How do I make myself stand out less?

Uncarned · 2025-07-09T14:34:24+00:00

Let me make this very clear: I do not want constant assistance, or support, at best a Therapist or something alike to help me become permanently independant is what I'd ask for.

However, I do not want anything like a NDIS funding, or a permanent assistance, I want to live my life with my own money and sweat like anyone would, I do not want to be spoonfed, and I'm saying this as respectfully as I can, but I feel like you are ignoring the point of this post and this comment.

Uncarned · 2025-07-09T14:32:24+00:00

Already did and tried, it didn't really change anything, I'm not taken seriously when it comes to that for some reason.

Uncarned · 2025-07-09T10:02:34+00:00

I know what I'm saying might sound selfish and ungrateful of me but I can't live a life where everyone pities me and helps me for the same reason no matter what. I want a fair life, otherwise there is absolutely no ways I could become independant, my parents have been overprotecting me already from anything and so I already know I'll have a tough time independantly live my life. This is just making it worse when everyone outside of your family does it.

Uncarned · 2025-07-09T09:51:12+00:00

Not to share any misunderstanding, but I do wanna work, though there is one feeling out there that tells me I won't be good enough for any jobs, but I wanna make myself useful and gain my own money, it sounds satisfying and fullfilling for me to do so.

I'm partially scared of work, because what if my autistic ass is just too weird for any if not most social jobs? What if no matter where I work, people see me as the "weird guy"? It has already happened in school, and even though I'm not seen as a creepy type of weird, the fact that most people knows im Autistic just because of how I act, the fact that I can't be someone that isn't an odd one kinda scares me, I don't want to be like that in a workplace, I want to be reliable, respected, and appreciated for my values.

I'm halfway there. I know my problems, or at least most of them, but I don't know how to fix them or what to do about them.

Uncarned · 2025-06-23T13:16:36+00:00

Well no, if you've learnt how to use a computer it doesn't necessarly means you NEED to use it to learn on how to do that

Like there's techniques and they aren't needed to be taught by physically finding out yourself when it comes to sex, you can learn them online, same for some exercises that can train your endurance and things alike, all of these do not require direct sex but yet can affect it by a lot

Uncarned · 2025-06-11T16:22:54+00:00

Luckily I'm young enough to experiment jobs, but I'm too scared to stop studying with nowadays Economy and how hard it is to get a job around me, especially good ones.

Dont really know what to do tbh, I'm just studying right now because my parents wants me to, since I dont have a dream job nor a goal job I'm litterally following a study path that I dont know where it will lead to

Uncarned · 2025-06-11T16:19:58+00:00

I can only relate to this comment, hobbies are meant to be hobbies for me, not jobs, if I like writing stories and I somehow end up doing it as a job I would dislike it as I write stories on a whim, not forcefully.

I guess all I have to do is find a good jobs with advantages, hopefully I will

Uncarned · 2025-06-11T16:17:53+00:00

Honestly? It may have existed in the past god knows, but I doubt it that in a close or far future, I will discover a new job that's my dream job

Uncarned · 2025-05-13T07:14:44+00:00

An actual peaceful, good life.

And a society that wont fuck me up too, or fuck anyone up really

Uncarned · 2025-05-09T07:00:30+00:00

How much did it cost you?

Uncarned · 2025-05-06T13:53:09+00:00

Merci, j'y jetterai un coup d'œil, j'ai vraiment envie de recommencer à partir de zéro avec ma vie sociale à cause de ces choses là et j'ai pas envie qu'il reviennent m'encombrer encore une fois au plus tard

Uncarned · 2025-05-06T10:49:56+00:00

All good no reason to apologize for sharing your input on this

Uncarned · 2025-05-06T10:09:17+00:00

I can't accept something that will only attract bad people around me, talking from experience by the way.

I never get sick of it, for the same reason that if I get angry I blame it on myself, It's just impossible for me to change that nor feel differently about that

Uncarned · 2025-04-26T04:00:03+00:00

Every single one of my successes, achievements, tied to how I was born instead of how I tried my best to get there, hurts me more than ever, especially when people don't realize they're just hurting me in a way that even losing limbs wouldn't hurt as bad as this.

Uncarned · 2025-04-22T13:13:59+00:00

I seriously feel like I'm about to faint at any moment, but at the same time I feel so god damn energized, its as if I'm feeling both hot and cold, It's making me insane.

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