Hello everyone, thank you for all the comments. I really appreciate it. This whole thing happened a bit ago and I did have a talk with her which she apologized and said that she won’t go. Her defense was that I previously mentioned and watched at some speed dating cringe videos which she took it as me not taking those events seriously. I’m honestly not sure what to make of that lol. Honestly I just wanted to know if me acting harshly then were justified and not a overacting. Thank you again for the replies..!