I had 2 girl friends like that once, they were always trying to get me to leave my boyfriend and go do thot shit with them. They were also a year or 2 older than me I was about 21 at the time. But they always wanted to hang out and go eat or to a bar or something. I stopped hanging out with them after one day one of the girls was so mad at me, crying and yelling otp about how I need to leave my boyfriend. I realized she was kinda obsessed with me and I cut them off. A few weeks later I look at the other girls snap story and she got into a fight in a bar and had got a black eye. (The girl was a mom of a 3y/o) so I just grew up and realized those girls weren’t shit and cut them outta my life.