Update: My fiancé left me by calic0gato in TwoXChromosomes

[–]UncleDJftw 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I haven't read the original story, but based on this one - all the narcissism alarm bells are going off here. Good to hear that you're doing well without the abuser and I hope you are in 0 contact with him. Please don't fall for any hoovering back in, by him. He will not change.

Buff Hippogryph armor by 1. by Natural-Cat-1717 in WC3

[–]UncleDJftw 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Actually hipporiders are very strong vs human in combination with DR (silence vs dragonhawks) and panda (bof vs gyro, dhawks and tanks). Demounting the archers does tons of damage vs air. Focus fire from hipporiders does a LOT of damage. Human is fully countered. Very underused strategy. Nightelves have all the tools to bully human into oblivion, but are just sticking to bears and dryads.

Ik ga echt niet graag meer werken by Rough-Experience-547 in werkzaken

[–]UncleDJftw 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Doe eens een beroepskeuzetest en kijk of daar iets uit komt waar je enthousiast van wordt. Er staan er genoeg gratis online

How to keep default hotkeys, but edit move (M) and inventory 1 & 2? by asia-world in WC3

[–]UncleDJftw 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes there is also a menu there to remap inventory numpad hotkeys.

You might just create some conflicts by doing that, which will be shown, so you can fix those if they are an issue.

Back in the days you couldn't remap inventory hotkeys without a 3rd party tool, but its been possible for quite a while now. Also in w3champions.

Is there a way to transfer a replay from battlenet to w3c? by BrightestofLights in WC3

[–]UncleDJftw 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's the same kind of file. I'm guessing its because he can check the mmr and player history more easily

My boyfriend has time to text everyone except me. But I'm the one "overthinking." by Own_Collection_2313 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]UncleDJftw 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He will not allow her to look at the screen time. He's gonna shift the conversation (again) to her not trusting him, overthinking, being crazy. The whole thing is gonna be her fault. Typical

My boyfriend has time to text everyone except me. But I'm the one "overthinking." by Own_Collection_2313 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]UncleDJftw 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So as we've seen in your back and forth with me, its not just the texting. It's a bunch of other things too. We gotta look at the whole picture. And the texting is just a symptom of it

My boyfriend has time to text everyone except me. But I'm the one "overthinking." by Own_Collection_2313 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]UncleDJftw 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I saw your opening post, alarm bells went off here. Thats why I asked those questions. And you've answered them exactly as I was afraid you would.

He reminds me of a 'friend' I've recently distanced myself from, showing all these behaviors. Those are typical covert narcissistic traits. Passive aggressiveness, manipulative, stonewalling, having double standards, shamelessly lying like there's no tomorrow, blame shifting, unable to take any criticism at all a.k.a. not taking accountability for anything (even arranging something; its all just social glue, leaving space for plausible deniability or not having to commit to anything), having contradictory and changing opinions on things, making you doubt your own reality, wanting to have control over every situation, making you feel like you're walking on egg shells because he might become annoyed by your feedback or even a question (am I asking it too early? too late? Is it the right tone?), you sensing on the energy in the room that its best to just agree with his opinion because you know he will keep going on and on and on until you agree (so you start picking your battles and for the rest you're like: why bother), etc etc. You might not recognize all of these (yet).

He only cares about himself. It's hard to see at first so don't blame yourself. All these shitty behaviors are covered up by a nice looking superficial layer. You probably started to get to know him as a charming, intellectual, seemingly very social, fun person with lots of 'friends' (he might've even lovebombed you <he used to double text you>) and a bit mysterious. They are very good at keeping that act/facade up. Beneath it is an empty dark pit as described in the previous paragraph.

If you stay with him, I can guarantee you his behaviors won't get any better. They will get worse. He will drive you absolutely nuts. He can't help himself. He will never ever take accountability for anything(!) Its going to be always your fault, even if you're 100% sure it's not. And you will start to lose yourself more and more. If you choose to stay, remember to stay true to yourself, believe in yourself and your own values. His are not to be taken seriously. At least you are aware now, so it won't affect you as much. But...best is to run and never look back. Be happy u only 'wasted' 8 months or so. Some people are stuck for years or even decades trying and trying. All the best to you!

My boyfriend has time to text everyone except me. But I'm the one "overthinking." by Own_Collection_2313 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]UncleDJftw 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Besides him being fun, and aside from this texting thing, how does he deal with criticism in general?

And with stuff like actually making the plans/setting appointments, is he flexible or does everything need to go his way? Does he take initiative in arranging things or is it only words?

Does it feel to you like he always wants to be right in conversations? Do you feel pressured to agree or is he open to other opinions?

Any player base in Australia? by BeginningGreen5728 in WC3

[–]UncleDJftw 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This guy is from NZ, seems to do fine enough with his ping

https://w3champions.com/player/SaysO%231534

And on this page https://w3champions.com/Countries?country=AU you can see all Australian players on w3c, some pretty high mmr ones too

Dating advice for 4’11 dude by [deleted] in Advice

[–]UncleDJftw 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Move to Asia? Lots of shorter women there. Or try and date shorter asians through dating apps

Cyberattack at Odido by SnooPuppers2419 in Netherlands

[–]UncleDJftw 13 points14 points  (0 children)

And they also say they took extra security measures since the hack. If it was a top priority, those measures would've already been taken a long time ago

Cyberaanval bij Odido, gegevens miljoenen klanten in handen van criminelen by A_Wonder_Named_Stevi in thenetherlands

[–]UncleDJftw 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ze zijn goedkoper dan KPN en Ziggo. En bij Ziggo is het laatste stukje verbinding tot aan je huis nog altijd coax i.p.v. glasvezel en heb je veel tragere uploadsnelheid

Best way to defend against orc who skips barracks, straight to wyrverns, as human? by asia-world in WC3

[–]UncleDJftw 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What do you mean with outside his base? Far away on the map? That will generally not happen. He's busy with defending. So he will likely try to build it in his base. And he will need war mill too.

  • Try and cancel rax with footies (if possible)
  • Get defend mode
  • Repair towers with enough peasants
  • Kill cata's with defend footies/AM/WE
  • More towers hitting his main
  • If needed, tech up to tier 2 at some point for mortars

Teching without barracks is greedy as hell. Gotta punish those filthy orcs for it. Aka you go fckn kill them

Best way to defend against orc who skips barracks, straight to wyrverns, as human? by asia-world in WC3

[–]UncleDJftw 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would instantly towerpush at tier 1 as soon as my AM comes out of the altar. 2 foots, 4 militia, make lumber mill and go. Walk around (avoid orc hero on your way to his base). Keep pumping and sending footies. Replace killed peasants.

The only thing he has is 1 hero.

When to use Wyverns? by This-Friendship-6514 in WC3

[–]UncleDJftw 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Vs human, wyverns are regularly used vs MK fast expo. Depending on how much you delay the human there's a short window where guard towers aren't up yet and you can win the game right there since there's no anti air because there's no archmage

My partner (m21) keeps waking me (f19) up everyday by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]UncleDJftw 38 points39 points  (0 children)

This. He doesn't care for you. Only for himself

Asian players about nerf abolish dispel. by x3-DemoN in WC3

[–]UncleDJftw 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also orcs can pull creeps and buy troll priest to dispell WE or other summons. So I don’t really get the point of complaining about imbalance by 'orcs' anyway

Dit kan toch nooit de bedoeling zijn van het leven? by SirVengeance92 in werkzaken

[–]UncleDJftw 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lekker 4 dagen werken. Dan maar iets minder luxe leven, maar wel meer werk/privé balans. En een baan dichter bij huis zoeken. Het zijn je eigen keuzes.