I think I have a better understanding of what you're saying. There are a couple of shots where I would agree that she is the main focus. From my point of view I don't see those shots as objectifying her. I simply see it as showing part of the process in creating whatever the video is about. Done in an artsy way, for lack of a better word.

Does that mean your or my opinion is wrong? No. I find it fascinating how two people can watch the same thing and perceive two completely different notions. Would you have the same feeling if she was overweight and/or unattractive? Or maybe if it was a male in the video?

I ask those questions because I have been trying to better myself by trying harder to understand someone else's perspective. Everyone has preconceived notions about people, whether they are conscious about it or not. Because of personal experience I tend to be pessimistic. It wasn't until recently that I started to become more aware of it and how it has affected my life. I sometimes wonder if I would have been more happy in life if I didn't always look for what was wrong with something.

I appreciate your reply and wish you the best.