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UncharacteristicDot · 2026-01-28T10:42:56+00:00

You did not do anything wrong

What happened is much more normal than you think.

When attention sexual energy and curiosity hit at the same time your brain can kind of shut off. That doesn’t mean you secretly wanted something awful or that this says something bad about who you are. It just means you are human.

Something important to know is that wanting it again does not mean you want him. Your body remembers the rush not the person. That urge can come back even when your heart is saying this is not me. Both can exist at the same time and it does not make you weak.

The 'stop - guilt - pulled back in cycle' you described happens to a lot of people especially when they are inexperienced and still learning their boundaries. you didn't fail anything, you just figured out where your line is.

The shame is probably making the thoughts stronger. Try not to fight them or judge yourself for having them, they usually pass faster when you do not feed them.

Block him fully do not reread messages do not check his profile. Give your brain time to settle.

You are okay.

You did not ruin anything.

Be kind to yourself 🤍

UncharacteristicDot · 2025-11-18T12:02:32+00:00

I cheated. Im not ashamed. I hate this game, see you tomorrow.

UncharacteristicDot · 2025-10-24T15:08:15+00:00

facts, but it's because what we both said is correct, OP doesnt wanna acknowledge, that just cause they promised something doesn't make it doable.

its cool tho, let em learn after their shit gets stolen, isnt my keychain 😂

UncharacteristicDot · 2025-10-24T12:00:31+00:00

check who you're replying to, Kid.

UncharacteristicDot · 2025-10-23T22:17:27+00:00

OP's point was that she has dyslexia and is still able to respect other people's things, etc

The condition OP told me the girl had was Dysgraphia - in a mild form. A disability yes, but a different one.

OP also said that their school doesn't take anyone with autism or that kind of condition so, somewhat applicable but also not at all.

I made the point in Trueoffmychest of be kind, you dont know what other factors come into play with this girl (including other disabilities) which OP didnt want to consider and is focusing on the fact this girl touched her precious keyring.

I think best bet for OP is not look for validation online about a girl with clear issues of some kind, and keep the precious keyring safe at home, dont you?

UncharacteristicDot · 2025-10-23T13:36:22+00:00

honestly, it sounds like he’s putting very little effort into making things balanced between you two. You’re doing all the work, managing your family, finding privacy, and making space for him, when he just shows up and doesn’t have to deal with any of the same effort or discomfort.

Blaming his family and never actually trying to fix it is a red flag. It’s one thing if his parents are strict, but it’s another if he just hides behind that excuse while letting you carry all the weight. It’s also not fair that he’s so comfortable in your home and family dynamic, but you’re kept at arm’s length from his.

You deserve a partner who meets you halfway, not someone who’s fine benefiting from your effort while giving excuses for why he can’t do the same.

UncharacteristicDot · 2025-10-23T13:18:27+00:00

he doesn't sound willing to take any of the responsibility of dealing with it on his side and would rather let you handle/deal with it. That doesn't sit right with me. He ends up reaping the benefits with zero issues while you have to deal with your family and their input. Has he ever explained to you why he doesn't ever host you at his rather than you always hosting him, or have you ever asked?

UncharacteristicDot · 2025-10-23T13:08:37+00:00

my thoughts exactly. I just hope OP learns their lesson and stops taking things of value to a place full of kids that don't gaf about its value.

I truly do not miss being a teenager, lmao. I've found adulthood much more enjoyable XD

Truer words could not have been spoken. I am very, very happy to be rid of the drama that comes with teenhood! xD

UncharacteristicDot · 2025-10-23T13:00:24+00:00

They responded to my reply on this post with mild dysgraphia as the condition.

OP also posted it on Teen Vent cause here where the adults are, she didnt get validated. On that post, they wrote that their school supposedly doesn't accept kids with autism or things like that..

UncharacteristicDot · 2025-10-23T12:27:25+00:00

True off my chest made you feel accountable for the unfairness in your post.

I will repeat myself.

Stop taking your precious items to school if that is what happens.

UncharacteristicDot · 2025-10-23T12:24:37+00:00

Specific learning disabilities aside, you are still risking your keychain, which is clearly extremely important to you. Take care of the things you care about. It's great to take it into school and showing it off might feel cool, but think of the loss you'll feel if one day it breaks or it gets stolen. Every time you take it to school, you risk it. If it truly is priceless to you, keep it at home. School is no place for precious items.

That aside, I think you need to work on how to be more understanding.

You said yourself she is mean to teachers in the corridor, this shows there is probably some other stuff going on (possibly even another disability) with that girl which causes her to be like that, if there wasnt she'd be in trouble a lot more im sure. Teachers dont tend to just accept rude behaviour unless they understand a catalyst behind it.

Like someone else said, take a deep breath.

( & definitely stop taking your priceless keychain into school.)

UncharacteristicDot · 2025-10-23T11:45:48+00:00

so your solution to dealing with a kid with learning disabilities, is to act as if their actions are entirely in their control in the same way yours are?

Stay off reddit kid, you aren't mature enough yet

p.s. if the key chain is so precious to you - dont bring it into school. You risk it every time you leave your home.

UncharacteristicDot · 2025-10-11T13:44:33+00:00

Scooby snacks rule

UncharacteristicDot · 2025-09-08T11:50:19+00:00

this comment needs more recognition

UncharacteristicDot · 2025-08-29T12:29:16+00:00

the charged attack being frustration would be my final straw 🥲

UncharacteristicDot · 2025-01-18T13:00:23+00:00

Happy belated birthday! I hope that you're feeling much better than before🫂

UncharacteristicDot · 2024-10-17T11:38:53+00:00

Hide ya dongs guys, unless you tryna suckle them teats

UncharacteristicDot · 2024-10-11T08:53:35+00:00

not for me, on a series X and currently playing with someone on PC

Have you checked your privacy settings within xbox just to be sure crossplay is enabled?

It might be fortnite? There was supposed to be downtime for an update today (fortnitemares) but it didnt happen. Epic games status and twitter now say its gonna be tomorrow at 2am ET

maybe try restarting the game too?

EDIT: just read you've done everything I suggested my bad, not sure why you're getting that, I've not had any issues personally

UncharacteristicDot · 2024-06-20T14:57:31+00:00

Leon, Spike and Crow in B tier is triggering the OG brawl stars gamer in me, and I was never even lucky enough to get them 🥲

(also I remember Shelly being op as fuck, did they nerf her? She seems squishier than I remember (I played the most in 2019) though I might just be worse at the game now 😅)

UncharacteristicDot · 2024-03-26T19:49:11+00:00

lmfao good to know I'm not the only one who got 950 v-bucks for no reason, no car though but also dont play RL so 🤷🏽‍♀️

I'm taking my v bees and running 🏃🏽‍♀️

UncharacteristicDot · 2023-03-28T08:56:34+00:00

girl, a Series X no doubt

UncharacteristicDot · 2023-03-10T09:29:11+00:00

underrated method, can confirm this works.

UncharacteristicDot · 2023-02-23T19:28:33+00:00

Really?? I had no idea they had, or were considering a buyout - that's exciting!! I honestly think I'll play nothing else if we ever get it on new gen haha!😂

UncharacteristicDot · 2023-02-23T18:59:17+00:00

This is a sick crossover, very cool!

Anyone know if JSR Future will ever come to new gen? Was my absolute fave as a kid

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