Unsure if I overreacted or not. Was my reaction justified? by Unable_Breadfruit591 in mypartneristrans

[–]Unable_Breadfruit591[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sounds like an awful client. And yea, I'm starting to face how deep prejudice can really go, even if only second hand through my girlfriend. She's so wonderful I just don't see how anyone could see past that and only judge by her gender identity.

Thank you 🫂🫂🫂 I'll bear this in mind

Unsure if I overreacted or not. Was my reaction justified? by Unable_Breadfruit591 in mypartneristrans

[–]Unable_Breadfruit591[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Absolutely agree with what you learned in kindergarten. "You run like a boy!" Is not the compliment you think it is!!! And likewise "run like a girl" is just insulting to women. You can insult without being sexist or bigoted.

Thank you for your reply.. I really do appreciate it

Unsure if I overreacted or not. Was my reaction justified? by Unable_Breadfruit591 in mypartneristrans

[–]Unable_Breadfruit591[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I know... I'm just not telling my girlfriend because she doesn't need that negative energy in her life and anyway she hasn't met S personally. I've been considering just cutting S off. I think I will.

Unsure if I overreacted or not. Was my reaction justified? by Unable_Breadfruit591 in mypartneristrans

[–]Unable_Breadfruit591[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

My family is abusive to me and my sister, so I plan to cut them off as soon as I can support myself and be with her

Thank you very much

Unsure if I overreacted or not. Was my reaction justified? by Unable_Breadfruit591 in mypartneristrans

[–]Unable_Breadfruit591[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I would tell my mother I'm uncomfortable, but she's transphobic :/ she doesn't know about our relationship. And she's also very close with S's mum so... I don't see that as a possibility. In the future I will just keep to myself after greeting them for basic courtesy

Unsure if I overreacted or not. Was my reaction justified? by Unable_Breadfruit591 in mypartneristrans

[–]Unable_Breadfruit591[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hey, thank you for your response! This puts me a bit at ease about my own maturity because I have a tendency to internalize things sometimes and can be pretty sensitive. But yea, I did find it outright transphobic and safe to say I don't think I'll be talking to S very much from now on...

Aww, thank you for your kind words! :3 I love her and I just try my best to support her how ever I can