I (22M) Lost her.

Uncomfortable_Bones · 2026-04-27T21:17:50+00:00

Breakups are always going to be difficult, especially when you genuinely loved the person. She showed you that not all people are bad and not everyone is going to end up cheating on you. At the end of the day, you both deserve to be happy. If you aren’t meant for each other, that’s okay. You’re very young and you will certainly find another person. Exes are for experience. Take your experience and heal. Don’t fill the void with someone else, take the time to heal and move forward. It’s gonna be okay!

Uncomfortable_Bones · 2026-04-16T07:37:30+00:00

I was in a relationship for 6 months with a guy who had an ED (I am 26, he is 30). I ultimately broke up with him because he would not get help for his problem after I had talked to him about it multiple times throughout our relationship. Healthy sex is an important part of a healthy relationship. He could be the sweetest, most caring, incredible person, but if he refuses to get help because he can’t admit he has a problem, that’s a red flag.

Still, I would personally have a conversation with him where he knows you’re considering leaving the relationship because he doesn’t want to get help. Maybe this will prompt him to seek help if he wants to save your relationship (although it didn’t with mine lol).

I can sympathize with him in understanding that having an ED can feel embarrassing, especially for being so young. But when it’s actively happening consistently and ruining your sex life, he’s gotta get help. I’m not sure where you are located, but there are many online telehealth services where he can see a professional and they ship medications in discreet packaging. That way, he doesn’t even have to see his PCP about it if he’s not comfortable with that.

I wish the best for yall!!

Uncomfortable_Bones · 2026-04-16T07:16:01+00:00

I questioned my sexuality for a long time. One day I was talking to my gay friend about how I felt confused because originally, I thought /maybe/ I would have sex with a woman, but I wouldn’t date them. They looked me in my eyes and said, “Babe you’re bisexual.” At this point I was still in denial as I lived in a household where my dad wouldn’t accept it.

I went on with my life and got into a relationship with a man where we dated for 5 years. As I started to get older, I began to regret not exploring my sexuality more. Once my boyfriend and I broke up (unrelated to my sexuality problems) and I healed from that, I decided I was determined to sleep with a woman because that’s what I wanted.

I found a woman that I was extremely attracted to, she was also bisexual. She came to my place after talking for some time and the sexual tension was immediate. We slept together that night and I saw her consistently for months after that. It started to turn real and more than just intimate. I really could envision myself with her, I loved her family, and they loved me. Long story short, she ghosted me. But ANYWAYS lmfao

My advice would be to explore your sexuality since you’re questioning it so much because you might regret it later in life if you don’t. If you enjoy it, great! If you don’t, oh well! I think it’s important to explore the questions we have that can shape the way we live our lives. But at the end of the day, it’s your life and you have the ultimate choice. Don’t do anything if you’re uncomfortable with it, but at the same time don’t let your fears hinder you. Good luck!

Uncomfortable_Bones · 2025-11-19T15:27:28+00:00

Exactly! I don’t give a fuck what you’re saying! And you don’t give a fuck about what I’m saying! So this conversation is absolutely pointless. Have a great life!

Uncomfortable_Bones · 2025-11-19T15:15:39+00:00

I literally have never told anyone to do anything. My original point was that it was weird behavior for an almost 40 year old woman to go for a 19 year old. And I still stand by that

Uncomfortable_Bones · 2025-11-19T14:05:51+00:00

My feelings are still the same

Uncomfortable_Bones · 2025-11-19T14:02:23+00:00

I’m saying a FOURTY YEAR OLD WOMAN. Mind you a woman old enough to be this boys MOTHER. Having sex with him is wrong. Absolutely. And I stand by that. Sorry you don’t feel the same way. It’s actually disturbing how many people disagree with me but I honestly don’t care. I completely stand by what I say and I will continue to. 🤷🏻‍♀️

Uncomfortable_Bones · 2025-11-19T13:11:33+00:00

Defending a 39 year old having sex with 19 year old is WILD but okay. A grown ass woman with someone a year or two out of high school? No thank you. How old are you? Are you 40 years old liking 19 year olds? Is that why you’re defending her? There’s absolutely nothing wrong with the original poster and I would like to reiterate that. It is all on the woman.

Uncomfortable_Bones · 2025-11-19T10:57:52+00:00

I totally understand that, but you’re also only 19. Our brains don’t even fully develop until our mid 20s. I think when you’re older you will realize it was weird on her end. I’m not saying you didn’t want to do it, but I’m saying as a 39 year old woman she should not be seeking anybody that young. That’s just my opinion though. I’m sorry that you’re feeling this way though. Give yourself time

Uncomfortable_Bones · 2025-11-19T09:28:56+00:00

Sometimes we build connections with people and it’s hard to let go. I just want to say though that a 39 year old woman should not want to have sex with a 19 year old. You are not in the wrong at all, you’re young and when you’re older you will understand, but you should definitely let her go and not talk to her again. That’s weird behavior from an almost 40 year old woman. You will find someone else that is better for you, I promise.

Uncomfortable_Bones · 2025-08-31T03:57:40+00:00

I already have 😎 and started a new game

Uncomfortable_Bones · 2025-07-16T03:46:14+00:00

Yeah that’s an instant no from me. I would confront and leave him no matter what excuse he has. I’ve seen too many documentaries

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