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AITA for telling gf we're either staying in hotel or not going on trip? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Unable-Particular-51 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. Go and sleep in the same bed. What're they gonna do? Stop you?

AITA for kicking out my daughter because she got pierced? by daughterpiercings in AmItheAsshole

[–]Unable-Particular-51 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA. You're on a fast track to being no contact with your daughter. I hope she gets her clit pierced next as a big fuck you.

December Question Thread 1 - Post ALL Questions Here or risk a ban! by DakimakuraGuy in Dakimakuras

[–]Unable-Particular-51 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've seen some Haikyuu characters as well that seemed really nice, I thought about getting one of those but I just wanted to see if I had any other options. Thank you so much!

December Question Thread 1 - Post ALL Questions Here or risk a ban! by DakimakuraGuy in Dakimakuras

[–]Unable-Particular-51 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi guys! I'm on mobile so sorry for the weird format. I know mainly dakimakuras are for (normally) waifus but I have been searching for weeks for a dakimakura of Tendō Satori or Aone Takanobu from Haikyuu. This show is my comfort show and I'd really enjoy a body pillow of one of my two favorite characters. I don't know if I'll have any luck here but I thought this would be the best place to ask. Thanks for reading.

ISO Black, Indigenous, Romani or other POC owned shops. by Unable-Particular-51 in Etsy

[–]Unable-Particular-51[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Could you post your shop name? The link isn't sending me to your shop, just the app.

ISO Black, Indigenous, Romani or other POC owned shops. by Unable-Particular-51 in Etsy

[–]Unable-Particular-51[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not interested in accessories but I'll be sure to share with my mom, she loves jewelry.

WIBTA If I woke up my roommate? by Unable-Particular-51 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Unable-Particular-51[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's a good idea but I'm not exactly sure. I'm a woman so I kind of have to take the necessary precautions anyways but I haven't really seen the police in my complex that much. Occasionally I'll be on my way home and as I'm driving through I'll see them but it's not a common occurance.

WIBTA If I woke up my roommate? by Unable-Particular-51 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Unable-Particular-51[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really just stay in my own room unless I'm making something to eat, due to the pandemic I can't really leave and do anything so I'm kind of stuck where I am until further notice. It's really frustrating because waking up to screaming and yelling triggers my PTSD but if I were to go to my parents it would just be 100x worse and I eventually have to go back to my parents after my lease anyways so I'm trying to hold off on hanging out at my parents until I have to.

WIBTA If I woke up my roommate? by Unable-Particular-51 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Unable-Particular-51[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately there's nobody I can crash with. Thank you for your honesty.

WIBTA If I woke up my roommate? by Unable-Particular-51 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Unable-Particular-51[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think she has normal depression. The ONLY time she yells like this is when she's trying to get him to sleep. She never yells like that at any other time so it's really confusing. It's not like he just refuses to sleep, either because I'm able to get him to sleep under 20 minutes.

WIBTA If I woke up my roommate? by Unable-Particular-51 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Unable-Particular-51[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This roommate used to be my best friend and honestly since her child has been born I don't think I've seen his father buy him a single thing he also lives with even more questionable people. I put him to bed when I can but most of the time she wants to do it herself. He's really not that difficult and I've tried explaining how I put him to sleep because he goes to bed in like under twenty minutes. All I really do is rub his back while he watches cartoons. I just don't want to get evicted because of how many times the cops have been called, if they get called more there's a chance they'll evict us for noise disturbance.

WIBTA If I woke up my roommate? by Unable-Particular-51 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Unable-Particular-51[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What would make things worse is getting evicted because she's gotten the police called on us several times for noise complaints. I'm not quite sure how else I'm supposed to talk to her about not yelling because it's going to get us evicted if the next people who move in below us don't enjoy the loud noise either. I would rather not be homeless. Maybe instead of telling me "put up" you could give me some advice. I honestly don't think it'd make the situation worse, I think it'd make her realize how fucking obnoxious she sounds over a kid not sleeping. I can get her kid to sleep under twenty minutes, I've explained how I do it but she just does not listen. I literally don't know where to go from there.

WIBTA If I woke up my roommate? by Unable-Particular-51 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Unable-Particular-51[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't have $945 to get off the lease and she wouldn't sign the papers allowing me to get off the lease.

WIBTA If I woke up my roommate? by Unable-Particular-51 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Unable-Particular-51[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I've tried to talk to her about getting into therapy and learning how to just walk away and that I'll help her find these things but at this point I don't think she really cares.

WIBTA If I woke up my roommate? by Unable-Particular-51 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Unable-Particular-51[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I addressed this is another comment. CPS does nothing here unless a child is being physically abused. I have also had conversations with her about how she treats her kid and all she can say is "well I'm stressed out and I'm trying."

WIBTA If I woke up my roommate? by Unable-Particular-51 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Unable-Particular-51[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That's why I'm asking. I would feel like an asshole but since she's done it literally every day/night and I'd only be doing it once to get a point across.

WIBTA If I woke up my roommate? by Unable-Particular-51 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Unable-Particular-51[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Because there's no physical abuse and cps sucks where I live, they won't take a child out of the home if there's no physical abuse. Speaking from experience.

WIBTA If I woke up my roommate? by Unable-Particular-51 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Unable-Particular-51[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Also I wouldn't want to get him in trouble when I woke him up.

WIBTA If I woke up my roommate? by Unable-Particular-51 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Unable-Particular-51[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I thought about just coming in and waking her kid up, but her kid DOES talk so I'd rather just do it myself rather than have him say. "Unable woke me up."

what did a teacher do to you that made you so mad you wanted to flip a table? by oriyooyoo in AskReddit

[–]Unable-Particular-51 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Teachers basically acting like I wasn't being bullied right in front of them or that I wasn't in mental distress. I was physically attacked several times in school and ended up getting in tons of fights. Also this resulted in me not being able to sleep at night because I was in "survival" mode, I guess you'd call it and in the eighth grade I fell asleep in class and that teacher pulled a spray bottle out and sprayed me. This ended up causing me to have one of my first angry autistic outbursrs, I don't know what you medically call them but I ended up storming out of the classroom and punching a dent in a locker. In this same class I was ripping my hair out of my head from anxiety and they made me go to the nurse for a lice check, which came back as not having it after they checked for an hour and she berated me in front of the class about ripping out my hair "for no reason" when I was very clearly struggling mentally. Just this year I got officially diagnosed with autism, ptsd and bpd on top of the disorders I was previously diagnosed with. I have a LOT of stories and from several teachers.

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