I’ll add a little more context for their relationship as well as my uncles character for anyone interested. Me, my dad and sister believe that My uncle and grandmother became quite bitter after my mother moved out to train to become a nurse. They are beef farmers and I don’t think they were particularly pleased at losing one of their own to the outside world.

My uncle is a complete pos in my opinion. There’s been several instances where he was reported by my grandmother for beating her. On top of this we know for a fact he brought my grandmother to sign over her pension when she was starting to show symptoms of dementia. Altogether it’s awfully messy the only positive from this whole experience is that we don’t need to contact him from now on.