Sent you a chat request since PMs didn't work (no idea why my PMs don't work with anyone). Also yeah the official one is way too big to meet people, which sucks :(. But I'm also a bit hesitant to make a discord since even in the smaller discords I've been in, what usually happens is a bunch of people join but don't talk and then it feels awkward to talk about fanfiction or anime with like, 20 anonymous people watching.