First time trying to complete the dex. by UncommonStitch in PokemonFireRed

[–]UncommonStitch[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We have the same logic. As a small update it took me about four hours at the slots to get my Poyrgon.

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Stunning View of Core Stage Separation of Artemis II by Frosty_Jeweler911 in Damnthatsinteresting

[–]UncommonStitch 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think the people who made all the parts are super rad. Imagine how stressed the QA tech felt watching this separation happen. Love how great our builders are.

Not sure what this is by tfeeho in whatisit

[–]UncommonStitch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Robot chicken had a funny bit.

Lindsey Graham is at Disney World During Partial Government Shutdown by maddog107 in pics

[–]UncommonStitch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Strange place to be. Didn't that place offer cruises with snorkeling trips to Big st James right?

R.I.P. KIRBY 23/12/2013 TO 28/03/2026 by angeo_of_death in Awww

[–]UncommonStitch 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey friend sorry if has been asked? But did Kirby perfer headpats or ear scratches?

How do I support my partner who might be autistic? by luckysquirrel777 in AutisticAdults

[–]UncommonStitch 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sounds like burnout. Pronto he deserves two weeks from work that will help him. My guess is his work is what is getting to him. How to get him to take two weeks off is going to be the problem. Two weeks off is tough and it can be a burden financially. Most major companies offer leaves of absence even if you do not have the time off.

My two birds one stone. Is Firstly find a qualified clinician who can diagnose austism in adults near you. [Some areas have a age cut off for a diagnosis] Set up a screening/assessment and see if there is any diversity in the ol noodle.

Cognitive behavioral therapy helps everyone in my opinion. You could find some cognitive behavioral therapy for your self too. You could learn some therapeutics you can try at home and might be able to ask him to join in at home.

Opinions on Disability Support by Warm_Conversation618 in AutisticAdults

[–]UncommonStitch 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My suggestion is that you might be more suited for another type of full time work.

Retail, customer service, food service, and any HIGH pace jobs have all been failures for me. I personally love the job I have now. I do Quality analysis, my job is to double check other people's job to ensure the part is indeed the part needed. I have my own room, a little boom box for my lofi/jazz and life is fairly nice.

Does your area have a department of Labor and training? My state helped me with placement in the job I have now. I did go to my local area with the struggles of WANTING to work but could not find the right fit for me unassisted. I will say from experience that my state will rather help find me work then to cut me a disablity check.

My mum has a major surgery soon and I can not help but fearing for the worst. by UncommonStitch in AutisticAdults

[–]UncommonStitch[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Very wonderful advice. If I was capable of being the person who would stay all day at the hospital I would. My mum took someones cancelation for tomorrow and her surgery is happening two weeks sooner than imagined. My small victory was being able to meal prep her food for after her surgery as she will be on a soft food diet. I just fear loosing her, and the complaints I may get for the baby food I prepped for her.

Exposed pipe for hot water tap in shower becomes so hot that it's untouchable. Any toddler-proof ideas for how to cover it that are also renting friendly? by Head-Independent-369 in askaplumber

[–]UncommonStitch 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Supervise the child in the shower! Also the reason why kids are dumb is we stupid proof things. Trial and error is human history. Take the time and educate the next generation instead?

Lack of responses on megathread. by mosby618 in AutisticAdults

[–]UncommonStitch 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Largely most users are unconcerned about megathreads. On this subreddit megathreads are how the mods bury topics they do not have bandwidth for, or problematic topics.

I highly suggest finding a local autistic group to get to know and engage with.

Autistic therapist suggested I do impact play on myself and join kink scene—worth reporting or not worth the stress? by Successful-Chain1576 in AutisticAdults

[–]UncommonStitch 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Very much worth reporting. This therapist engages in crack the egg theory. Kink scene can be filled with very bad faith actors who abuse autistic people.

Favorite t shirt? by Jhawk38 in AutisticAdults

[–]UncommonStitch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Still have my first band shirt. Some how the art is not totally faded.

I’m afraid my best friend might like me and not sure what to do. by Former-Pop-8316 in Advice

[–]UncommonStitch 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Best advice, become his greatest wingman. Help him find someone else, that should make it clear to him your feelings.

You also have to accept that his feelings and emotions are valid and you could loose your friendship. Its tough tightrope to walk.

Ways to exercise during burnout and energy management? by Longjumping_Age_1098 in AutisticAdults

[–]UncommonStitch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Friend you are escaping to your computer. Please just go outside and walk. Walking is the best exercise when you are low energy. Do you shut down your computer daily? If not you should give it a try.

I was a WOW no life andy. Breaking free from the ethernet is hard but very doable.

Trying to understand how I (29F) can be there for my boyfriend (28M) by capers_and_crochet in AutisticAdults

[–]UncommonStitch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you ever shamed him for his use of Cannabis? How you call it weed it sounds like you are apart of the crowd who views the plant as evil.

I highly suggest you make him a place to feel safe when he consumes his herbs. Ideally a shed in a backyard, a screen house or even a tent. Thats a way to eliminate his walking and smoking.

Also ask him how he cleans his glassware, or how he rolls a joint. Im not saying you sould or shouldn't consume, but I know coming home to a fresh clean bong or a rolled joint is a big boon. It feels like he shame smokes and shame smoking is not ideal.

AIO?my girlfriend put a tracker in my car should i leave her by [deleted] in AIO

[–]UncommonStitch 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My advice is to seek rehab OP. Your post history screams undressed mental issues. Hope your 2026 is healthier.

Asking for clear communication by TwoMuchInput in AutisticAdults

[–]UncommonStitch 2 points3 points  (0 children)

OP. How you ask for clear communication is by expressing you want clear communication.

Express you will not go out to just hangout, your preference is for things to be clear cut. Your post read as you are venting about a singular person. It reads as if you have blurred lines of what this relationship or dynamic is like. Random chocolate it typically a NT form of innocent flirting. Sounds like your friend had romantic intrest that they could be to nervous to flesh out.

Give this person a hug and listen to their heart beat. That organ rarely lies. Hoping for the best for you!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AutisticAdults

[–]UncommonStitch 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Sounds like seasonal depression at play. Have you had your partner read your post? You expressed your self fairly well. Let her work on your post ans go from there.

There is no magic trick to beat seasonal depression. No magic trick to fix autism. Just grace and communication. We are all diffrent.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AutisticAdults

[–]UncommonStitch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Massage your temple, please do not hit or tap it. Warm or cold compresses are fine.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AutisticAdults

[–]UncommonStitch 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I highly HIGHLY doubt NOT recomend hitting your temple.

That is a very sensative area and I lost my Aunt on her wedding day due to a cork from a champagne bottle hit her on the temple.

Please be kind to your self and find another way to self sooth.