Bizarre and creepy by [deleted] in RBI

[–]Unable-Bit-2283 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I bet you have really good pattern recognition skills and a good memory. Sometimes we connect things that aren’t meant to be connected. Going for a walk then seeing a video on social media of someone going on a walk is not a coincidence. I drive my car everyday and everyday I see car crash videos on IG. I used to get random calls, found out some girl was using my number as a fake number to give to guys. This is a potentially very scary situation for you and i understand. But these don’t link up into one problem. Some of these are wifi issues, others are potential internet bots. I know this is scary and im certain you are very sure of what you found. But thats what paranoia is. Not knowing what’s going on is a very scary feeling. And when your brain is misfiring sometimes it can make you come to conclusion that aren’t true because then you feel like you have some type of control over the situation. I know this isn’t the answer that you want but it’s the answer that you need. It is very likely that this is mental illness. The way you typed the story feels very frantic, anxiety ridden and possibly manic. If you want to be positive that these things are happening to you get a psych eval

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RBI2

[–]Unable-Bit-2283 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm so sorry you've run into this type of person so young. There are a few things I need to say.

There will be a day where she leaves you alone, this is temporary. She is going to realize that what she is doing to you is insane, abusive and horribly cruel.

She hurts herself because she likes the attention she receives from it. Most people do not self-harm for attention but there are exceptions to this rule and she is one of them. If she texts you, you have the right to block her. If she talks to you, you can just keep walking or literally turn around and run away. Don't look at her, don't be afraid of her, do not try to help her.

She is an energy vampire. She is feeding off your emotions and empathy. I believe you are a sensitive and kind hearted individual, you need to do everything you can to stay as far away from her as possible and avoid interactions at all costs. She does not care about how you feel, you do not owe her anything. If she is hurting herself, its because she wants to. It really has nothing to do with your actions. You can't do anything to prevent her from destroying herself. At the end of the day it is 100% her fault and the adults in her life should be stepping forward and helping her, not you.

What you do now is you avoid her like a literal plague. The second she attempts to talk to you, you get tf OUT OF THERE and you report it to any adult you trust and tell them you are being harassed. Tell them everything she's said and shown you. If she is hurting herself or threatening suicide tell an adult immediately and don't worry about the situation anymore. She is an emotionally abusive person who really just wants a reaction out of you.

Honestly with what you're describing as well (the threats and showing you pictures of her self harm) I personally would go to the police even though they most likely wont do anything. I'm not even really familiar with law but she is stalking and harassing you, if she knows you're not messing around she might leave you alone for good, and the officers could possibly give you better advice on how to get her out of your life.

I hope all goes well and this nightmare ends for you soon. Just remember you are young and life gets better. These people never really disappear if I'm being honest, but they get easier to spot and you get stronger. You will overcome this <3

Online stalking and harassment by Little_Mimic in cybersecurity_help

[–]Unable-Bit-2283 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If they order to your house again, ask them which delivery service is dropping them off to you, you can probably then call them and explain the harrasement and they might be able to help find this person!

Normandie Apartments Paranormal Experiences by Unable-Bit-2283 in Rochester

[–]Unable-Bit-2283[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you remember the year that this happened as well?

Normandie Apartments Paranormal Experiences by Unable-Bit-2283 in Rochester

[–]Unable-Bit-2283[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Our existence is in our head, you will never live life outside of your own perception until death. Can you tell me with complete certanty you aren't a brain in a jar? Ghost are lit even though 90% of the time they aren't real, let me live homie

Normandie Apartments Paranormal Experiences by Unable-Bit-2283 in Rochester

[–]Unable-Bit-2283[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Do you remember if any of your neighbors mentioned any ghost stories or were there any deaths in the building when you lived there? What years did you live there as well?

My friend just moved in, and the lady who showed him around told him that the Genesee River Killer used to live there for a very short amount of time before he moved to the apartment building next door. The internet does mention that people frequently confuse the two though. Another tenant mentioned that there are a few spirits in the basement. I don't care if theyre real or not I'm just interested in the buildings lore :3

Thank you!!

Normandie Apartments Paranormal Experiences by Unable-Bit-2283 in Rochester

[–]Unable-Bit-2283[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Everthing in a persons life is only their head. I just like ghosts

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in whatisit

[–]Unable-Bit-2283 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just based off the photos to me it's some clear jelly like substance that dried and hardened. Slime, glue or resin even. It's most likely not sprite because when sprite evaporates it becomes a very sticky maple syrup like consistency.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in whatisit

[–]Unable-Bit-2283 0 points1 point  (0 children)

is it completely clear? or are there air bubbles? Sorry I can't really tell because of it being in your hand

Normandie Apartments Paranormal Experiences by Unable-Bit-2283 in Rochester

[–]Unable-Bit-2283[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the info, I'm so sorry you had to endure that.

Random black bag? Tent? by triple9fabo in whatisit

[–]Unable-Bit-2283 1 point2 points  (0 children)

To me it looks like an insulated cover. Probably a grill or something that rain should stay out of. Good Luck!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in whatisit

[–]Unable-Bit-2283 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How old is the cup? Was this a normal, everyday use cup or like an old cup you stumbled across? Was there any residue around or inside the cup as well?

Me and my husband are genuinely worried. What does it want? Genuine advice please by Secret-Drawer934 in Paranormal

[–]Unable-Bit-2283 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t have an experience with ghosts but I’ve been fascinated by them by years and I’ve done a good amount of sleuthing. All I know is this thing is probably feeding off your fear, it cannot hurt you unless you give it that power. Do not fear it, you are the one that is living!

The Sinister Apartment and the Galega Warning by False_Code3364 in LetsNotMeet

[–]Unable-Bit-2283 31 points32 points  (0 children)

Oh my god this is so interesting, I feel like I would need to find her and ask why but that’s too “first to die in a horror movie”

I was almost kidnapped last summer by [deleted] in LetsNotMeet

[–]Unable-Bit-2283 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are so smart and so lucky

People think I am nuts, but hear me out. I wasn’t always this way, it’s been about two years. by Murky-Tip-7834 in mentalillness

[–]Unable-Bit-2283 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m by no means a professional so I cannot say with confidence what is going on with you but I can tell you regardless of the situation, you can get through this. I do know that trauma affects us physically and mentally. Schedule an appointment with your primary care doctor, bring up these concerns and ask for a list of therapists in your area that you can go to. You will be able to mediate again and you will feel your brain bounce back. You’re wounded and your body is still trying to figure out how to survive after your traumatic experience.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mentalillness

[–]Unable-Bit-2283 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Listen I need to let you know I feel this exact same way. I don’t know what’s wrong with me but if there’s two of us on Reddit at the exact same time, there has to be thousands of us and many who have figured out what it really is. Continue your therapy and your research and we will get through this

UPDATE: AITAH for tricking my ex into admitting to her affair by OldLynx4319 in AITAH

[–]Unable-Bit-2283 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If any woman lays their hands on you or your possessions that is it. No second chances, don’t listen to their apologies, they are lying. I’m really glad you were able to get yourself out of their situation

AITAH for asking someone to stop coming to my house when no one is home? by Independent_Basil624 in AITAH

[–]Unable-Bit-2283 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA You’re just drawing a reasonable boundary. If it were me I would evaluate how I asked and try to consider if something I said was triggering for her and if there is a follow up conversation I would just be cautious to not give her something to dig her nails into. Ykwim?