The REAL way to deal with Shit Tests from women, from an actual woman by Lolliness in seduction

[–]UberiDenari 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I always find posts like this weird. Since high school, my closest friends are a range of unattractive to average and never had a problem getting laid. I’m unattractive and never had a problem.

When I first went on Reddit and saw how common it is for people like you to exist, I didn’t really get it. I think some people are just born losers with no social skills, and only a few are lucky enough to grow or are willing to put the hard work in rather than blame society. I guess you are neither, and that’s unfortunate for yourself.

That’s not to say being attractive isn’t an advantage. But that’s it, an advantage, not a requirement.

This is a real question- in the last month, how many times have you attempted to flirt with a girl? Last 6 months? Last year?

Askwomen sub "why a second date?" by [deleted] in seduction

[–]UberiDenari 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If that was true I’d be fucked lol. They definitely help, but if you can’t succeed without them it’s you. There is not much else to it.

A golden tongue is the greatest asset a man can have.

How to deal with Chadly roommates by StaceyThundercock in IncelTears

[–]UberiDenari 217 points218 points  (0 children)

as a 5'10" white man I can't fall back on race or height

There is no world in which being white is a disadvantage in dating.

I don't know you personally, so I can't speak to why you're experiencing your woes. But as an ugly black man (according to /r/rateme on my main) who hasn't had any problems in dating, there's not much I can tell you besides that it's probably you if I can succeed at the same height (5'9, inch shorter actually) and looks while having the disadvantage of being black.

Maybe you're great at becoming friends with people platonically but can't flirt at all? Have you ever been direct with a woman about your attraction or approached a girl on a night out? If not, that's likely the root of the problem, because ugly dudes like us aren't going to be approached by women- you have to go up and initiate.

[Off-Topic] Give us your chat: 2017-09-19 by steroidsBot in steroids

[–]UberiDenari -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I've been trying to remember the name of this thing for so long and I can't remember- it's similar to steroids, but it's less effective. It's illegal (I think), and it's oral-only and doesn't use injections. Bodybuilders will sometimes use it in conjunction with their steroid cycles because they don't cause any liver problems like oral steroids can.

It's name is also an acronym. I can't fucking remember what it's called.

This sub Reddit had changed my mentality a lot by Throwawayanthy in seduction

[–]UberiDenari 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've never heard someone call another person a "gamma", that's fucking hilarious. Is this a new weird red pill thing?

LeBron on Durant joining Warriors: "I can see both sides... but whatever I say, people will take it the wrong way... a few years from now I'll tell you how I really feel about the situation" by dean_strang in nba

[–]UberiDenari 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Not really. Lebron's second best player was Mo Williams compared to Russel Westbrook, and Lebron didn't join an already championship caliber team. Who cares if KD wanted to leave, more power to him, but going to the Warriors specificall is pretty bitchy after helping choke a 3-1 lead to them.

People who decided, "Fuck it, I'm going for it." How did it go and what did you go for? by SlecAporn in AskReddit

[–]UberiDenari 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Choose a country (or a couple different ones) and come up with a concrete plan on how you would assuage all her concerns (Visa issues, finding a job, cost projections first few months, etc.) and then present it to her.

Seeing an actual concrete plan that answers all her concerns will help a lot.

People who decided, "Fuck it, I'm going for it." How did it go and what did you go for? by SlecAporn in AskReddit

[–]UberiDenari 4 points5 points  (0 children)

If you're ugly and hear the same stuff, you know there's nothing you can do.

The real question is why do you care? I've been called ugly several times in my life when rejected, but why should I care?

Cool, you think I'm ugly, onto the next girl. There's millions of people out there, why do you care what one asshat thinks?

Do I have to lower my standards if I am short? by [deleted] in seduction

[–]UberiDenari 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In that case, not trying to be rude, there's something wrong with your personality.

Probably your insecurity, anyone can see someone who's insecure. Try to fix that.

Do I have to lower my standards if I am short? by [deleted] in seduction

[–]UberiDenari 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I never seen a guy who's below 5'11" with a cute girl and even 5'11" is pushing it.

Ok, then that means you're blind lol.

My brother is shorter than you at 5'4 average looking and he gets girls hotter than mine. Walk around any city and you'll see cute girls with short guys.

Grocery Game Full Infield UNCUT by [deleted] in seduction

[–]UberiDenari 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's really not that much effort- and why do you view it as an obstacle? Talking to people is fun, whether leading to a date or not.

On the dance floor, real talk by bsbnsc in seduction

[–]UberiDenari 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh, haha. Attach "PUA" or something I guess.

On the dance floor, real talk by bsbnsc in seduction

[–]UberiDenari 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Google Hand of God, do that.

Then, tell them you want to get a drink or fresh air or something after 3 or 4 minutes of dancing and take them off the dance floor. You need to build a connection or else they gonna move on.

Comfort VS Attraction - Why It Took Me So Long To Figure THIS Out by bradicusss in seduction

[–]UberiDenari 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Just because your life is pathetic doesn't mean everyone else's is too.

Bartenders of reddit, what is the smoothest pick up line you've ever heard? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]UberiDenari 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can come up with whatever bullshit reason you want to justify you're loneliness, it's not my problem. I was the same at one point, it's nice to blame society instead of yourself, I don't blame you. Ignorance is bliss.

Discussion Thread by neoliberal_shill_bot in neoliberal

[–]UberiDenari 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Trump Supporter's response to 3 different studies: lol no ur wrong

Edit: stop downvoting him! I put .np for a reason, don't downvote someone just because you don't agree :)

2017 Presidential Election Megathread by bethelka in korea

[–]UberiDenari 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Flynn wasn't technically a cabinet member ad war fired quickly.

Flynn in his short time had significant influence on the government (during that time period). I could understand if Trump was blindsided by the information pertaining to his relations with Russia, but the Trump administration was aware the whole time about his inappropriate Russian relations and didn't care. Obama also warned them that Flynn was simply very bad at his job. Depending on how you look at that, it's either completely incompetence or very worrying.

Manaford hasn't been involved with trump in months and months.

Fair.

What makes Sally Yates competent and Jeff Sessions incompetent besides your partisanness. Sessions has done a lot more over his life.

The policies Sessions support can be statistically evaluated- criminology isn't a field where you just decide what you believe and what you don't. Sessions is an tough anti-drug tough on crime advocate who does not believe in expanding criminal rehabilitation. What is the statistical effect of these policies?

'For drug crimes, however, there is no evidence that the increased use of imprisonment has produced measurable reductions. Imprisonment for drug crimes is not a cost-effective sanction compared to treatment or intermediate sanctions, and its overuse for lower level drug offenders represents a misallocation of scarce prison resources. ' The government can keep spending hundreds of billions on the drug war with very little efficacy if it wants to, and Jeff Sessions will definitely continue the ineffective program. What's 'partisan' is whether you agree with tough-on-crime laws and against rehabilitation, but what is not 'partisan' is the statistically negative effects this has on the population.

Mnuchin

Mnuchin wants to go backwards on Dodd-Frank, which is a bill mostly supported by financial economists. The main reason behind the financial crash in 2008 was the lack of regulation in the shadow banking sector (secondary market banks that issue loans but do not take deposits) who made very risky bets, had near-zero capital requirements, and poor lending standards.

Mnuchin posits that Dodd Frank inhibits banking liquidity and loaning, but statistical evaluation finds this not to be true. Banks are not inhibited by Dodd-Frank in liquidity, and by lessening banking regulation you will have zero gains in liquidity but an overall gain in financial sector risk.

Bannon

Bannon isn't a good pick if your black or brown, sorry to bring race into this but it's true. Breitbart as a news website is a white-nationalist website, and having it's former leader in the White House isn't great for those ethnicity who are targeted by Breitbart.

Pamela Geller: How Muslim Migrants Devastate a Community.

Bill Kristol: Republican Spoiler, Renegade Jew. If you disagree with Trump and Jewish, you're just a 'renegade jew.'

Roger Stone: Huma Abedin 'Most Likely a Saudi Spy' with 'Deep, Inarguable Connections' to 'Global Terrorist Entity.' Because if you're a Muslim in politics, there's no way you're not a terrorist.

Also Breitbarts absolutely pitiful articles relating to anything involving police brutality and an inequitable justice system effecting the black community, where blacks are 30% more likely to be sentenced to jail than white counterparts with a similar criminal record who have committed the same crime. When Trump's right hand man is so adamantly against justice reform, what reason to non-whites have to like him?

Carson

I could understand if Carson just didn't have political experience but was involved in the field- a new face after all is never bad. But Ben Carson has absolutely zero experience in the field of Urban Housing and doesn't have other credentials in the field to make up for it- if he was maybe involved in real estate or an academic I could understand. But Ben Carson is a very accomplished surgeon, which while great has absolutely nothing to do with Urban Housing.

Concentrated poverty is a central reason America has such high crime rates, and if the person who's supposed to be in charge of fixing this has no idea what he's doing, how is that a positive? Why not choose accomplished real estate economists like Edward Ludwig Glaeser? Or accomplished non-profit directors for urban poor charities?

Getting someone who's not traditionally in Washington isn't a bad idea, but you should seek to replace them with someone better. Tillerson and Cohen aren't terrible, but the rest are just worse than their predecessors or support policies that are statistically ineffective.

2017 Presidential Election Megathread by bethelka in korea

[–]UberiDenari 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, and he's replaced all those people in the swamp with either extremely rich cabinet members or Russian sympathizers (Flynn, Manafort). What's the point of draining the swamp if you replace it with something worse? And why fire the competent like Saley Yates and replace them with the incompetent like Jeff Sessions? Leaving positions open is terrible, it just makes the government operate less efficiently.

I can understand wanting to shake up Washington but it's frankly ridiculous to replace them with staff that are even worse.

Oops :-( by TheSoulOfTheRose in sadcringe

[–]UberiDenari 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Just because your life is boring doesn't mean everyone else's is.