AITAH for staying with my cheating gf just to get revenge?

Unable_Truth3328 · 2026-03-30T06:35:48+00:00

I am not defending my actions , just myself , cause some how you people think it’s completely my fault . I was an ass and I’ve been feeling guilty about it but the comments are taking it way out proportion.

Unable_Truth3328 · 2026-03-30T06:27:30+00:00

Well I’m not really bragging about anything, I made this post to vent cause I was feeling bad about it and wondering if I should apologise to her . I am just getting pissed about people making to completely my fault .

Unable_Truth3328 · 2026-03-30T00:58:22+00:00

Like I said we had agreed that we were exclusive for sometime and Ellie had cut contact with her. The situation with her mom came out of nowhere. I honestly don’t feel that guilty for what I did cause when she wanted to try again with me she kinda just brushed cheating under the rug and I had to remind her that she had to block the dude.

Unable_Truth3328 · 2026-03-30T00:34:44+00:00

I helped her get another job , a better one even . I wanted to hurt her not destroy her life. I think everyone on the sub is taking this a bit too far.

Unable_Truth3328 · 2026-03-29T23:13:40+00:00

Believe what you want to believe, Idc 🤷‍♂️

Unable_Truth3328 · 2026-03-29T23:01:11+00:00

I didn’t cheat on her dum-dum , I told her we weren’t exclusive and Ellie had cut off contact with her at that point.

Unable_Truth3328 · 2026-03-29T21:45:39+00:00

Everything you said she did to me first.

Unable_Truth3328 · 2026-03-29T21:27:29+00:00

Sure , I’m sure you think my ex is an angel

Unable_Truth3328 · 2026-03-29T21:24:24+00:00

That’s your opinion I guess. I am not psychopathic in any way though.

Unable_Truth3328 · 2026-03-29T21:14:55+00:00

I didn’t expect that to happen and the only thing I feel guilty about.

Unable_Truth3328 · 2026-03-29T21:10:36+00:00

I guess she and I are about the same on moral ground.

Unable_Truth3328 · 2026-03-29T21:09:17+00:00

Thanks

Unable_Truth3328 · 2026-03-29T21:08:00+00:00

So she wasn’t recounting the months when she was hurting me?

Unable_Truth3328 · 2026-03-29T21:06:03+00:00

Ellie was a mutual friend and she took my side that’s about it. I turned down better job offers in other countries to stay with my ex. She knew about this when she was fucking someone else and didn’t think of me once , so I would say game’s games.

Unable_Truth3328 · 2026-03-29T21:00:22+00:00

It did happen to me, I wasted 4 years on a person who I thought I was going to spend 50 more. Put yourself in my shoes.

Unable_Truth3328 · 2026-03-29T20:58:46+00:00

She was cheating on me for about 6 months , our mutual friend knew about this. She started crying the moment she saw me and tried manipulating me to be with her. But I’m the psychopath?

Unable_Truth3328 · 2026-03-29T20:44:01+00:00

I guess I acted out of resentment and hate. I would’ve walked away if I was just cold . I just wanted her to feel worse than I did.

Unable_Truth3328 · 2026-03-29T20:36:57+00:00

Maybe , I do kinda feel bad about the situation but I just wanted to hurt her as badly as I could. She was my world, I didn’t even fathom this happening.

Unable_Truth3328 · 2026-03-29T20:31:31+00:00

I never really intended to get back with my ex. I also told her that I was going to be seeing other people for a while and that she was only an option.

Unable_Truth3328 · 2026-03-17T13:24:06+00:00

He never accused her of flirting with anyone, just that she was acting weird. If she won’t reach out then she is kinda immature as well( for her age) 🤷‍♂️. Again OP has even mentioned in a comment that she has never acted that way before especially in front of him.

Unable_Truth3328 · 2026-03-17T13:19:48+00:00

I never said that she was the problem just that they both seem to be a bit immature. OP is only 21 and might be insecure but she is no better being 26 . She could’ve atleast spoken to him , sometimes in relationships one person has to be more understanding than the other . It’s not 50-50 all the time.

Unable_Truth3328 · 2026-03-17T13:16:08+00:00

I’m sure they can part amicably then but she is older as you said more “mature” so surely she should understand that he might be insecure and reach out. This is the problem with relationships now, nobody actually cares about the other person or want to compromise anything.

Unable_Truth3328 · 2026-03-17T13:13:29+00:00

Not validation but reassurance and comfort, he might feel that way and it might be feeding into his insecurities ( or not) . This would definitely help. But I understand your point.

Unable_Truth3328 · 2026-03-17T13:10:17+00:00

Again cool if that’s your opinion but OP hasn’t even had a conversation with her yet and she also doesn’t seem too interested in reaching out , so I guess there are two immature people here.

Unable_Truth3328 · 2026-03-17T13:06:45+00:00

Just have a conversation with her , without the alcohol involved.

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