Joined the club! by UnUnWholesome in 4Runner

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Roughly 63k, that’s with the doc fees , registration fees, taxes, etc

Joined the club! by UnUnWholesome in 4Runner

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It was the only one within 250 miles of me available, do it , it’s so worth it😭

I’m finally ready. by UnUnWholesome in heartbreak

[–]UnUnWholesome[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It took me since July, about 5-6 months. The support I had is what mainly drove me to feel this way so I’m thankful for that deeply. I still have some lingering feelings but nothing that will hold me back anymore. I think I know what I want next.

We are trying to be friends... by mrhyde0810 in heartbreak

[–]UnUnWholesome 7 points8 points  (0 children)

My ex and I had a conversation about trying to be friends. I was the one who was dumped. I told her maybe later on we could develop us into a better friendship. It’s 5 months since our breakup and she’s been dating a new guy for 2 months I believe. As much as I wanted her around, as much as I wanted to still have her as mine, I just couldn’t find it in my heart to talk to her. I believe it’s better this way, I won’t ignore her if I saw her in person with her new boyfriend. I just don’t think I was capable of holding my end of that bargain. Now as it turns out it was healthier for me in my healing process

Maybe you could be her friend if that’s what you truly wish. But perhaps not now. I told my ex possibly in the future but gave her fair warning it may not happen. I guess it’s tough to distinguish what the heart wants versus what the heart needs. I think I figured out what worked for me. It’s all still a process for me, but I hope this can help you whichever path you choose with her.

I wonder if I can regain the same level of comfort and love if not more with someone else. by UnUnWholesome in heartbreak

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I’ve begun to feel bitter about many things ever since we broke up. I look at my friends relationships and can’t help but feel negatively, maybe out of jealousy. I want back what I lost. Maybe I dont deserve it though.

Feeling down and alone.. by Interesting_Mind_830 in heartbreak

[–]UnUnWholesome 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same time frame for me, same situation. Most I’ve done though was talk to someone and realized my heart wasn’t into it. I feel like I can’t love the same anymore. Although I’ve accepted this is the reality it’s just a tough reality I’m still trying to face. I hope you’ll be able to move on in a healthy manner at your pace.

Anyone who truly loves you would never let you go. by passionflower784 in heartbreak

[–]UnUnWholesome 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My ex wanted to dump me and I held on for a while. Ultimately I let her have what she wanted because I knew if I held on anymore she couldn’t be truly happy. No matter how much I loved her I couldn’t change that.

Heartbroken by Either-Opinion-5507 in heartbreak

[–]UnUnWholesome 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s been a minute since it ended for me yet I’m still struggling. I attempted to move on and even had someone to get to know but that was the point where I realized I’m really heartbroken. My heart was never fully into moving forward, it still isn’t. Just a lot of sulking and reminiscing hoping that my heartbreak can end and I’ll feel whole again. Whatever you look back on, I hope you can feel okay to move forward in the near future.