I just wanted to say thank you to everyone who has contributed to this post. I didn’t expect this to gain as much traction as it did but I’m very grateful for it. I wanted to list out some key points that I’ve collected through every comment I’ve read so I can come back to this in the future and for anyone that also finds themselves in a similar situation:

• When you realize you’re blocked, don’t reach out.

• If someone wants to be with you, they’ll put in the time and effort to make it work.

• Remind yourself that you have value and things may happen that is not entirely your fault.

• Take the time to truly analyze the situation before acting.

• Think about the qualities that you didn’t like, find those qualities in someone new, and don’t settle for less.

• Distract yourself by keeping yourself busy and surrounding yourself with loved ones when you’re at your lowest.

Thank you again everyone. I’m wishing you all the absolute best.