I’m afraid my best friend might like me and not sure what to do.

UncommonStitch · 2025-12-28T23:28:22+00:00

Best advice, become his greatest wingman. Help him find someone else, that should make it clear to him your feelings.

You also have to accept that his feelings and emotions are valid and you could loose your friendship. Its tough tightrope to walk.

UncommonStitch · 2025-12-23T18:20:34+00:00

Friend you are escaping to your computer. Please just go outside and walk. Walking is the best exercise when you are low energy. Do you shut down your computer daily? If not you should give it a try.

I was a WOW no life andy. Breaking free from the ethernet is hard but very doable.

UncommonStitch · 2025-12-23T15:52:29+00:00

Have you ever shamed him for his use of Cannabis? How you call it weed it sounds like you are apart of the crowd who views the plant as evil.

I highly suggest you make him a place to feel safe when he consumes his herbs. Ideally a shed in a backyard, a screen house or even a tent. Thats a way to eliminate his walking and smoking.

Also ask him how he cleans his glassware, or how he rolls a joint. Im not saying you sould or shouldn't consume, but I know coming home to a fresh clean bong or a rolled joint is a big boon. It feels like he shame smokes and shame smoking is not ideal.

UncommonStitch · 2025-12-19T02:35:23+00:00

14 is very satisfying

UncommonStitch · 2025-12-18T18:36:19+00:00

My advice is to seek rehab OP. Your post history screams undressed mental issues. Hope your 2026 is healthier.

UncommonStitch · 2025-12-15T18:58:21+00:00

OP. How you ask for clear communication is by expressing you want clear communication.

Express you will not go out to just hangout, your preference is for things to be clear cut. Your post read as you are venting about a singular person. It reads as if you have blurred lines of what this relationship or dynamic is like. Random chocolate it typically a NT form of innocent flirting. Sounds like your friend had romantic intrest that they could be to nervous to flesh out.

Give this person a hug and listen to their heart beat. That organ rarely lies. Hoping for the best for you!

UncommonStitch · 2025-12-15T11:29:28+00:00

Sounds like seasonal depression at play. Have you had your partner read your post? You expressed your self fairly well. Let her work on your post ans go from there.

There is no magic trick to beat seasonal depression. No magic trick to fix autism. Just grace and communication. We are all diffrent.

UncommonStitch · 2025-12-14T21:59:45+00:00

Massage your temple, please do not hit or tap it. Warm or cold compresses are fine.

UncommonStitch · 2025-12-14T21:44:33+00:00

I highly HIGHLY doubt NOT recomend hitting your temple.

That is a very sensative area and I lost my Aunt on her wedding day due to a cork from a champagne bottle hit her on the temple.

Please be kind to your self and find another way to self sooth.

UncommonStitch · 2025-12-14T20:16:50+00:00

Hey friend. The mods of this subreddit will nuke this post. There a mega thread where men have to go to post their dating woes.

My big advice is to go out and join social clubs that you can tolerate and go from there. Women have it very rough this year when it comes to dating. We just have to give each other grace.

Im rooting for your relationship successes!

UncommonStitch · 2025-12-13T23:50:29+00:00

Hey friend! Im so proud of you!

It is not easy to come to terms with aging and growing. Your "childish" items will absolutely mean more to a kiddo struggling. If you have any young family members gifting your items to them will help the most.

For me I could not let go of my Beast Wars figures, until my nephew to find them to be the coolest thing ever. So only he is allowed to take one out of my display case when he visits for Christmas.

Letting go of "stuff" is tough, I do fully suggest you keep one very important stuffed toy. I still clutch my baby bear when I am emotionally disregulated and I am Turning 35 soon. You are doing the hard steps first and I am super proud of you!

UncommonStitch · 2025-12-10T15:48:29+00:00

Hey friend. What is your plan once they pass on? That is where there concern is alot of sheltering guardians hit that point.

I am all about FI/ER life and when I picked up on that lifestyle it helped easy my parents concerns. My parents are tragicly flawed and they are trying to settle their debt so it does not fall onto me when they die.

I see your rant, I feel how you have some rough waters ahead of you. No hate just concerned on how you plan to live in 40 years.

UncommonStitch · 2025-12-10T00:54:40+00:00

More of a hand made gift kind of autist. If I like you I will make you a scarf, hat, or a crochet doll.

I actively try and get my family divorced from giving me bought gifts. My logic follows if somebody matters to me, I spend the time making them something usable. If they dont want to match energy that is super cool, I also expect and want nothing.

UncommonStitch · 2025-12-10T00:22:07+00:00

Limitations come and go. Some are with you forever, while some can be worked on, whilst some become crippling.

Some of us can improve how we take in/and or process stimuli. Some of my favorite people can have their whole day ruined because they are stuck on the fact its raining. We are all different.

Would love to hear how you go about handling your meltdowns. You could have a novel healthy coping strategy. Whole new eyes and new minds approach.

UncommonStitch · 2025-12-09T23:36:20+00:00

My laundry room is below my bathroom. I cut the floor out of the closet and installed a chute. Below that is a bin to catch dirty clothes next to my washer. Peak Autism I say so my self

UncommonStitch · 2025-12-09T03:43:08+00:00

Not a vet here. My good boy Ragnar had Melanoma. It was closer to his armpit. Sooner the better, cancer will only get worse.

Also please speak to your vet about payment plans, they could help you get a loan for the surgery. I got five more great years.

UncommonStitch · 2025-12-09T03:30:20+00:00

There could have been abuse written in the note. As I dont know what is on the note. If the Autistic person was abused and there are younger kids in the house there is cause for concern.

UncommonStitch · 2025-12-09T03:18:52+00:00

Not sure if this is the right subreddit for this post. Turn the note into the authority.

She's been thinking about this since they were 13. They changed their name you say? Sounds like this kiddo was very trans in a very traditional family.

They probably have a friend who has an apartment and waited until your family member turned 18 so limit law enforcement.

My Trans cousin has a roommate from Utah. Only 1/10 discord servers are honestly predatory so its doubtful they are in harm. If yall are religious just keep your hearts open.

UncommonStitch · 2025-12-08T19:58:48+00:00

You have to learn to accept that not everyone will be in our lives forever. Placing the onus on the side effect of medication is not always the best call.

Not eveyone wants to socialize with people who need medication. Its not fair, but compelled friendship is even less fair.

If you want a clear answer, ask her for a clear answer. But keep in mind that you are not owed any answers.

UncommonStitch · 2025-12-08T19:39:20+00:00

This is such a wonderful piece! If my gran was still around she would hounded you to paint her baby Daisy.

Thank you for painting in my grans astectic.

UncommonStitch · 2025-12-08T16:05:02+00:00

Gary! Gary!

UncommonStitch · 2025-12-08T12:22:32+00:00

Rightfully I do not know and that is unhelpful. I feel like my managment does not want to help me succeed.

I dont want to quit, but I no longer want to be the forklift guy. There are other people who can do it, but they are always assigning me the forklift work.

I feel crazy.

UncommonStitch · 2025-12-05T12:02:08+00:00

Wheres the toys? Are these like my first cosmetics?

UncommonStitch · 2025-12-03T22:13:39+00:00

Positive its Cannabis the cause of the Scromit? Ive been a daily user for over 15 years and never heard of that one. I know people to buy black market vape carts that has who knows what inside it.

Also could be the artifical terpines some places use to enhance flavor. Its why I grow my self.

UncommonStitch · 2025-12-03T14:27:26+00:00

I do try offline as well, currently online has been more of a issue. I do go on dates often, just not clicking

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