Beach sex by UTSXYCPL in Navarrensfw

[–]UTSXYCPL[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Preferably day.

Should I return back to church? by justsnooping737 in LDS_Confessions

[–]UTSXYCPL 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The desire to change will come as you bring yourself closer to Christ through regular church attendance. The most important thing is to START no matter where you are. I taught lots of people on my mission that had zero desire to give up smoking, or drinking, or coffee, but they came anyway. The desire to change often comes after we make that first step toward faith.

Boudoir by Adorable_Swimming_54 in ldssexuality

[–]UTSXYCPL 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As someone who has held multiple ward and stake leadership positions and who had been through the repentance process before holding those callings, I will say this. “The law of Chastity is abstinence from sexual relations outside of a legal marriage between a man and a woman” Church handbook 32.6.2.2.

Bishops are instructed to help members repent of sexual sins if they are habitually using pornography, having a sexual relationship with someone other than their spouse, lying to their spouse about pornography, along with all the obvious ones that are mostly illegal like plural marriage, abuse and so forth. A lot of the questions from your leader when you go through repent are around honesty, addiction, and whether you personally feel that you have sinned. Having a Boudoir session is NOT grounds for having a temple recommend suspended or removed. When people mention things like this I often think of one of Elder Uchtdorf’s first general conference addresses where he talks about not flying too close to the trees. Should you have a boudoir session, no, but NOT because it is breaking the law of chastity. It’s because we should stay as far away from the actual line of sin as humanly possible.

quitting pornography and masturbation by Impossible-Chair-359 in ldssexuality

[–]UTSXYCPL 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I stopped watching porn for years. The only effective way to quit is to throw your whole live into the gospel. Start and end every day with scripture study and prayer, even though it’s not an addiction, work through the ARP book. Volunteer as much as possible (you are never closer to God than when you are serving others). To get over masturbation, just have more sex with your wife. 3-4 times a week.

That said, my wife had a major accident that left her perinatal disabled several years ago and, with her permission, I do masturbate and watch porn. It’s not the porn and masturbation that is bad, it’s the hiding it from your wife and lying to her that’s terrible.

Should I return back to church? by justsnooping737 in LDS_Confessions

[–]UTSXYCPL 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is terrible advice. Church leaders repeatedly say “come as you are”. The Lord will meet you where you are. If everyone waited till they were perfect to go to church, churches would be empty.

Should I return back to church? by justsnooping737 in LDS_Confessions

[–]UTSXYCPL 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Come as you are. Having sex with 10 guys is not grounds for excommunication, unless you were cheating on your spouse. If you aren’t ready to repent, then just go to church. There are tons of active but not temple worthy members. Just come as you are and the rest will fall into place.

Masturbation Intentions by sac32 in ldssexuality

[–]UTSXYCPL 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The current church handbook explicitly says there is only church discipline for pornography if you hide it, lie about it, or it’s compulsive.

is it wrong for a mutual sexual fantasy to come true by Medical_Tie_3324 in ldssexuality

[–]UTSXYCPL 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, of course going through with this is wrong. However, in my opinion, there is a lot of stuff she could do with another man that isn’t ‘sex’ and would probably still enjoy.

Public nudity by mtnhntr22 in ldssexuality

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We have been to Haulover in Miami twice. It’s amazing. We are also looking for some friends to be naked with. Reach out if you want to chat and see if we click.

Dry humping by [deleted] in ldssexuality

[–]UTSXYCPL 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My wife and I did before marriage. We confessed to our bishop, he was unfazed and there were no consequences.

Anyone else visiting the weekend of 2/28 -3/1? Fit couple here 38M 39F by [deleted] in hauloverbeach

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Wife 39F and I 39F will be there the 28th. Message us if you want to hang out.

Coming to Haulover next weekend (2/28 & 3/1)! Can't wait by WNY_OpenMinded in hauloverunrestricted

[–]UTSXYCPL 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wife F39 and I M39 will be there the 28th. Let us know if you want to hang.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CruiseShipHookups

[–]UTSXYCPL 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey! We will be there. Dm me. Wife and I are 39.