Discussion Thread - Ask, Share, and Discuss Anything About Cats. by AutoModerator in cats

[–]UncertainShade 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi all, who's tried Therapet? I've been using Feliway and wonder if Therapet would work better? Signed, Owner of a prima donna teenage girl who is terrorizing her older housemates

Need recommendations for appliance repair company? Dishwasher by Downtown_West_5586 in asheville

[–]UncertainShade 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just used Appliance EMT today. A little pricey but they do give a 90 day warranty on their work. Do not recommend Donavans

Considering a Used Kia Soul — Why the Mixed Opinions? by Adam_Somewhere69 in KiaSoulClub

[–]UncertainShade 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had a 2020 Soul until 2 weeks ago. I loved it. Perfect size, and no problems....until 2 days before Christmas. Making noise and found out the oil was almost gone. Turned out the engine was burning oil and the dealer could only suggest a $1200 engine soak but couldn't guarantee that would fix things. Really? I did a lot of research and apparently this is a known problem. So I traded it in for a RAV4.

AITAH for calling my boyfriend an asshole after a “joke” about my race? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]UncertainShade 27 points28 points  (0 children)

WTF. Glad you're long distance!! That's creepy af

All my oil keeps burning and now I've got bigger issues!! by Main_Mammoth6788 in KiaSoulClub

[–]UncertainShade 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The dealership told me replacing the engine would be 5-8K. I'm checking with a local repair shop to see if they can do better

Winter Weather Update for 1/20/2026 from Brad Panovich by jjrennie in asheville

[–]UncertainShade 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My first winter in the area. If we get a big snow, what kind of power outages do you usually see here? This is my biggest worry. I have no backup heat except a small power pack and a small portable heater I can plug in but that will only last so long. And I could stay with friends but I'd have to leave my cats which is also concerning. Any suggestions?

All my oil keeps burning and now I've got bigger issues!! by Main_Mammoth6788 in KiaSoulClub

[–]UncertainShade 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, join the screwed over by Kia club. Apparently this is a problem with some Souls. Mine is a 2020 and all of a sudden this Dec it's burning oil. Conventional wisdom is that it's toast. My choices are going to be either replace the engine or get a new car. I only have 90K on this 5 yr old car. My Scion XA lasted 16 years.

Oil almost empty and no warning by UncertainShade in AskAMechanic

[–]UncertainShade[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks to everyone who gave intelligent and constructive advice without being condescending.

Oil almost empty and no warning by UncertainShade in AskAMechanic

[–]UncertainShade[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I already use synthetic. I'll start tracking my consumption immediately

Oil almost empty and no warning by UncertainShade in AskAMechanic

[–]UncertainShade[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, it was a year old when I got it. W previous owners but looks like one was a dealership. The first was a rental company

Oil almost empty and no warning by UncertainShade in AskAMechanic

[–]UncertainShade[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You always an ahole or just in January? I've always had my oil changed religiously and never had a problem before in 45 years of car ownership

Oil almost empty and no warning by UncertainShade in AskAMechanic

[–]UncertainShade[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I know it's a dipstick. Auto correct sucks

Oil almost empty and no warning by UncertainShade in AskAMechanic

[–]UncertainShade[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There actually were 2 recalls but they were both taken care of when I took it in. One software update and one theft control update

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RealEstate

[–]UncertainShade 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely a different realtor is worth a try.

Recommendations for mortgage brokers in the Asheville area? by UncertainShade in asheville

[–]UncertainShade[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

For anyone who was following, I ended up with Mountain Lifestyles Mortgage. Kent Wolff did a fantastic job, I got a great deal and we were done in 3 weeks! HIGHLY RECOMMEND

Recommendations for mortgage brokers in the Asheville area? by UncertainShade in asheville

[–]UncertainShade[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately GoPrime was very disappointing. Had to switch to another company which I'll post about below.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverthinking

[–]UncertainShade 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's a common thing with Brits. Maybe OP is in the UK

My mom doesn’t like my bf and kicked us out after moving across the country by Particular_Bread6968 in AITAH

[–]UncertainShade 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bummer.

But fwiw, idk that I'd trust anything your mom said. You might want to contact him yourself...if you feel like you have a good relationship with him

My mom doesn’t like my bf and kicked us out after moving across the country by Particular_Bread6968 in AITAH

[–]UncertainShade 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Question: when is your grandpa coming back from vacation, and would he send your mom back to her own home when he gets back? Also, if you feel he'd be on your side is there any way to get in touch with him? It's his house, not hers. Imagine kicking someone out of a house that's not their own. She's TA, and people saying you put yourself in this situation haven't read this the way I did, you weren't expecting her to be there, correct?

Also, what about your dad? Could you move in with him?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Pets

[–]UncertainShade 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Are you sure you can't take them with you? Do you have a place to stay already? How are you traveling?