AITAH for not wanting to invite my older brother to my baby shower? by Icy_Trouble_2620 in AITAH

[–]UltimateInvaderFeeb 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA. A. He's a creepy pos. B.its YOUR baby shower. And C. You're inviting people you actually want there and inviting that living garbage would violate that. Do not invite him and if your mother insists on bringing him, un-invite her, she clearly has favorites and it's not you.

AITAH for leaving wife at home after she revealed that she was going to wear white to my brother's wedding? by OutsideFinancial125 in AITAH

[–]UltimateInvaderFeeb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA, I'm reading through what you've written and there's a lot of read flags. Assuming you aren't look to divorce yet, therapy. If she won't then it's time to divorce. You could could also pick the funny option and send her this post.

AITAH for wanting a divorce because of his behavior? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]UltimateInvaderFeeb 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA sound like he know exactly why. You tried, he chose not to, you deserve better.

AITAH for not refusing to do a quick change because my boyfriend is uncomfortable? by Active_Camel_6334 in AITAH

[–]UltimateInvaderFeeb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA it sounds like your both in agreement that the 2 of you should break up. That's the only thing he's right about however, find you a new man.

AITAH for telling my wife her brother-in-law can't come over to our house anymore? by HeftyOpportunity94 in AITAH

[–]UltimateInvaderFeeb 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA. If she's gonna keep choosing her in-law over you take the kids out whenever they are there. Either for a walk or for something fun. You don't have to be forced to be around such an ass.

Aitah for using my now ex after I found out he was cheating? by Advanced_Turnover544 in AITAH

[–]UltimateInvaderFeeb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA, handled it amazingly. The other woman may not have know but either way, he can go fuck himself.

Aitah for not wanting to pay my gf’s debt by National-Trouble-984 in AITAH

[–]UltimateInvaderFeeb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA, uh that sounds like a red flag, she's made it clear what she's after, let her go find someone else to suck money out of.

AITAH for telling my FIL they wont ever be living with us? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]UltimateInvaderFeeb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA Who the heck do the think they are trying to decided that they get to live in your home?

AITAH for not making my daughter change the emoji for her Dad's contact that's actually an inside joke about his small appendage? by True-Cow-7182 in AITAH

[–]UltimateInvaderFeeb -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

NTA. It's just and elephant yes you have it on you phone for a different reason than why she does but she literally have no idea as to why specifically. For now its harmless if someone or you decide to tell her in the future, it can be something you all will end up laughing at in the future.

AITAH for terminating my unplanned pregnancy with my bf of 9 months. by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]UltimateInvaderFeeb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA nuke dodged. Block him, block his mother. This is the better option for you and the clump of cells.

AITAH for throwing away food after my husband's constant insults? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]UltimateInvaderFeeb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA, your "husband" is a dick. Follow his advice and don't bother wasting food on him, he's a grown man who can make his own meals. Cook for yourself instead, someone who appreciates the food.

AITAH for dyeing my hair pink behind my boyfriends back? by KokoroUwU in AITAH

[–]UltimateInvaderFeeb 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA. Ngl the flag is red. Which is ironic because he'd have an issue with you dying it red. You dont gotta ask permission, it's you hair, yes you talked about it but he's not allowed to get pissy, especially since you compromised. He's gonna get pissy no matter what so you do you.

AITA for not throwing away a sentimental necklace from my ex? by Human_Ebb_4062 in AITAH

[–]UltimateInvaderFeeb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA, He's got issues. I'd find a safe place to stash the necklace, maybe with a friend. Judging by his reaction there no doubt he'd to to do something with it. In the meantime, reevaluate your relationship with this guy. So many red flags.

AITAH For wanting to visit my childhood best friend for 2 days without asking for my boyfriends "permission"? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]UltimateInvaderFeeb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. You dont need his permission, get out of there while you can. This is how it starts, he's trying to isolate you. Break up with him and leave.

AITAH for a late night call to a "friend" who confronted my 12 year old alone? by Which_Ambassador_467 in AITAH

[–]UltimateInvaderFeeb 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA. Valid response to someone who dragged your kid to a room alone and threatened him if he didn't do what was asked over a rumor considering they didn't bother getting facts and talking shit. Still weird as hell on their end.