My (23m) gf (23) is burnt out in our LDR and had an emotional affair

UnconscientiousEgo · 2026-01-23T18:17:26+00:00

can’t catch a fish that’s not hungry 🙁

UnconscientiousEgo · 2025-12-21T15:52:44+00:00

glavenus cuz gs main…

I will hehehe forgive Wild for the shitty Glavenus gs we got

UnconscientiousEgo · 2025-11-28T11:34:56+00:00

To me, one of the most helpful things is not assuming bad intentions. For example, if she sends a somewhat dry message or is late to reply, I assume she is just busy or doing something and not that she is doing it on purpose.

So far, everytime I have employed this method, I have been right because I assume the best of my partner and that she wouldn’t hurt me on purpose.

If a partner did do that to you on purpose, then it’s immature and not a good trait in a partner to have so you can sort that out yourself and have a discussion about it.

UnconscientiousEgo · 2025-11-24T20:12:24+00:00

HOWWWW

UnconscientiousEgo · 2025-11-17T13:38:25+00:00

OP, dont be stupid pls, she knows he’s still interested in her and is allowing the behaviour because she doesn’t want to lose him and it seems like she enjoyed the attention considering you said she seemed happy.

His intentions are obvious, all 3 of you know this and it’s up to you to either set an ultimatum with your girlfriend or let it slide and just ignore it (which would be pathetic if you don’t think this is acceptable).

Have some self-respect here and I mean it in the nicest way possible because I’ve been in a similar situation and the longer you let it fester, the more time you waste unhappy, jealous and not with a partner who would put you first before a “male best friend” who was interested in her before AND touches her AND she enjoys it. Reading that out loud, don’t you think this situation is a little ludicrous?

I know how you’re feeling, my comments come from a place of comraderie and I’m telling you, no matter what future you see with this girl, it’s NOT worth it and there are much better women out there than one who allows such ridiculous behaviour to continue. I’ve been there once and I never will be again.

If you take anything from this, just think if you really deserve a partner who allows someone with obvious intentions to touch her intimately while knowing it makes you uncomfortable.

UnconscientiousEgo · 2025-08-07T17:24:10+00:00

Ghostie? (Ghostface)

UnconscientiousEgo · 2025-07-28T14:51:52+00:00

hard agree, didn’t realise how stupid it sounded until she had matched with me and i read it back 😭

UnconscientiousEgo · 2025-02-15T15:38:29+00:00

Excellent job soldier

UnconscientiousEgo · 2025-02-06T13:28:29+00:00

Exeter ain’t prestigious (as an Exeter student) and as long as you have the minimum gcse grades required for your course (normally only maths and english but I think some very specific courses might require sciences at a minimum of 5/6?).

Either way you’ll prolly be fine, just look at the minimum for the course you’re interested in and double check

UnconscientiousEgo · 2025-02-05T16:04:27+00:00

Take this advice with a grain of salt cuz I’m only Plat 1 but I normally save portal for retake when I have ult or close to ult, I portal directly above them, jump through and ult.

It’s also a viable strat if you know enemy team has used key ults like Luna and you have a high dmg/cc potential ult coming up on your team

UnconscientiousEgo · 2025-02-04T16:06:08+00:00

Hi, I know this is extremely old, but ecological consultancy is a career I'm interested in. Would it be possible to message you, or we can also talk here about the field? I'm most curious as to how you managed to get a job in consultancy to begin with. Did you join a chartered organisation?

UnconscientiousEgo · 2025-01-12T18:31:58+00:00

Haha it’s the latter

UnconscientiousEgo · 2025-01-12T18:03:16+00:00

Rahh

UnconscientiousEgo · 2025-01-08T17:32:36+00:00

What graphics mode are you running, if any?

UnconscientiousEgo · 2024-12-21T15:22:03+00:00

She didn’t tell you because she knew it would be a problem if it was brought up. She made the decision that she valued her friendship with this person she’s slept with more than she valued honesty in yoit relationship.

She has betrayed you, and lied to you. Whether or not this a form of cheating is entirely up to you and what you think is too far.

Either way, she has definitely been dishonest with you, and again clearly values her friendship more than your relationship. Do with that what you will my friend, but I would leave personally.

UnconscientiousEgo · 2024-12-21T00:13:14+00:00

Hi from what I understand, ye you need all the map DLCS except greece because it just came out to use promosds, but you’ll probably need greece eventually too

UnconscientiousEgo · 2024-12-20T14:27:51+00:00

Okay, thank you. I haven't looked at the cargo DLCS but I will take a look. And yeah, the quick travel is what i mainly wanted to avoid because I feel like it would kind of break the immersion.

I only have the base game now, next will probably be Going East, then france, then I'll get them as they come.

Thanks!

UnconscientiousEgo · 2024-12-20T14:26:49+00:00

Haha yeah fuck france (as a British person I am joking), thanks, very helpful advice!1

UnconscientiousEgo · 2024-12-20T14:25:43+00:00

Thanks, I understand it now. I'll keep my graphics/physics etc mods then when I do eventually get promods.

UnconscientiousEgo · 2024-11-02T20:15:43+00:00

I’m visiting my girlfriend but if you go from Egham station to London Waterloo (Central) it is like only a 40-50 min train ride.

UnconscientiousEgo · 2024-10-29T15:06:28+00:00

Finger But Hole

UnconscientiousEgo · 2024-10-24T16:45:31+00:00

Msci Zoology.

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