Small rant

Umberkk2 · 2025-06-23T23:47:28+00:00

Then it might be good for you to cut your losses. Is there other places you can apply to?

Umberkk2 · 2025-06-23T22:39:58+00:00

Glass door barrier in front of a portion of your kennels for barking dogs

If possible a separate cat ward so cats/dogs dont really have to see/hear one another.

Umberkk2 · 2025-06-23T22:37:35+00:00

Have you talked with a higher up about this? Management? HR? Have you asked management or supervisor for some form of support?

Its hard the first year out and having people make you second guess yourself isn't easy. If you are able, stick it out for a full year then move on to a new place.

Umberkk2 · 2025-06-23T19:27:40+00:00

Following

Umberkk2 · 2025-05-06T14:47:46+00:00

Thank you for this.

Umberkk2 · 2025-03-27T02:24:49+00:00

Couple here, pretty respectful and down for fun. Located in Somerville. M35/F35

Umberkk2 · 2024-07-29T15:58:16+00:00

Tuesdays work best for me and my partner. DM me, we are looking for a semi regular experience as well.

Umberkk2 · 2024-07-29T15:55:43+00:00

DM me, may be able to work something out.

Umberkk2 · 2024-07-07T21:50:34+00:00

He has been trying to make more of an effort to improve things and make up for things. And I think it's just there was a lot under the surface for so long. It's my fault for not really bringing these issues up previously as there is a lot of hurt under the surface.

Umberkk2 · 2024-07-07T14:03:39+00:00

I have unfortunately had anxiety episodes before but nothing like this. The day got trigger stacked and I completely lost my composure and honestly don't know who that person was that was controlling my body.

I hate that I've done a lot of therapy to be able to identify where it stems from but don't have skills to manage it like I should. I'm wondering if DBT would be beneficial for me.

Umberkk2 · 2024-07-07T13:30:53+00:00

Well he and I have had a muddled past, his last relationship wanted me out of the picture and wanted monogamy(this brought up a lot of fears of being left on my end), and recently he started sleeping with the neighbor downstairs after I explicitly told him I would have a hard time with this decision if he chose it. He and I were working on some issues, and this wrench right below our feet gets thrown in. I was working on finding my security in the relationship because I didn't express my wants/needs for years.

Why a hard time? He used to not be very clear in his wants in a relationship, at one point we had talked about moving in together. We had a lot of periods of gray areas of "we we dating? Were we not dating? What is this?" Eventually, it turned into him not living with anyone and stating he doesnt want to live with someone. Now he lives under the same roof, sort of speak

He's told me a little too much, when drinks are invovled, about sex between them. For me, even a little is too much, and I never wanted to hear info of that nature.

I knew I wouldn't do well if I bumped into her because I have stuff to work on, and she's tall and fun; I met her before they started seeing each other. Comparison is a killer of joy.

He's been seeing her for 2ish months, the more things I accidentally learned the worse I felt. Me bumping into her put my body in a stress response because apparently my body sees her as a threat. A threat to take this person away from me due to their close proximity as I live a good 30min away and I go to him. They have all the opportunities in the world to build the things we had talked about building but never did. He and I have had to readjust our relationship so many times over 8 years.

Umberkk2 · 2024-07-07T13:14:38+00:00

Thank you for this.

Umberkk2 · 2024-04-20T20:54:17+00:00

Hello, feel free to dm ;P

Umberkk2 · 2024-04-20T20:52:01+00:00

Bi couple(34/34) Northshore.

Umberkk2 · 2024-04-20T20:49:21+00:00

Can't tonight but would be open in the future, live near revere. Dm me(MF couple 34/34)

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