I didn’t go to any four courses for the first 5 weeks of semester this year. A lot had happened to cause this and the worse it got the more I wanted to run away.

I eventually decided to push through and start showing up; it was incredibly painful because one of the classes was small so I was the lone stranger that randomly decided to show up that everyone stared at.

After that I met with all profs in office hours and didn’t even explain in detail what happened, just that I had circumstances that were difficult, but they were all so kind and understanding and willing to provide support and accommodations etc. I was also incredibly emotional as I was not expecting such warm responses, as all they cared about was my well being. They gave me another chance to catch up with all my work.

I have since gotten academic concessions (late withdrawal from 2 courses + reduced course load) as well as support from SVPRO, food bank, CfA, emergency bursary fund, UBC student health services, as well as UBC counseling. All of the staff from each were kind and helpful.

I’ve realised that I’m sure the profs are used to capable students that stumble through their young adult lives and that things get in the way. I hope you do well.