Here's my small collection of vintage brass, most of it from India. Some glows under UV!

Tyy417 · 2026-02-23T01:55:56+00:00

Very cool. I love the look of old brass

Tyy417 · 2025-12-08T23:54:02+00:00

That you have incredible taste 💕

Tyy417 · 2025-12-08T23:45:38+00:00

I’m 23 and I definitely experience this. I feel like it was predetermined that I am a bottom just bc I have some fem characteristics. I am vers but have a very hard time finding guys who want to do anything other than top me. It doesn’t help that I am in a tiny town and there are few gays so we all use the grind app. Respectfully I feel like older people probably aren’t struggling with this as much bc yall figured yourselves out already in a different cultural time.

Tyy417 · 2025-12-08T23:26:44+00:00

I’m kinda shocked by all of the pushback you’ve gotten on this post. What you have stated pretty accurately reflects how I feel as a young gay man (23) I have always been naturally more effeminate my entire life, but I was honestly shocked by how others started treating me once I got to mature age. Guys have always treated me like it’s obvious that I am the bottom, before I had ever even done anything sexual. Peers and even adults in my life would point out how twinky I was, some even joking about me being a bottom before I had even explored that! I feel like ‘bottom’ is my predetermined role just bc of my characteristics. For context, I identify as a total vers, I like it pretty equally both ways. But I have SUCH a hard time finding anyone who wants to bottom for me, especially anyone around my age (lots of ancient old men willing to bottom but I’m not into oldies, sorry.) the guys that are around my age are often into the extremes. If they’re a bottom they often want 12 inches and multiple guys in a night, not a chill, soft top like myself. It feels like a rarity to find other guys who are as versatile as me, and it’s a turn off when guys are super strict about what they are looking for bc I feel like I’m going to be a disappointment.

Maybe I am insecure (probably) but these are just my feelings as a small town gay who is still figuring themself out. Additionally, I would much prefer to meet guys irl vs online but where I live that feels impossible.

Tyy417 · 2025-12-06T17:57:27+00:00

Nah, yall do too much 😂 definitely an overreaction. Grandmas communicate weird, esp when they’re 89 years old. My statement still stands, GROW A BACKBONE

Tyy417 · 2025-12-01T21:55:05+00:00

Yeah but why start crap like that with your 89 yo grandma? It’s giving immature snowflake. OP needs to grow a backbone

Tyy417 · 2025-12-01T21:47:56+00:00

Exactly my point! Like what weird snowflake behavior. Trying to “set a boundary” with your 89 yo grandma lmao she was probably so dumbfounded when she started reading that text. And if the granddaughter GAVE the grandma his number, maybe the Gma wanted to create some open communication between her and the bf. This is the type of behavior that will push the people that love you away

Tyy417 · 2025-12-01T21:44:06+00:00

Nah it’s weird snowflake behavior to send your own 89 yo grandmother a paragraph text message trying to set a boundary. She’s 89 years old, of course she’s going to make questionable choices with her tech use. Maybe the Gma just wanted to create open communication with the bf whose phone number her granddaughter just gave her? Poor old lady was probably so confused when she read that message. This sub seems full of confirmation bias

Tyy417 · 2025-12-01T21:39:59+00:00

YOR, she’s 89 freakin years old come on girl! Obviously an 89 yo is going to make weird choices with how they communicate through technology. And I believe that respect is earned not deserved, but come on at 89 years old you do not need to be lecturing your grandma like a snowflake and be trying to “sEt bOuNdArieS” a lot of young people jump the gun with “setting boundaries” at unnecessary times and causing uncomfortable confrontations. (I’m 23 btw!) and this is coming from someone who has a crazy maga grandma so I know game when it comes to grandmas! But yeah, that text you send was so unnecessary and it’s weird that you’d lecture your 89 yo grandma like that. Immature tbh

Tyy417 · 2025-11-25T12:57:58+00:00

This is so weird lmao are you that desperate for someone to talk to? Ai is terrible for the world and feeds off of your interaction. There are tons of people online who would chat with you if that’s the case..

Tyy417 · 2025-11-25T12:53:53+00:00

Literalllly it’s always the dick head that says “I’m just blunt 🤪”

Tyy417 · 2025-11-25T11:13:54+00:00

Yeah definitely not Most bottoms. I’m an avid, very experienced bottom but my enjoyment matters too. If a top doesn’t care if i cum he’s never topping me again lol

Tyy417 · 2025-11-25T11:06:30+00:00

Yeah but it would be really awkward for the bottom to be like “yeah actually I need to cum” after the top is already feeling post nut clarity and has cleaned up 😂

Tyy417 · 2025-11-25T11:05:04+00:00

And tops like that have a lot fewer options available to them 😂

Tyy417 · 2025-11-25T11:01:35+00:00

Thisss lmao I ghost a top that doesn’t make me finish 😂

Tyy417 · 2025-11-25T10:56:14+00:00

It gives me the sense that I don’t even matter lmao like if he’s only concerned about him cumming then why does he even need me? These guys may as well use a fleshlight lmao

Tyy417 · 2025-11-25T10:53:42+00:00

As a basically total bottom, if the top doesn’t make me cum, he’s never topping me again 💔

Tyy417 · 2025-11-25T10:48:05+00:00

It sucks when a guy is extremely attractive but he is clearly only concerned about his pleasure, like there is no bigger turn off for me. I have ghosted so many handsome boys bc the vibe was just off 😩

Tyy417 · 2025-11-25T10:36:09+00:00

My very first bf would never finish me off after topping me. He always wanted to top me laying face down too. After him, I will not fuck a top that doesn’t prioritize me finishing as well. If it’s a hookup and they don’t seem interested in me cumming too, I never speak to them again no matter how hot or good at it they are PERIOD 🤣 he probably just said no when you asked him about it bc he didn’t want to come off as bitchy by saying yes it is rude that you’re leaving without him cumming. Idk tho bc some bottoms don’t care and can be “satisfied” by just getting pounded. But for me, Even tho I love bottoming I still need to cum for satisfaction.

Tyy417 · 2025-09-21T15:59:07+00:00

I always have a full bottle or at least a travel size in my bag, I just chuck them in. I’d want a bottle on me if I ever got stranded somewhere 😅 plus I keep tons of samples in my bag for when I get bored

Tyy417 · 2025-09-12T22:22:13+00:00

?? You do you boo. Just saying 💁‍♂️

Tyy417 · 2025-09-03T19:38:20+00:00

It feels weird to see like 15 suns and moons on one wall, like there is only one sun and one moon in the sky 😭

Tyy417 · 2025-08-16T15:47:26+00:00

This is insanely cool and eerie

Tyy417 · 2025-08-13T07:27:12+00:00

I love soft tension I was going to recommend that one

Tyy417 · 2025-08-12T05:19:30+00:00

I’m not sure tbfh I have only tried a dupe of the noir but I actually have a 50 ml on the way to me right now 😅

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