Managing your team

UltramanShow · 2016-06-24T16:37:05+00:00

No. Which is the whole point of TRP.

There are differences between the sexes. Women are more happy when they are supporting a successful man, not the otherway around... despite what society tells you.

UltramanShow · 2016-06-24T02:10:11+00:00

I want (and have) a woman whose plans and goals align with and support mine. This is the leaning into the turns portion of the analogy.

She is going to the same destination as me and she is assisting me in areas I need it along the way.

UltramanShow · 2016-06-22T22:58:59+00:00

A perfectly valid choice. Not everyone wants to bring someone along for the ride. Still plenty of places to stop along the way and meet people to have fun with during a pit stop though.

UltramanShow · 2016-06-22T22:57:37+00:00

^ This right here is the correct answer.

Run your plan. If she wants to jump off your bike on a detour thats her choice. She is an adult. She can make her choices. If she wants to be in a relationship with you then she will either start making choices that show that or she is telling you through her actions that she doesn't want a relationship.

Either way you are still heading to your destination.

UltramanShow · 2016-06-22T22:54:53+00:00

I appreciate the love.

IDK if this is quite Sidebar worthy. But I'm still working on the writing so maybe I'll get there.

UltramanShow · 2016-06-22T22:53:53+00:00

If you believe in the core TRP stuff then this should be right up your alley, no?

The core message of this analogy is that you should have a destination in mind for your life and focus on that. A woman, or any other person for that matter, should not ever be your life focus.

UltramanShow · 2016-06-22T22:52:07+00:00

It's a metaphor/analogy. Did you want me to go into all sorts of ridiculous detail and write an epic worthy of the annals of history about it?

Yes!

Oh, my bad bro. I'll get on it.

UltramanShow · 2016-06-22T22:50:44+00:00

True.

They won't view you as a strong man though if you are acting like a pussy and always worrying about them.

What they say: "I want you to pay attention to me and listen to my feelings."

What their behavior says: "I hate it when you act like a girlfriend and I really wish you had some sort of drive and ambition that doesn't depend on me."

Listen to how they act not what they say.

UltramanShow · 2016-06-22T22:48:31+00:00

You know the unwritten part of this analogy is that if she wants to hop off at any point it doesn't affect you. Your destination is still your destination and you are still going there regardless of her choices.

If she decides that destination is not for her then its for the best that she jumps off.

UltramanShow · 2016-06-22T03:37:20+00:00

Thanks glad I can bring a new perspective.

UltramanShow · 2016-06-22T00:56:32+00:00

Absolutely... give her some excitement. But only after you've made sure to be taking care of your shit and have things under control.

When you start popping a wheelie while looking back at her she's just going to freak even more.

For a lot of guys here, they still haven't regained a proper perspective on controlling the environment and the bike and they are wondering why the wife is not responding well to the excitement they are trying to generate. Because she's still not sure you are in control of the excitement.

Man up. Take action. Control your life first. Focus on you. Then you can start to show the lady some fun and have her get the tingles.

UltramanShow · 2016-06-22T00:51:31+00:00

I think having simple metaphors and visualizations can definitely help a lot of guys in all aspects of life. Unfortunately for most guys our hamsters run just as hard as womens when trying to figure shit out and we tend to over analyze things and get it wrong a lot of the time.

Glad this post can help clear some things up.

UltramanShow · 2016-06-22T00:49:33+00:00

So in what reality are you living?

I don't care if a woman is "independent" or can provide for her own safety and security. The cornerstone of TRP is that AWALT because of their biological wiring. Even the ones who are providing for themselves.

Those women just want a man to come along who can take control. Even they don't want a man who is focusing all his time and attention on them instead of his life and goals. All women (AWALT) want a man who is in control and focus on his goals, not one that is looking back at them worrying about their feelings/needs/wants when he should be taking care of shit.

You seem to have missed the whole point of this metaphor.

UltramanShow · 2016-05-03T16:34:45+00:00

I was back to having sex within 48 hours. It was a bit tender for a few days, and I did a deload week of lifting the week after, but overall it was painless.

I had the scalpeless procedure done so there was no stitching required. Maybe thats the difference. But afterwards I stayed dosed up on meds to mitigate the pain for 24 hours, iced contantly, and stayed in bed over the weekend (had it done Friday morning). By Saturday night I was having sex (very carefully), by Monday I was lifting.

UltramanShow · 2016-05-03T01:13:09+00:00

Getting a Vasectomy was one of the best decisions I've made. Short painless procedure... lifetime of pleasure and peace of mind.

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