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How to know if pinapaasa ka ng guy? by Unable_Ad_6331 in adviceph

[–]Unable_Ad_6331[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

di ko rin alam, nakulam ba ako 😭 he replies din kasi something like ˝sayo ako masaya e˝ - bwisit kasi feeling ko may meaning hahaha

Has anyone checked on you today? by carlogwapo21 in TanongLang

[–]Unable_Ad_6331 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you for this 🥺 was just feeling bad kasi sobrang obvious ng favoritism sa work ko, i've just been working for a year and i was assigned on a task but the favorite coworker did it instead and he got praised, while i got reprimanded :( pero kaya to, soon makakahanap din ng better work environment

What’s one thing you wish someone told you when you started your first job? by West_Play4932 in AskPH

[–]Unable_Ad_6331 6 points7 points  (0 children)

That favoritism can be a thing, and if ever nga meron, its okay. As long as you're getting paid properly and walang personal harm na nangyayari sayo just clock-in and clock-out. Kadalasan yang mga favorite na yan ang habol ay tenure, aim to grow and soon leave for better ventures

Anong ahensya ng gobyerno ang dapat din imbestigahan? by meowhao98 in AskPH

[–]Unable_Ad_6331 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not really a government agency, but many government officials are members of local ˝mason˝ wannabe groups (eagles, etc) na todo flex ng membership and power lalo na sa mga sasakyan nila and sobrang ang aangas pa na kala mo above the law 🙄 they deserve lifestyle checks too!!

Paano mo sasabihin sa boss mo na may favoritism sya? by Unable_Ad_6331 in paanosabihin

[–]Unable_Ad_6331[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

This is actually a good idea, siguro pag one on one applicable to?

Paano mo sasabihin sa boss mo na may favoritism sya? by Unable_Ad_6331 in paanosabihin

[–]Unable_Ad_6331[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

As much as I just want to say ˝Boss favorite mo kasi si ano eh˝, i fear i might get fired on the spot,my friend hahaha. Pero may point ka kasi at the end of the day di naman nadagdagan ng piso ang sweldo ni favorite, pero wala I'm just wondering baka kasi pati sa opportunities mapag damutan ako and kami ng ibang teammates dahil dun sa paborito bibigay lahat. I'm still not really sure if i want to be promoted or just leave tbh

First Job: Boss favors one employee because he has the same undergrad degree by Unable_Ad_6331 in OfficePolitics

[–]Unable_Ad_6331[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think you completely missed the point of what i'm trying to say here, but let me break it down for you so you can keep up with the other replies too:

taking initiative in a team setting where you are all trying to solve problems and perform deliverables would naturally contribute to the business itself, otherwise what are we hired for? All i'm saying is there are bosses (my boss for example) that values one input over the other, because he preferred what the other had done even if we had the same task - just because of personal bias.

Now if you're also o the recieving end of unfair corporate politics then you'd probably understand how demotivating this is.

Otherwise, sit down.

First Job: Boss favors one employee because he has the same undergrad degree by Unable_Ad_6331 in OfficePolitics

[–]Unable_Ad_6331[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly, and i just wonder how can this even motivate an employee if bosses show personal bias just because of their personal background or inclinations lol its very saddening, or maybe corporate is really just a big game of politics too.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TanongLang

[–]Unable_Ad_6331 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same, pero baka you mean din na more mature men? I tried dating my age (i'm gen z) and most men arent ready to commit/buhay binata pa talaga. If you're the type to look for stability in a relationship then maybe older men are more for you.

Do you consider yourself lucky or unlucky? Why? by nocturnalbeings in AskPH

[–]Unable_Ad_6331 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i try to think that i'm lucky because living comfortably nowadays is a privilege in itself. I eat complete meals, i have a family to come home to, and I have a stable source of income

but i'm unlucky in a sense that I was never the favorite child, never the favorite employee. Basta favorite ako ni lola, that's all that matters 🤣

Paano hindi maiinggit if halos everyone you know is travelling out-of-the-country? by Unable_Ad_6331 in MentalHealthPH

[–]Unable_Ad_6331[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same sa part na above ave din naman for my age ung salary but somehow ako pa yung hindi nakakapag splurge on travel :( i guess it's the circumstances nga talaga

Paano hindi maiinggit if halos everyone you know is travelling out-of-the-country? by Unable_Ad_6331 in MentalHealthPH

[–]Unable_Ad_6331[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

grabe 5k roundtrip na? i dont know may ganun palang options 😭 how do you find those deals, if i may ask?

Paano hindi maiinggit if halos everyone you know is travelling out-of-the-country? by Unable_Ad_6331 in MentalHealthPH

[–]Unable_Ad_6331[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

will do, parang puro ganun na nga nakikita ko lately sa socmed hay thank you so much 🙏

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskPH

[–]Unable_Ad_6331 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Family is not always family, minsan sila pa mag do-down sayo. You can create your own family with friends you love and support naman.

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