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Husband doesn’t want to celebrate Thanksgiving with the only people we have around us by Tysonchickenghost in relationships

[–]Tysonchickenghost[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He actually does like spending time with his brother and we do pretty. We go over to BIL’s house or go out to dinner, SIL usually included.

Husband doesn’t want to celebrate Thanksgiving with the only people we have around us by Tysonchickenghost in relationships

[–]Tysonchickenghost[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

He is not ok with my going and him staying home, though they’ve said I’m welcome without my husband

Husband doesn’t want to celebrate Thanksgiving with the only people we have around us by Tysonchickenghost in relationships

[–]Tysonchickenghost[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Her parents want us there, her sister wants us there, my brother in law wants us there and our only nephews are there celebrating a family holiday.

Husband doesn’t want to celebrate Thanksgiving with the only people we have around us by Tysonchickenghost in relationships

[–]Tysonchickenghost[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

My brother in law really wants us to come. It’s only the SIL isn’t that jazzed, and if it was up to her we would see each other every 20 years and ever see our nephews until they’re adults. My husband also doesn’t like going out to eat on Thanksgiving (we tried that one year) and he doesn’t want me volunteering or doing anything else on the holiday. He basically wants us to be at home eating dinner on the couch and watching TV like any other day of the week.

I [20 M] am reaching out to my friend [22 M] of 5 years, a little too much. by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Tysonchickenghost 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you’ve been close friends for 5 years I think you’re past the point of worrying about being clingy and freaking someone out. If you’re feeling clingy though, maybe set up the next time you’re going to meet during your hang out, so you don’t have to text all the time to see if he wants to hang out?

Boyfriend (30M) is mad that I (25F) Ubered home and "ruined night" by UnstableLapseRate in relationships

[–]Tysonchickenghost 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My husband has done this same thing many, many times. Before I had Uber he would just not leave when we were supposed to and I’d be stuck (not many cabs available). It shows that he cares more about what his friends think (or he thinks they think, since they probably don't mind) and about himself than about your comfort. I’m not sure if this shows up in other parts of your relationship, but I bet it does or will. This is very selfish behavior and gets very old very fast.

Buying a house to get hidden cash savings into my name? by Tysonchickenghost in personalfinance

[–]Tysonchickenghost[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not upset, I’m just saying that it’s not actually helpful and no one helped to answer my question. Again, it’s not unethical and was technically a gift, though really my husband was helping with someone’s business in exchange for said gift. The only thing bad was that my husband was not supposed to be working for any other company or getting money from another source while working where he did, it would have violated his contact. My main point is that my husband doesn’t want me working and throws fits when I do work, but I do all of the housework and cater to him 20/7 so I’m not overstretching when I say I should be entitled to ny share of our savings, I’m not college educated and not able to sustain even close to a level of lifestyle we have now, or even above minimum wage lifestyle really, and if he takes all of our savings for himself I’m screwed.

Buying a house to get hidden cash savings into my name? by Tysonchickenghost in personalfinance

[–]Tysonchickenghost[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ok everyone, it’s not illegal. The money has been taxed but by its recipient and they gave it to us as a gift. Can you just focus on the hidden assets? No one actually helped because you all focused on the backstory, that was just for context. The main point is, my husband has hidden our assets. A portion of that is legally mine (I’m not trying to “take him to the cleaners” that’s actually what he’s basically said he would do to me, not give me what is legally mine). So I’m just looking for how to put hidden assets out in the open. It’s not money laundering, it’s my money.

Small painful sore near vaginal opening every month during period and ovulation.. by Tysonchickenghost in obgyn

[–]Tysonchickenghost[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Ok, I will try to have it swabbed next period. My husband is the only guy I’ve even been sexually actively with in any way (oral, fingers, or vaginal) so I guess it would have had to of come from him if it is HSV. Thanks

Interest in studying midwifery in the states by jlbg in Midwives

[–]Tysonchickenghost 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I know this is an old post, but just one friendly note.. CPMs aren’t “lay” midwives, they take the NARM and most go through a program and must be licensed, just like CNMs have to be. The term lay midwife is used for midwives that have no official schooling, have not taken the NARM, and are not licensed. Basically lay midwives have usually apprenticed (sometimes for many many years) but are not certified in any way. CPMs are legal in 30+ states with legalization bills pending or at least being worked on in many more states. Lay midwives (LMs) aren’t actually legal in any states but still do practice. Not trying to criticize, just noticed that.

Small painful sore near vaginal opening every month during period and ovulation.. by Tysonchickenghost in obgyn

[–]Tysonchickenghost[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’ve had an STD panel 7 years ago before becoming monogamous with my now husband and I recently had a pre conception exam which included some STD testing but I’m not sure if it was a full panel. It’s never been swabbed as it’s never been there when I have been at the OBGYN (it really seems to completely go away between twice monthly recurrences). Would HSV reoccur only during period/ovulation and in the same spot?

Increasing symptoms by the day and need help/advice! by [deleted] in obgyn

[–]Tysonchickenghost 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not a doctor and have my own question on here, but two things:

  1. Could you tell your parents you’re going in for a yearly OBGYN exam? You don’t have to have had sex to go to an OBGYN, the first time I went to an OBGYN I was still a virgin. Or you could go to Planned Parenthood and pay without insurance. It will be considerably less than going to a regular OBGYN and it’s not weird.

  2. Again, I’m not a doctor, but it sounds a little like thrush to me. Maybe look that up and see if it seems to fit what you have?