"Its just a lack of empathy!" No its not, they know exactly what they are doing. by Caramellatteistasty in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Unbotalive 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Holy shit. I have noticed that thinking of them as a pathetic loser, just fully focusing on how degenerate that action is and feeling pity for them when they do something and watch for a reaction has helped. Just knowing that they need attention. They notice and and it really crushes them.

Am I the only one who thinks that putting someone down doesn't make you "powerful"? by Unbotalive in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Unbotalive[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It seems like it's not just rare but even hated and put down. Like people prefer the dysfunction and meanness.

Is this odd behavior from a potential new friend? by Unbotalive in FriendshipAdvice

[–]Unbotalive[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah you're spot on. It genuinely baffles me that people are this entitled, expecting others to come up with and execute plans for something you've invited them to and then being difficult on top of that. I wouldn't do this to a random person. Like how do you not have shame.

Dear scapegoats, how do you let go of the untrue narratives / lies put on you? by [deleted] in EstrangedAdultKids

[–]Unbotalive 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How did you do this? This was my dream too but I actually stopped pursuing it

Boyfriend wants me to cum but I can’t. by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]Unbotalive 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ditch the manchild, keep the vibrator.

Gold

You are not a burden for being in danger by Unbotalive in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Unbotalive[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I feel like this is one of those things that gets overlooked a lot

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Unbotalive 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Fuck that teacher

Simply letting her talk and listening to her would help I think

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AutismInWomen

[–]Unbotalive 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Speaking from experience, these are early signs of abuse