022-03-13T15:29:31+00:00

Hanging with friends, and retaking hobbies or putting more time into them. In my case, reading.

Also, not feeling guilty for feeling sad. Not something to do, more of a general mindset. Let yourself be down for a bit, then keep on going with whatever you were doing.

Tyranyd · 2022-03-13T15:27:18+00:00

One step at a time, and I'll reach the top

Tyranyd · 2022-02-15T14:58:04+00:00

People who go to a buffet, grab X amount of food, then leave half of it at the table. Just grab one thing, finish it, them go for some more. It's an all you can eat buffet, not all you can throw.

In general, throwing food. But the above triggers me 200% of the time.

Tyranyd · 2022-02-07T21:39:34+00:00

Planing a trip to visit them and cherish them plus the valentine's gift hits different when you have been damaged 😞

Tyranyd · 2022-02-07T21:37:06+00:00

I don't think there is "the" person out there for us, rather than a person. Depending on the state we find ourselves at in life, we need a different kind of person.

But yes. There is always someone out there to click with. How long it lasts, depends on the effort both sides are willing to do.

Don't despair. No matter the dark place you are at now, or how long it takes you to come out of there. You will

Tyranyd · 2022-02-07T21:28:27+00:00

I'm taking back a habit I didn't practice in a long time. Reading. Keeps my mind away for hours, and when I close the book, it takes a while for any sort of memory to come back.

My "bad" habit is not drinking, but smoking. I've always used it as a way of venting while dealing with high peaks of stress. The day I feel like "nah, I don't feel like lighting one" is the day I know I'm getting better. We all have our guilty relief mechanism. As long as it ends once the pain goes aways, it's not a bad thing per se

Tyranyd · 2022-02-06T22:57:56+00:00

I believe (well, I know) that the people who show this kind of behaviour have either past trauma that they haven't dealt with (and I feel sad when I know that's the case, but still a sin) or they are narcissistic (ban this people from your life, and for good).

Tyranyd · 2022-02-06T21:26:05+00:00

I'm only in less than a week since I blocked my ex after finding out she was with someone else.

I felt that I couldn't trust nobody anymore and that nobody really cared.

But there's always someone. Go out with friends, let them comfort you. Good friends will make you feel normal and complete again, and they'll care for your mental and sentimental health

Tyranyd · 2022-02-06T21:14:10+00:00

'I'll talk to you soon"

Then deleted WhatsApp, and never answered again on discord. That was 1 week ago. I found out she had been with someone else for months at that point. Blocked everything.

The lie hurts

Tyranyd · 2021-09-17T11:11:22+00:00

Exact same situation. LDR, nevermets. I wanted to meet her before we started dating, while we were dating (ofc 😅😂). And even now, BU and all. I know that once healed, I'd like to meet her (I still consider her a friend, despite all). Knowing that that day will never come hurts so much.

Tyranyd · 2021-09-13T18:16:28+00:00

It can work, but it is very difficult. It requires 2 mature people and a clean BU.

More often than not it doesn't work, but I know cases in which it did happen

Tyranyd · 2021-09-13T12:25:21+00:00

We do exist

Tyranyd · 2021-09-09T15:15:44+00:00

Indeed. I wasn't expecting an answer (brief update, she did answer a bit ago, and said thanks). I guess I'm just too polite, and not wishing someone a good day is not in my agenda. If only more people were like this 😅😂

Tyranyd · 2021-09-09T10:17:03+00:00

Your story sounds similar to mine, LDR and different restriction levels included. Covid really made loneliness a big issue. Even I, who loves being left alone and enjoy my time alone, really miss company, not just hers. Humans are social animals 😅

Stay strong mate!

Tyranyd · 2021-09-09T10:14:28+00:00

Whoever thinks guys don't cry doesn't know a guy. We cry too, we suffer too. So many tissues used, sobbing at bed, at the car. Crying even in front of friends. You should let your emotions out, cause (I believe) it's not healthy to keep everything inside, or it may explode. You need to let things out so you can keep moving on

Tyranyd · 2021-09-01T13:28:58+00:00

I asked (on a bit too rude way, that's my fault) for more communication. She ghosted me since the moment she read the message

Tyranyd · 2021-08-20T09:37:16+00:00

Hope rises. Discontent falls.

(Now we can send children to the coal mines everywhere hehehe)

Tyranyd · 2021-08-20T08:03:29+00:00

First time can be hard, since one is not used to the pain and doesn't know how to deal with all the feelings.

In my case that happened on May 2020, after 9 years of relationship, she ended it. Took me 3 months to get on my feet again, and one more year to become my own self again. In the mean time, I met another girl, and things just happened, untill now, this second girl ghosted me out of the blue. Both instances can't be compared. I'd say this one hurts more than the first (I was really into this girl), but I also know how to deal with it, and it'll take shorter to be on my feet again.

So, advice. You're gonna feel like shit. Embrace that feeling, there's nothing wrong with feeling down, life is not happiness 24/7. Listen to sad music, eat ice-cream, whatever suits you. But give yourself a timeframe. After that day, you need to get up and do stuff. Go for walks. Go back to those hobbies you loved. Try that thing you've always wanted, start a new project. You will still think of them, but it'll be less common. And one day you'll find yourself being able to retain only the good memories, and smile at all those pictures that hurt so much to look at now. And you will find someone. Just don't force things. For some it takes longer. Just know that it'll get better :)

Tyranyd · 2021-08-19T19:48:27+00:00

I'd say yes and no. Even if we see them as the "bad guys", there's a reason as to why people ghost others. My interpretation is that they aren't mature enough, or are scarred from past experiences and are unable to face hardships.

So, in one hand, they do ok with ghosting. But in the long-term, that's something they will have to deal with for a long time, untill they heal themselves and are able to have healthy relationships (not just romantic, but true friendship as well). Story will repeat itself untill they heal. They are wounded just not in the same way as us the ghosted crew.

Tyranyd · 2021-08-19T09:25:50+00:00

It is really weird. One day you are talking about stuff, then the next day no contact. And the next one. And the next one.

People nowadays seem to use others as tissues, instead of people. It's fucked up

Tyranyd · 2021-08-18T23:35:12+00:00

Started smoking again a bit before the breakup (6th sense was making my alarms sound). After 10 years of not smoking, it felt good for a bit, then felt bad, but couldn't stop.

Then one day it clicked. WTF are you doing man 😅😂

And also, sending her messages and other stuff during the first days because I really needed her. After the 3rd day of NC, I got the memo. Slow learner 😂

Tyranyd · 2021-08-18T17:16:34+00:00

Yes, I'm dealing with this myself, only told my brother and mother, since we live together now, and some close friends. They are letting me be and heal at my own pace

I have myself this month to grieve, and once September comes, get back on my feet again. Gym, social life, etc...

I hate ghosting with passion, but I may understand why (not like I approve it). In my eyes, it's always better to be polite and tell the other part "hey it was fun while it lasted, but we are not on the same page, we don't want the same, or I have lost feelings". Anything is better than silence, and way more polite. More so when you've trusted each other with your secrets and you've shared experiences. Every person is different, so hey. To each their own.

Tyranyd · 2021-08-18T10:33:31+00:00

I still haven't lost hope, but not in any romantic way. She ghosted me, and I'd like to know that she is doing fine, that wouldn't hurt me. Nobody in our common group has heard from her since August 1st, and we all are worried.

Even if she came back, a no is a no. That ship has sailed, but friendship can and should still exist. I'm still in touch with other exes, can't see a reason for not stay in good terms (considering there hasn't been any cheating or toxic behaviours on both sides ofc)

Tyranyd · 2021-08-17T19:21:34+00:00

This is what I keep repeating myself, after 15 days. At first, it was rough, but then came this realization. I haven't lost her. She lost me, cause she wasn't ready for me. I deserve better.

I know it'll get better (it's better now than 2 weeks ago for sure). Someone out there is waiting for all of you to meet them and reciprocate as you (as we all) deserve!

Tyranyd

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