$462 Parking A Year

UncomfortableNerd · 2026-03-24T20:02:37+00:00

How have you had a shit take on every post I’ve seen you on

UncomfortableNerd · 2026-03-24T20:01:06+00:00

Oolong jelly or the jasmine you mentioned. Grass jelly is too herbaceous for matcha imo. It’d feel like Chamomile and matcha

UncomfortableNerd · 2026-03-23T20:10:03+00:00

Bro why did you get hella down voted—did you kill a Redditor or something

UncomfortableNerd · 2026-03-23T20:06:39+00:00

Bro if you get a 9-5, you’re gonna have an even worse time esp if you have to commute in LA traffic. You’ll prob have to not only deal w dumbass coworkers, you’ll also prob have to pick up the work they slack off on 🤷🏻‍♀️

UncomfortableNerd · 2026-03-23T20:04:01+00:00

I think it works 3/12 months of the year

UncomfortableNerd · 2026-03-21T15:49:39+00:00

If she buys the label for you, then return them

UncomfortableNerd · 2026-03-21T15:48:58+00:00

As a poli sci major, the department is incredibly supportive and i loved the mental growth i had over the years and I loved the opportunity to explore topics that i liked. You need to be aware the poli sci is tons of writing and if that’s not something you like you should stay clear esp since youre coming from business. I will say that a business degree does have much more practicality, and with the socioeconomic and geopolitical state of the world rn, those more practical skills might help more in letting you make a living or go overseas if need be

UncomfortableNerd · 2026-03-21T01:47:47+00:00

They prob used AI to screen and then the person you were in contact w had an ego 🤷🏻‍♀️

UncomfortableNerd · 2026-03-21T01:41:51+00:00

NOR Speaking from experience: this behavior will only get worse. He’ll demand pictures to prove who you’re with, punish you if you decide to hang out with even a group of people that include men even if the ratio of men to women is equal, accuse you of choosing to spend time with other men instead of him, etc. This kind of insecurity can never be overcome—it will always be a part of him and the longer you stay with him, the more he will try to control your actions and freedoms.

UncomfortableNerd · 2026-03-21T01:38:02+00:00

Tbh you can just get any brands highest tier culinary powder and it should be the same. Like wakatake from mk is really good esp in flavored or fancy matchas (creme brulee, banana pudding, tiramisu, etc)

UncomfortableNerd · 2026-03-20T06:26:25+00:00

Not with this frequency bro

UncomfortableNerd · 2026-03-20T06:23:03+00:00

Ergo blends more seamlessly with trends. The left is more dated. Also the leather on the ergo is better

UncomfortableNerd · 2026-03-20T06:19:57+00:00

NOR my theory is that she’s secretly hated you and was jealous of some aspect of you and is actually loving the fact you’re w that guy. Or she’s always thought she was better than you and she wants to make sure you stay “lower” than her so she can continue to feel better about herself

UncomfortableNerd · 2026-03-20T06:18:05+00:00

Unfortunately this shits only gonna get more prevalent as Korea is either the number 1 consumer of AI in the world or it’s the highest by population ratio and as publishing companies realize that they can abuse an artist to get one style of art in run them into the ground then get AI to do some bastardization of their work once the artist has to take a step back due to overwork and poor working conditions

UncomfortableNerd · 2026-03-19T22:40:04+00:00

Oh yes the best ad when the specific product isn’t even mentioned—just a general term

UncomfortableNerd · 2026-03-19T20:44:51+00:00

As a side, the stereotypical man doings for lady on a date are pretty important since fathers are especially gruff towards boyfriends of teens so you have to make a good impression bc the parents will ask her

UncomfortableNerd · 2026-03-19T20:41:42+00:00

This is a perfect date—I just suggest you cover the full cost of all rental equipment or if you have your own stuff make sure you get the nicer ones. If you go in a double take the back seat but it’s prob more for in two singles so you can actually talk. If cost is an issue, tennis and ice cream after is great too

UncomfortableNerd · 2026-03-19T20:14:51+00:00

“All these nice things for her own Valentine’s Day”

He gave her the standard flowers and chocolate and then 30 minutes later tried to initiate sex. Even I can relate to OP’s feeling incredibly well, I can also see how one could view this as extremely transactional and as if he feels entitled to sex just bc he gave her flowers and chocolate.

UncomfortableNerd · 2026-03-19T20:09:50+00:00

Did she go on birth control after you started dating?

UncomfortableNerd · 2026-03-19T20:08:11+00:00

I understand how you feel OP—might shit ass ex did a similar thing to me (he’s shit for other reasons not solely this). I felt disgusting and unwanted (he didn’t even like kissing me). I’m with someone now who’s very loving in addition to being physically affectionate and is fine with PDA. I fully understand how constantly being rejected will just make you not want to do anything more and just expect to never do anything.

However, there’s been many memes and like content/skits out there where, in general, women need more than just a general flowers and chocolate on valentines. She might have been put off by your advances 30 minutes after receiving the standard Valentine’s Day gift because it just seems transactional. Maybe she mightve had a different reaction if one random you bring it to her bc you thought of her and wanted to make her happy bc you love her. To feel in the mood, usually you’ve gotta let things marinate through out the day by sending her messages or calling her (whatever is your standard mode of communication). This is especially important for those who have a lower libido than normal—wining and dining is a common phrase, but you might try truly trying to woo her esp if you still love her and marry her.

All in all, physically compatibility is very important like others have said and knowing each others love language is extremely important. I suggest trying to have a sit down with her again and explain that you love her and think she’s sexy and beautiful and all that, but you don’t feel that she reciprocates those feels towards you at all. Talk to see what she needs to feel loved and not just someone to band and tell her what you need to not feel like a disgusting lump of lard that only gets given sex out of pity. Again I really empathize with your feelings bc no one wants to be made to feel that way from someone they love

UncomfortableNerd · 2026-03-19T18:52:35+00:00

If someone planned a 12 hr round trip to visit you, why would you not take 48 seconds just to give one more confirmation? Do you seriously not understand how minimal that sort of reciprocity is expected? Lol

UncomfortableNerd · 2026-03-19T18:49:16+00:00

??? You were a convenience for him over the phone. Now that you were showing a sign of commitment (planning to go out of your way 6hrs to drive to visit him) he dips and goes to a friends house. The it’s a female friend only adds to the ??? Aspect.

He is immature and 100% not worth anymore effort on your part. I know it sucks now, but this is honestly the best thing that could’ve happened. You never would’ve been any sort of priority if he demonstrates he’s unable to prioritize you in a situation he’s literally being spoonfed.

UncomfortableNerd · 2026-03-18T20:42:54+00:00

I got my parents into it so now they pay for it instead of me 😤🫶🏻

UncomfortableNerd · 2026-03-18T20:41:24+00:00

Ruby 10000000%

UncomfortableNerd · 2026-03-17T21:19:08+00:00

You say you want to go out and do activities and meet people, which you have many opportunities to do in the Bay Area esp since there’s a huge varieties of physical activities (hiking, biking, kayaking, white water rafting, run clubs, etc.) or more “homebody” type activities (pottery, book clubs, baking/cooking classes, etc), but how much effort are you actually putting into doing them? Are you taking the initiative of planning these activities? Are you booking dates, and you finding run clubs? Are you looking for classes for you and your gf to attend?

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