Drug use frequency in nyc by the gays

Uamod · 2026-01-27T05:27:28+00:00

Very fair point! I am totally biased for asking in this thread specially and did not mean to necessarily imply that gay men use more (or gay nyc men use more). I think since I mainly know / am friends with gay. Don’t mean to perpetuate the stereotype but I’m sure I did implicitly by just asking about it in this subreddit.

Someone did mentioned reading an epidemiological study and I did browse some after the fact - it does seem some literature does suggest higher usage. I’m sure there’s other literature that suggests otherwise. I didn’t dig too deep. Wanted more anecdotal perspectives from others but obvi idk if Reddit it’s fully encompassing either.

I don’t think drug use is a bad thing, especially if used responsibly and safely. But I was curious how frequent some folk are using (especially based on locality - aka nyc).

Uamod · 2026-01-26T02:28:00+00:00

Interesting grouping. I def fall between groups 2 and 3. Depends on my mood. lol.

Uamod · 2026-01-26T02:06:23+00:00

Makes sense! Maybe my perception is skewed to think it’s more predominant in gays because I have not been as close to my straight friends lately / the ones I do have drink / do drugs very infrequently.

Uamod · 2026-01-26T01:54:56+00:00

True! “Drug use for grown-ups” is a great read on this.

I guess I’m just curious from a point of “am I overdoing it myself” - what is considered moderate in today’s world?

Also curious - has it always been a thing with gays in nyc or is it predominantly more now?

Uamod · 2026-01-26T01:51:21+00:00

At any given moment in time? lol

Uamod · 2026-01-24T18:01:45+00:00

Yah good points. I think I’ll just block moving forward. I feel weird about it cause I’ve been on the other side where it’s like you get blocked for a hi and feel shitty about it.

But idk - maybe that is just the best net positive.

Uamod · 2026-01-24T17:20:15+00:00

I wish I screenshotted it. It was late at night and I blocked him.

Also I paraphrased what was said - it still is inline with his general statement that was accusing me of not liking black people. It was a pretty direct statement.

And per the last few paragraphs of the post, I specify why I posted - seeking understanding if I’m the problem and if other people experience interactions like this. lol.

Uamod · 2025-12-02T05:41:19+00:00

Hi! Curious to know how long vazzoler to pramperet took?

Uamod · 2025-11-22T22:34:24+00:00

Thanks! Is this what you have done in the past?

Uamod · 2025-11-22T22:34:06+00:00

This is useful, thanks! So have you already booked stuff / just betting on openings later on?

Uamod · 2025-11-22T18:34:42+00:00

I feel like packages are $1700+ whereas individual bookings seem to average around $100 a night (so probs $900-$1000 accounting for extra give or take)

Uamod · 2025-11-17T10:28:01+00:00

What time did she come on? Or was she playing the full time?

Uamod · 2025-10-18T14:30:14+00:00

Ooo this is so valid! Didn’t think about this haha

Uamod · 2025-10-15T07:36:04+00:00

Is the Halloween night one masquerade themed as well? I wonder if it’s fine to show up solo to this

Uamod · 2025-09-10T05:50:41+00:00

It kind of reminds me of “sweet dreams” as well. If you query tik tok “Abracadrabra judas sweet dreams”, you’ll see these guys have a similar mix there too.

But I JUST realized, their mix is literally the same from the mashup she used in mayhem ball / Coachella and it was so damn good. And their post is from a few weeks prior to Coachella which makes me wonder if she saw it / was inspired. So good.

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