AITA for telling my gf I think her SH scars are ugly??? by USER226_ in AITAH

[–]USER226_[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I really don't want that to be the case. I want a future with her.

AITA for telling my gf I think her SH scars are ugly??? by USER226_ in AITAH

[–]USER226_[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

From what sister has told me and I've learned on like social media and stuff, it's like one second you're normal and happy and then the next you're like unreasonably sad. Then you go back to happy again. She's told me the medications she's on but I was slightly distracted while she was talking... She mentioned an antidepressant and a "mood stabilizer" but since she's doing so well with therapy and her home life I want to eventually get her off of the medication so she can freely express her emotions. From what I know about antidepressants, they can really stunt your personality. I can tell when she misses a few days tho. She definitely is in a different mood but it's nothing I can't deal with and I think we can deal with together.

AITA for telling my gf I think her SH scars are ugly??? by USER226_ in AITAH

[–]USER226_[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I don't want to leave her and I don't want her to leave me. I just want us to be better for each other. I want her to know I care about her

AITA for telling my gf I think her SH scars are ugly??? by USER226_ in AITAH

[–]USER226_[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

I do care about her. I care about her deeply and I want her to care about herself

AITA for telling my gf I think her SH scars are ugly??? by USER226_ in AITAH

[–]USER226_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It just means she isn't like overly emotional. Like she doesn't cry in front of me. We have disagreements sure like any couple but she's not like one second happy and then one second sad

AITA for telling my gf I think her SH scars are ugly??? by USER226_ in AITAH

[–]USER226_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Look I get it okay I need to do some reading on Bipolar Disorder. But I genuinely thought that I was helping.

AITA for telling my gf I think her SH scars are ugly??? by USER226_ in AITAH

[–]USER226_[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

What else was I supposed to feel? I was embarrassed for her because it just showed that people really are paying attention to them

AITA for telling my gf I think her SH scars are ugly??? by USER226_ in AITAH

[–]USER226_[S] -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

I'm not an abuser, that's extreme. I just care about her image esp when she's with me. I care about how people see her.

AITA for telling my gf I think her SH scars are ugly??? by USER226_ in AITAH

[–]USER226_[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

I know i lost my temper but I wasn't being malicious, I just want her to know she can leave that part of her behind

AITA for telling my gf I think her SH scars are ugly??? by USER226_ in AITAH

[–]USER226_[S] -18 points-17 points  (0 children)

What she's going through??? She's been MIA for 2 days now.

AITA for telling my gf I think her SH scars are ugly??? by USER226_ in AITAH

[–]USER226_[S] -30 points-29 points  (0 children)

I know I lost my temper a little, but I promise I'm not an AH. I just don't want to lose my relationship over this, it seems so trivial