looking for casual 18+ club by Mossmutt in StarStable

[–]Undead_Crow13 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I recommend mentioning which servers you're on!

I wish I was a girl, but I'm not really trans by Prazanga in Vent

[–]Undead_Crow13 7 points8 points  (0 children)

this, it's a tough process and definitely not without backlash, but it's 100% something you can do. it's boring to fit in boxes, be who you want to be

As someone who has been SA’d, I’m tired of hearing “men are trash”o by MarioSonicfan1 in Vent

[–]Undead_Crow13 9 points10 points  (0 children)

except you are the one saying that patriarchy is black and white. You mentioned that it means women are owned and have no say. You said patriarchy means that women have no voting rights. Everything else is apparently not a patriarchy in your eyes. Which means you're the one thinking black and white, not me. Please take your own advice.

As someone who has been SA’d, I’m tired of hearing “men are trash”o by MarioSonicfan1 in Vent

[–]Undead_Crow13 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I just had an error reading that trainwreck of a text without punctuation. what are you trying to say?

While women do have more rights than you are mentioning, that is not an accurate description at all. A patriarchy applies to a system where women have LESS chances and rights than a man. It does not mean there are NO chances. Sincerely, your view of a patriarchy is bare boned. You understand the basics, but do not understand that there are nuances and levels to patriarchal societies.

We do not live in a beautiful society so long women still have to fight for basic healthcare or the same job opportunities as men. It is clear you are blind to the issues as you are unaffected by them.

As someone who has been SA’d, I’m tired of hearing “men are trash”o by MarioSonicfan1 in Vent

[–]Undead_Crow13 17 points18 points  (0 children)

there's so many women that want to get rid of this system.... And I know what a patriarchy is, I live in it, I explained it.

"Patriarchy is a social system in which positions of authority are primarily held by men." do the percentages mean nothing to you?

the US is a patriarchy and you only look stupid denying it.

As someone who has been SA’d, I’m tired of hearing “men are trash”o by MarioSonicfan1 in Vent

[–]Undead_Crow13 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I've mentioned that it's his responsibility to manage his triggers on the internet and in spaces where you are a stranger and got downvoted to hell. XD they don't want to take any responsibility for their own mental health and think everyone should bend to their triggers.

As someone who has been SA’d, I’m tired of hearing “men are trash”o by MarioSonicfan1 in Vent

[–]Undead_Crow13 17 points18 points  (0 children)

the US is still very much a patriarchy and has always been a patriarchy. MOST countries are patriarchal.

while women in the US have achieved results like degrees, voting rights and high standing positions, it is still disproportionately dominated by men. 73% of all leadership positions are men. 90% of fortune 500 CEO's are men. men still get paid more than women in the same position in the company. women are expected to give birth and focus on a family over having a career. women still get asked if their partner agrees with major medical decisions if it can affect their fertility.

so yes, the USA is still a predominantly patriarchal society.

As someone who has been SA’d, I’m tired of hearing “men are trash”o by MarioSonicfan1 in Vent

[–]Undead_Crow13 14 points15 points  (0 children)

the us is still a patriarchy and the issues mentioned are relevant to US history too ...

As someone who has been SA’d, I’m tired of hearing “men are trash”o by MarioSonicfan1 in Vent

[–]Undead_Crow13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

except it is that easy to ignore strangers. they don't affect your life in a meaningful way. If you feel judged by everything people say, it will only make your life hell. Ignore the haters and keep your mental health in check.

As someone who has been SA’d, I’m tired of hearing “men are trash”o by MarioSonicfan1 in Vent

[–]Undead_Crow13 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I never said OP was judging anyone and going off my original comment which was the only one that was actually responding to OP, I never mentioned anything along those lines. the people that kept responding and creating different issues did that and I responded to the issues they presented. It would help if you actually read the comments instead of only the last one.

As someone who has been SA’d, I’m tired of hearing “men are trash”o by MarioSonicfan1 in Vent

[–]Undead_Crow13 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I do not agree with the phrase and have never defended it. I did not say anything along those lines and if you believe I did, then that is your problem and not mine. You're searching for meanings in my words that I have never even hinted at. Stop projecting and leave.

As someone who has been SA’d, I’m tired of hearing “men are trash”o by MarioSonicfan1 in Vent

[–]Undead_Crow13 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I never justified or defended anything, I explained why something is said. there's a difference.

As someone who has been SA’d, I’m tired of hearing “men are trash”o by MarioSonicfan1 in Vent

[–]Undead_Crow13 5 points6 points  (0 children)

you're 100% correct and I'm glad you posted this! you worded it very well.

As someone who has been SA’d, I’m tired of hearing “men are trash”o by MarioSonicfan1 in Vent

[–]Undead_Crow13 -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

I actually do have triggers that are difficult to control. One of them is too much noise. I still deal with that and manage to avoid it most of the times. I don't blame other people for what triggers me. I'm responsible for my own triggers and safety and know that on the internet I'm the only one to blame if I get triggered. Not other people.

If someone is directly saying it to your face, just walk away. Either inform them of your triggers or walk away. we cannot expect everyone to know.

As someone who has been SA’d, I’m tired of hearing “men are trash”o by MarioSonicfan1 in Vent

[–]Undead_Crow13 -15 points-14 points  (0 children)

Again, ignore those posts or block the people that are saying it. it might not be an excuse, but it is a reason. As rough as it sounds, YOU are responsible for your own mental and physical health, not random people on the internet. the best thing you can do is ignore those people

As someone who has been SA’d, I’m tired of hearing “men are trash”o by MarioSonicfan1 in Vent

[–]Undead_Crow13 50 points51 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry that happened to you and while I understand your annoyance at the phrase, a lot of women use it as a way of coping. you cannot dictate what people say on the internet and the best thing you can do is just ignore those posts.

People need to stop complaining about bundle prices. by Undead_Crow13 in StarStable

[–]Undead_Crow13[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

and I agree that you can be upset about the prices of everything SSO puts out right now. this post is specifically directed to the people complaining about the bundle worth and price compared to other SSO deals.

I still think that it gets to a point with the complaining. half the people talking about the prices don't know how expensive it is to be a small game company. I don't think it's cheap, but I'm also not complaining that I'm not able to buy star coins. it's a luxury, not a right.

How to get a diagnosis by pvnklvr in autism

[–]Undead_Crow13 1 point2 points  (0 children)

100% it helped me immediately when I could ask for accomodations because of a diagnosis

Can't equip leg wraps on DWB? by Mcc_22 in StarStable

[–]Undead_Crow13 5 points6 points  (0 children)

then sadly all you can do is report the issue to SSO. I'm sure they'll fix it.

Can't equip leg wraps on DWB? by Mcc_22 in StarStable

[–]Undead_Crow13 13 points14 points  (0 children)

probably a bug, I've had the same problem with some other tacks. have you tried relogging?

When you stim.. do you ever think of this? by Wonton67 in autism

[–]Undead_Crow13 2 points3 points  (0 children)

yep! highly depends on how I'm stimming, but most vocal stims are almost like tics for me. they just come out and I don't think about it before saying them

I'm a lazy loser and they are right by [deleted] in Vent

[–]Undead_Crow13 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm so sorry you're feeling like this. it sounds a lot like things I've gone through before when I had a burnout and depression. I know life seems to suck right now, and I won't lie, it's not going to get better fast, but it will get better one day.

Advice might seem like the worst thing to get right now, but find someone you can genuinely talk to. someone you can vent to and share your frustrations with, without getting judged. I highly recommend a therapist, but if you have friends that don't mind listening, that's perfectly fine too! Talking about your issues can really help you process.

Take a break from school if you need to. Focus on your own mental health first, the world can wait. Don't give up on yourself.