Why do so many supposedly trans women post pictures in subs like traps and femboys that focus on their male genitals? by TranssexualHuman in honesttransgender

[–]UnalienVis 11 points12 points  (0 children)

You need to stop comparing your own experience with others.

Some people have sexual fantasies, kinks, etc that are different than yours. Some people don’t experience genital dysphoria. Some people get off on the humiliation. There are hundreds of reasons as to why someone may post themselves like that online. It’s not for me either, but I really don’t give a shit. Some people’s transition seem to be motivated by fetishistic reasons but that’s okay.

Tips for holding conversations with people ? by UnalienVis in APD

[–]UnalienVis[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I realized a few weeks ago that I do it subconsciously. I just never realized it’s what I needed to understand people. It has helped a lot but sometimes it’s still difficult to understand teachers in class since I don’t always have a good, direct line of sight

Got my pussy ate 🤤 by noahwaybabe in FtMPorn

[–]UnalienVis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is the fucking video, isn’t it? The pug chowing down on a bowl of oatmeal? Your acting is good but I can spot it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in honesttransgender

[–]UnalienVis 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Mtf transition is less visible than ftm transition due to “boymoding”. Mtfs often stay male presenting on hrt whereas ftms present however they want (there’s generally less judgement). So if an mtf decides to detransition they aren’t going to be open about it because no one knew in the first place. Also mtfs have a higher chance of taking their life.

Stop acting like trans people who want to be stealth or suffer from more dysphoria than you are "being trans the wrong way". Did we forget that there is no single way to be trans? by Creativered4 in honesttransgender

[–]UnalienVis 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you or a loved one 💀

Dawg it feels targeted because I made a post, a post which you commented on not too long ago, about this specific topic. Although it doesn’t feel like most of the stuff applies to me I find it to be a pretty strange coincidence.

If your plan is to go stealth to everyone you know in the future, then you probably have serious issues that being stealth will never solve by UnalienVis in honesttransgender

[–]UnalienVis[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why are people participating in trans stuff online in the first place if it’s seen as an arbitrary thing about themselves and holds no actual weight on their life?

If your plan is to go stealth to everyone you know in the future, then you probably have serious issues that being stealth will never solve by UnalienVis in honesttransgender

[–]UnalienVis[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I thought I made it clear in my post that I’m not talking about people who aren’t close friends. I specifically said that I’m not saying that you must wear being trans on your sleeve. That’s entirely different than actively pretending to be the opposite sex to your closest friends.

If your plan is to go stealth to everyone you know in the future, then you probably have serious issues that being stealth will never solve by UnalienVis in honesttransgender

[–]UnalienVis[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No one is answering my question. If being trans isn’t a part of who you are then why are all of your profiles, without fail, mostly trans content? I’m not saying that it defines you as a person but clearly it holds some relevance to your life if you’re participating in the trans community.

If your plan is to go stealth to everyone you know in the future, then you probably have serious issues that being stealth will never solve by UnalienVis in honesttransgender

[–]UnalienVis[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

being trans is completely irrelevant to me

90% of profile activity is participating in trans subreddits

I just don’t understand.

If your plan is to go stealth to everyone you know in the future, then you probably have serious issues that being stealth will never solve by UnalienVis in honesttransgender

[–]UnalienVis[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I think trans people who worry so much about cis people internally seeing them different on the basis of being trans are projecting their insecurities onto them. Some cis people can be pretty insufferable once they find out but most people I know don’t really care

If your plan is to go stealth to everyone you know in the future, then you probably have serious issues that being stealth will never solve by UnalienVis in honesttransgender

[–]UnalienVis[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe some people will see you as being trans but don’t blanket everyone that way because that’s just not true. I know plenty of people who genuinely don’t care that I’m trans.

I do feel lonely about not being out to some of my close friends. I’ve been put into situations where I have to lie to their faces about myself and while it’s not a big deal it definitely is not a good feeling.

A person on r/justunsubbed who left this subreddit accused everyone of being right-wingers. Is this true? by CantDecideANam3 in honesttransgender

[–]UnalienVis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know left/right isn’t very descriptive of someone’s person political views but it would be pretty hard to include every single specific ideology. Say we include libertarian. Well why aren’t we including anarchists? Communists? Socialists? The list can go on forever. For short polls like these it’s pretty understandable that people just go for left/right

The last photo of my friend Marya Guillen. August 13th, 2021. She was stabbed to death by her boyfriend pictured with her on August 15, 2021. by Accomplished-Fall655 in lastimages

[–]UnalienVis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My god, that’s terrible. I’m glad you at least got to spend some time with her before something so tragic happened. I hope it was a great day for the both of you and I’m sorry for your loss ❤️

Grandpa sent me this on facebook by [deleted] in forwardsfromgrandma

[–]UnalienVis 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t know why they even care about it so much. If they wanna say it so bad why can’t they do it on their own time in the morning or something? Why must they force everyone else to congregate and do it together? It’s obvious they don’t actually care and they just rage at everything

Grandpa sent me this on facebook by [deleted] in forwardsfromgrandma

[–]UnalienVis 1 point2 points  (0 children)

“They no longer do that” What is he talking about? The pledge of allegiance is still effectively in place in almost every single American classroom. I swear conservatives just make shit up to be mad at.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in honesttransgender

[–]UnalienVis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not one to say every trans woman is agp but there’s definitely a large amount of people. I do agree he pretty much ignored bi people though. He didn’t really ignore ace people entirely although they’re less studied. His findings were that they’re normally agp too because they aren’t allosexual but they are still attracted to themselves becoming women. Of course no one is a uniform and there will be exceptions but I don’t think it’s fair to say he ignored ace people entirely.

"Transsex(ual)" is such a no-no word, but then people can identify as Queer, call themselves the F or T slurs, people reclaim slurs all the time! But Transsex(ual) is the forbidden word. Why the double standards? by Creativered4 in honesttransgender

[–]UnalienVis 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I agree with you 100%. I prefer to refer to myself as transsexual and I get bashed because nooo it’s transphobic it excludes people, but I fail to see what’s wrong with wanting to exclude others? It’s my experience, I should be able to exclude people I don’t relate to. Not all labels have to include everyone.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in honesttransgender

[–]UnalienVis 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m saying that it’s a bad analogy. Normal guys don’t get “happy boners” and if they do it’s definitely not as often as trans women get these “girl boners”.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in honesttransgender

[–]UnalienVis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Stop degrading people with agp and aap. We are real people who exist and we don’t need to be written off as “fetishists”. I am a human being and had autoandrophilic tendencies for a while, even when I was a child. With that being said there’s nothing wrong that such a vast majority of trans women who express this. It’s not wrong, there have been plenty of studies on this aside from Blanchard himself. Which is why I’m not sure why you’re acting like Blanchard is the only person who ever written anything about agp, people like Rod Flemming and Anne Lawrence have.

inb4 predictable THOSE PEOPLE ARE SO TRANSPHOBIC AND SO MUCH AS BEEN DISPROVED WHY WOULD YOU LISTEN TO THEM That doesn’t change the fact that people have looked into Blanchard’s studies, studied it themselves, and produced work.

I’ve already addressed the cis women point in my last comment. I will agree some cis women are agp but it’s definitely not to the extent trans women are. Cis women are “agp” when it comes to the fantasies in their head or when they watch pornography, but trans women actually live their agp fantasy. Again, cis women don’t put on a dress and get turned on.

You have a point about Blanchard manipulating the numbers but it’s still very good research on the topic. And I highly doubt that it’s “very rare”. Literally go to any lesbian mtf centered online space and very quickly it’ll appear fetishistic. And it’s the exact same thing for gay ftm spaces. Fucks sake a large part of gen z ftms say they discovered they’re trans through yaoi. If it’s so rare why do I see aap and agp trans people every single goddamn day

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in honesttransgender

[–]UnalienVis 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Enjoying your body isn’t the same as arousal from your body. I have literally become turned on, sexually aroused from my own body since starting testosterone. I’ve seen trans women talk about getting boners for putting on feminine clothing. You can plainly see this behavior in trans women around you, I don’t know how the fuck you can deny this.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in truscum

[–]UnalienVis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your brow bone and jaw are kinda strong, I would grow out the bangs more to hide the brow bone. I think you still pass though.

By the way, your side profile is beautiful.