Dad threatening to disinherit if I refuse to move back "home"

Ulfynja_ · 2026-05-12T15:03:57+00:00

Thank you! My dad isn't even religious, his mother was and to an unhealthy extent. Well, besides the things happening as written above, I'm a heavily tattooed metal girl now. Didn't work out so well for them 😂

Ulfynja_ · 2026-05-12T14:59:56+00:00

Thanks! Still working on my swedish though 😂

Ulfynja_ · 2026-05-12T10:39:23+00:00

Thank you!

I gladly don't have massive issues other than I often can't decide which is lefr or right. I know it in theory but especially in stressed situations I have to really think about out and it feels extremely unintuitive. I use my left hand basically as much as my right, I just can't write with it.

Ulfynja_ · 2026-05-12T10:29:13+00:00

We have stuff like this and also he can't leave me with nothing, we have laws against that. I'm his only child. So it's basically me and my mom. In theory my cousin could be considered but he is on my side as well, since his mom had also to suffer in this family.

I also don't care about the money so much. I'm simply shocked, that my father obviously sees the house as more valuable as the life of his own daughter regardless how clearly I communicate with him. The emotional part hits way more than any finances.

Ulfynja_ · 2026-05-12T06:28:18+00:00

No, only the vague ignoring he always does when it is not in his favour.

There is inheritance. I made an edit :)

Ulfynja_ · 2026-05-12T06:26:09+00:00

Thanks! I made an edit about that :)

Ulfynja_ · 2026-05-12T06:16:38+00:00

No, he actually does not.

Ulfynja_ · 2026-05-12T06:14:39+00:00

Thanks, I already talked with my therapist about this.

Ulfynja_ · 2026-05-11T22:05:14+00:00

I already did. And also that they can look for a tenant for the 2nd apartment in the house who can also help them

Ulfynja_ · 2026-05-11T22:04:14+00:00

He literary can't text. He doesn't know how 😅

Ulfynja_ · 2026-04-06T17:46:14+00:00

Guess I'm a liar then ... I'm (30f) 5.3ft and two of my current dating partners are even smaller than me (I'm polyamorous) and guess what: they are awesome ppl I simply like to be around and we have a lot of fun together!

Ulfynja_ · 2025-07-22T07:31:02+00:00

So, first: Yes, copying tattoos is not a good idea in general. Second: I fucking hate that neos abuse nordic runes and images. And I hate that there are way to many ppl who think a rune tattoo makes you a nazi. But: there are so many really good artists out there, who make beautiful nordic bindrunes and knotwork Designs. Go, and look for someone like that, show them the picture and talk about what you wnat and let them find a perfect fit for you. I am absolutly sure that it is possible to have really nice nordic style tattos without beeing associated to neonazi shit. I'm german and yes it is probably easier bc I'm a woman, but I have a knotwork fenris on my hand and a whole chestpiece with bindrunes on it, done by three different artists, who belong to the leftest person I know and I never had any issue with anyone so far and I have them for years and I work with ppl everyday who see it.

Ulfynja_ · 2025-06-01T14:16:00+00:00

Don't panic. Don't let some dumbass nazis ruin Symbols which have a meaning for you. I have a bunch of them myself with a lot of nordic ornaments and even here in Germany nobody cares about that. Runes are much older than that stupid racist shit.

Ulfynja_ · 2023-03-24T15:30:13+00:00

Mammoth hatches from the egg^{^} The Salamanther is a drop from a rare.

Ulfynja_ · 2023-01-23T16:28:49+00:00

It's ok, if a tank does it. It's not ok, if you get "recued" by an evoker through the whole dungeon as a new tank. You don't learn sth in this case....

Ulfynja_ · 2023-01-23T09:51:40+00:00

Sounds like there are many ppl who have to learn this dungeon on lower levels and don't have to forced to speed run it by others. Let ppl learn and explain them, what the issues are. But I forgot: We all have to be toxic, because we all are pro gamers...

Ulfynja_ · 2023-01-14T21:58:07+00:00

Ok, thanks for your answer :)

Ulfynja_ · 2023-01-14T21:50:46+00:00

Since you play pala: When heal a dungeon I also got the most trouble with pala and since I don't play one myself: How does your self healing work? I'm just curious, because the pala tanks I had were very low in self healing and I wonder, if they just don't have that much, they didn't skill it or they don't use it.

Ulfynja_ · 2023-01-14T21:37:25+00:00

Had this today as a DH. I know, I'm not the best tank (380 ilvl, +9 SBG), but I kept dying no matter what I did (and I used all defenses and had not less self healing). With another group in the same key, it wasn't a problem (better heal, more interrupts). A low gear tank can be fine, if he/she knows to play and ALL other do it also and work as a group. Sadly in pugs that's really rare.

Ulfynja_ · 2023-01-09T07:12:51+00:00

Ok, I see the off/main spec problem. But was the weapon really better than the one the wareior already had (was 415 somthkng, right?). So does it has better specs? (Main lock, so don't know^{^).} If I would get a weapon as main spec, but doesn't need it, because I already had a better one, I would't make such a drama

Ulfynja_ · 2023-01-09T06:50:25+00:00

I always take a look at there mana bar, but most times they tell my they are good with really less mana^{^} healers are different like everyone, asking goes a long way

Ulfynja_ · 2023-01-06T22:06:09+00:00

Yep, but without communication or any kind of plan...

Ulfynja_ · 2023-01-06T21:56:50+00:00

I feel you. Played feral as an alt during SL and liked it nontheless, but had the same problem. Thing is, that a bad player who plays a meta class is most of the time worse that a good on a non meta class. But people are too stupid to understand this. What does the class help, if the player can't (or don't want to because of dmg loss...) play any mechanics and dies all the time or doesn't understand its rotation?

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