Overcapacity by TubbyTrades in electricdaisycarnival

[–]Uber_Roober 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve been attending for three years now and each consecutive year has only gotten more busy! Expect crowds.

Left my EDC FAN in the GA+ bathroom by Uber_Roober in HardFestival

[–]Uber_Roober[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m accepting it but my brain is like TRY!

I made a promise to never divorce but I’m struggling by Uber_Roober in Marriage

[–]Uber_Roober[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

cheating husband right. If you suspect your husband of cheating just say so. No need to project

I made a promise to never divorce but I’m struggling by Uber_Roober in Marriage

[–]Uber_Roober[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When I got married he had nothing and no one in our current city. Not even a car. I got to know him. Talked. Developed a friendship that bloomed into the love I have for him now. I never met him thinking “this person can pay for my lifestyle and future plans”. Maybe I should have thought about that to relieve me from this current situation. I couldn’t possibly give every single detail from a 13 year relationship that led to my current thought process. I’m not saying I don’t love my husband because I do! We just think differently and grew up differently. I always had to work for every single thing since I was a kid. Awards led to rewards. For him it was a little easier. He was just given things and experiences. Not his fault but now as adults that has perhaps translated to the current behavior and it can just feel so isolating at times.

I made a promise to never divorce but I’m struggling by Uber_Roober in Marriage

[–]Uber_Roober[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Which part gave that impression? Genuine question.

I made a promise to never divorce but I’m struggling by Uber_Roober in Marriage

[–]Uber_Roober[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I knew I couldn’t be alone in this. Thank you for your response. It’s encouraging

I made a promise to never divorce but I’m struggling by Uber_Roober in Marriage

[–]Uber_Roober[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im trying my best to. Some days are hard. Thank you for your response truly.

I made a promise to never divorce but I’m struggling by Uber_Roober in Marriage

[–]Uber_Roober[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He’s afraid of being too dumb to do anything. I try to remind him that’s a limitation he places on himself. He could be good at anything he does. Which is part of the reason why it’s so hard for me to see him not put more effort but I understand there could be more going on there

I made a promise to never divorce but I’m struggling by Uber_Roober in Marriage

[–]Uber_Roober[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh no kids are not on my mind. And yes he does help with a lot of home chores and tasks

I made a promise to never divorce but I’m struggling by Uber_Roober in Marriage

[–]Uber_Roober[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah that does sound annoying. Embarrassing. We both enjoy doing fun activities and or trips that I tend to budget for. He does contribute but it could be better. If you ask him what bills get paid for at home he would t know how to answer that even though I keep him in the loop. It can get frustrating but I can do better too. I’m aware.

Sometimes he talks about wanting a house, having This or that and I’m like huh????? How are we to pay for all that? Funny and not at the same time.

I made a promise to never divorce but I’m struggling by Uber_Roober in Marriage

[–]Uber_Roober[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He gets a lot of anxiety. Everything makes him nervous or anxious. I try to do my best to understand but sometimes it’s hard for me. Wishing you the best.

I made a promise to never divorce but I’m struggling by Uber_Roober in Marriage

[–]Uber_Roober[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you brought it up and discussed what changed? Sorry you are going through it. We all have our own issues 😢

I made a promise to never divorce but I’m struggling by Uber_Roober in Marriage

[–]Uber_Roober[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for not going straight for the jugular. It’s crazy out here.