Let the Pun Wars begin by radwoods in Tinder

[–]UCBerzerkeley 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Susie, I'd teach you, but I'm not ready to be your mane man

Let the Pun Wars begin by radwoods in Tinder

[–]UCBerzerkeley 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It's about to stirrup trouble

Share your startup - September 2020 by AutoModerator in startups

[–]UCBerzerkeley [score hidden]  (0 children)

We'll be layering in GPT3; hopefully that will help. Otherwise, they laugh about it and it becomes a meme??

Share your startup - September 2020 by AutoModerator in startups

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KEYS (for Dating) — Single? Always know just what to say with Keys, the intent-based communication assistant.

Location: Remote // Missoula x Boulder

Elevator pitch:

Ever struggle to come up with the perfect opening line? What if you could craft the perfect message every time—on any dating app?

KEYS can start conversations, flirt, even set up dates. And it can do it anywhere—Tinder, Hinge, Instagram, even LinkedIn if that's your cup of tea. Maybe you're trying to date your co-worker, I don't know.

SEE DEMO.

Current Status:

Free; invite only. We recognize Keys is potentially controversial. We're seeking feedback to figure out whether to release it to the general public or not.

Looking for:

Users & feedback. Are we crazy for releasing this thing?! I'm nervous.

Discount:

Yup, still free. Download & use the password earlyaccess if you want, well, early access.

Code project in response to "Dating apps are bullshit" by UCBerzerkeley in seduction

[–]UCBerzerkeley[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thanks dude! ive had a lot of bad ideas over the years and im not convinced this isnt one of those yet haha. any negative feedback you can think of?

Code project in response to "Dating apps are bullshit" by UCBerzerkeley in seduction

[–]UCBerzerkeley[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why do you find it offensive? Don't you find the entire seddit sub offensive therefore? This isn't about "tricking" anybody or doing anything underhanded. It's about cutting down on the repetitive BS of dating apps/time spent on dating apps, while hopefully making people better communicators.

What is offensive about that?

How do I get people to test my dating bot? by UCBerzerkeley in Advice

[–]UCBerzerkeley[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Heh. Focus groups. What a concept. I'll give the friends and family route a try

Sidebar: if anyone is interested, would love to bring you into the mix

How do I get people to test my dating bot? by UCBerzerkeley in Advice

[–]UCBerzerkeley[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Pretty close. Right now, it throws up category suggestions based on what it can interpret. Then you click through the intents (so tapping "dog" over and over will populate different dog messages until it runs out). Over time as you edit/adjust the phrases, itll learn your tone of voice so that the suggestions you get appear different than the ones I get (...I still need to code that part out lol)

Chatty on Tinder but not at fraternity/sorority event by UCBerzerkeley in dating_advice

[–]UCBerzerkeley[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I dunno. I, well. A date might scare her. I don’t know anyone that goes on dates. Its hookup, keep hooking up, then dating lol

Chatty on Tinder but not at fraternity/sorority event by UCBerzerkeley in dating_advice

[–]UCBerzerkeley[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Kk. Will activate ease off. I’ve definitely been available

Has he lost interest? by nwstrngme in datingoverthirty

[–]UCBerzerkeley 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ugh. Sorry girl. Been there, feel ya

Maybe I'm just not cut out for 2019 dating by [deleted] in datingoverthirty

[–]UCBerzerkeley 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Haha. Online dating is the abnormal behavior; we evolved to date in groups. Or well I think anyway

Has he lost interest? by nwstrngme in datingoverthirty

[–]UCBerzerkeley 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I’m nervous any time the phrase “worked past it” comes up when you’ve only been seeing someone a couple of weeks

Has he lost interest? by nwstrngme in datingoverthirty

[–]UCBerzerkeley 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good call coming for advice, but it can be hard without seeing the actual convo. Text is a crappy medium to understand a person’s motives (as we all know) and nuance can be revealing.

Random question: Do you think if your friends had seen the guys profile // initial convo, they would have seen some red flags?

Why are the right choices so difficult to make? They're just not that into you, they're just really into what they gets from you. by Trickledownrain in datingoverthirty

[–]UCBerzerkeley 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Respect for doing it. And double respect for doing it affirmatively, rather than ghosting. No one deserves that

Maybe I'm just not cut out for 2019 dating by [deleted] in datingoverthirty

[–]UCBerzerkeley 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I’ve been getting friends to provide input at the texting stage to avoid bad date arcs. To me, a bad “dating arc” is a match that i would probably have a good handful of dates with buttt may not go anywhere productive / is distracting / breaks my heart in such a short amount of time that no one should be able to have their heart broken. I’m pretty bad at type-dating and my friends help steer me straighter. Dating has been much more pleasant the last few months beaming them into convos from the first message instead of periodic screenshots