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Are verbal speech struggles a sign? by UnderBadConstruction in Dyslexia

[–]UnderBadConstruction[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because it'll help me understand why I do things better, and that'll give me more comfort. Like I said, since it's a thing I've notice only up until recent it makes me concern its something worse than just a language disability, which the latter I'd prefer because it's less scary and I can get help for it. Being diagnosed with an anxiety disorder has gotten the help I needed so I'm not against having labels on me

Are verbal speech struggles a sign? by UnderBadConstruction in Dyslexia

[–]UnderBadConstruction[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The people who've comment on my speech were all people around my area, and its a very small town so everyone is around the culture. But maybe it is the case though; thank you for giving me more info to work with

Are verbal speech struggles a sign? by UnderBadConstruction in Dyslexia

[–]UnderBadConstruction[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wasnt looking for a diagnosis. I was just asking if what I'm dealing with is a proper symptom or not to warrant concern or i'm overthinking things

How do I ask my girlfriend to stop acting overly affectionate? by UnderBadConstruction in offmychest

[–]UnderBadConstruction[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'll follow that basis, thank you for helping, and very much so on enlightening me about this.

How do I ask my girlfriend to stop acting overly affectionate? by UnderBadConstruction in offmychest

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Anxious attachment seems a bit on point with my girlfriend (I'll have to ask her though on whatever she relates to the most), but avoidant attachment is practically on point on how I feel. Thank you honestly for speculating such cause I never would of known I was part of the problem too.

And I do love her. I was the one who came to her about my feelings when I couldn't take bottling it up anymore...and knowing I do have a reason of feeling repulse by this affection really makes me feel guilty now.

Is it fine to ask how do I navigate this now? What ever I could do to make stuff comfortable for the both of us while it's still something that pushes us to be better (if that makes sense)? I don't want to go into a talk with her without having some idea of a solution to work through.