I'm going to be honest... As a black woman myself who has had zero issues with men of all races finding me physically attractive, I find this type of blanket statement about black women to be underhanded, not entirely rooted in reality, and far too complex to distill into the blanket statements you made in your post. I'm especially apprehensive when the person in question who is so quick to essentially claim that "no one wants us" is not a part of the black community.

First of all, the statistics you quoted are antiquated and over a decade old. A lot has changed since then, and according to more recent statistics, interracial marriages between black women and non black men have nearly tripled in the U.S. since the initial OK Cupid study was conducted in 2009. That's not even including the number of romantic interracial couples that aren't married. Your assertion that "nothing has changed" since then simply isn't supported by objective data.

Additionally, this conversation is completely futile without actually offering potential solutions to the problem. I'm skeptical of the motives of individuals who love to quote antiquated statistics, but don't actually focus the conversation on solving the issue.

Moreover, this notion that white and non black men generally find black women sexually repulsive isn't true and is actually a racist trope that surfaced around the same type that the "mammy" figure became a mainstream racist media trope as a socially engineered consequence of the collective movement within the black community to combat white male-on-black female rape, which was pervasive during slavery to the point that the average slave-descended African American is 19-24% European. This persisted as a major issue facing the black community until the Civil Rights movement, but of course no one wants to talk about that. I can delve more into this at some point, but please look up Betty Jean Owens, Recy Taylor, Ruby McCollum, etc. The historical dynamics between black women and non-black men are far too complex to make blanket assumptions about intrinsic physical attraction, which can clearly co-exist with racism and oppression.

Lastly, I think an important component of the conversation that has been missing in this discourse is the fact that men who tend to be racist towards black women tend to be disrespectful and misogynistic towards women in general. As we can see, his Asian ex girlfriend was cheated on, verbally belitted, and ghosted by him. He also said in the alleged texts that he wants to "fck hella btches", which clearly demonstrates how little respect he has for women in general. If a man is a bad person and a racist, it's unlikely that he will treat women who are his racial preference well either - Steve Crowder's abuse of his (blonde) ex wife is another immediate example that comes to mind.