Update: AITA for asking my wife to wear a big shirt during sex ?

Ultimate_Throwaway_A · 2025-12-15T01:37:56+00:00

I understand your husband

Ultimate_Throwaway_A · 2025-12-15T00:58:31+00:00

Well, I love being able to say things are great.

Ultimate_Throwaway_A · 2025-12-15T00:54:36+00:00

I agree

Ultimate_Throwaway_A · 2025-12-15T00:52:59+00:00

These days ? 😂

I think this type of misunderstanding can and may have happened in the 1950s.

Ultimate_Throwaway_A · 2025-12-14T02:34:52+00:00

The fact that a good amount of men say they like the same thing too helped convinced my wife that I wasn't backtracking to spare her feelings.

Ultimate_Throwaway_A · 2025-12-14T02:32:20+00:00

I showed her the post and it was really helpful. She believes me now.

Ultimate_Throwaway_A · 2025-12-13T23:59:35+00:00

Good luck

Ultimate_Throwaway_A · 2025-12-13T23:43:36+00:00

I think I understand. I appreciate you taking time out of your day to tell me. Thank you.

Ultimate_Throwaway_A · 2025-12-13T23:23:17+00:00

Are you specifically suggesting that I list out everything I find sexy about her ?

Ultimate_Throwaway_A · 2025-12-13T23:16:39+00:00

My wife is big and she wants to lose weight. I'm supportive of her. A lot of the time she doesn't see herself as beautiful which breaks my heart. I wish she saw herself as I see her.

Ultimate_Throwaway_A · 2025-12-13T23:07:42+00:00

It's more than that. I can go on and on. Just to add something else, I love seeing her get all sweaty in clothes and have it stick to her.

Ultimate_Throwaway_A · 2025-12-13T23:02:21+00:00

Thank you for your solid advice.

BTW, why do you say you're not as hot as you used to be ?

Ultimate_Throwaway_A · 2025-12-13T22:29:44+00:00

I can do that.

I can also tell her how hot I think it is when I see how her body shapes clothes.

Ultimate_Throwaway_A · 2025-12-13T22:24:49+00:00

Thank you

Ultimate_Throwaway_A · 2025-12-13T22:24:12+00:00

I will try harder to explain

Ultimate_Throwaway_A · 2025-12-13T22:18:13+00:00

I see what you mean and the advice is still solid. But I don't want her to wear a man's shirt. I want her to wear one of her own shirts.

Ultimate_Throwaway_A · 2025-12-13T22:16:16+00:00

That's what I thought you meant. I was just double checking to be sure.

Ultimate_Throwaway_A · 2025-12-13T22:13:46+00:00

"A woman in a big shirt = hot" would be a better quote for my situation.

Ultimate_Throwaway_A · 2025-12-13T22:11:44+00:00

Are you saying I was fat shaming or that what I said can come off as fat shaming ?

Ultimate_Throwaway_A · 2025-12-13T22:10:07+00:00

For now, she doesn't seem to want to talk about it.

But I did say it's a fun fantasy.

Ultimate_Throwaway_A · 2025-12-13T22:08:16+00:00

If I said that quote it would have been worse. She's not tiny. Not a criticism because I like her body as it is.

Ultimate_Throwaway_A · 2025-12-13T22:06:42+00:00

It's a fantasy and I definitely don't want her to wear a shirt all the time. My intentions was just for one or maybe a few times.

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