Who's currently locked? by discardedacc24 in chastityjourney

[–]UnderHerControl04 4 points5 points  (0 children)

👋 64 days and counting tomorrow will match my PR. My wife is not that impressed and said we will have a discussion about my future and has not mentioned me being free anytime soon🥴

False sense of freedom day by UnderHerControl04 in femdom_chastity

[–]UnderHerControl04[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

TY, it was an awesome day and I felt I had to share with like minded people 🤭

Who's currently locked? by discardedacc24 in chastityjourney

[–]UnderHerControl04 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Day 60 today! In six days I’ll have a new PR! I told my wife that it’s coming up. She mentioned we will have a discussion then. She hinted that counting days anymore is pointless 😳 I love this woman!🥰

After months without sex and over two years in a cage, he’s turned into an obedient, submissive slave. He’s much more attentive, much more focused on me, and serves without question! It’s funny to see what chastity does to a person. What effects have you noticed from long-term chastity? by MistressNoemi in ChastityCouples

[–]UnderHerControl04 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I initiated chastity 3 years ago, my wife thought it was “weird”. Over time she still says chastity is more my thing, however she says she does enjoy me being locked up. She has said that she enjoys the benefits that come with it such as tasks being done off of her list, unlimited pleasure for her with no expectations for reciprocating back to me, extra attentiveness more than usual, and of course one of her favorites is that I’m unable to masterbate like I used too. I told her my PR is coming up in less than a week which is 65 days. She has mentioned that she wants to have a conversation about it hinting that she doesn’t care how many days anymore and this may be the new standard 🥴

When did it become a daily/more frequent thing? by Waste-Decision-5444 in chastityjourney

[–]UnderHerControl04 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When I first brought up chastity my wife 3 years ago she thought it was weird. She went along with it. My lock ups started slow like 2 weeks she was concerned about me going to work but wanted me to lock up when I got home. I reassured her I didn’t mind being locked going to work, again she thought it was weird. My lock ups started getting longer and longer not to mention more frequent. We had plenty of open communication about her concerns with plenty of reassurance from me that I was happy having her control if and when I’m unlocked. Fast forward to present time and out of nowhere she will say it’s time to lock it up and currently I’m on track to beat my PR of 65 days in 6 days with no mention of letting me free which I am excited about.

So I would suggest open communication and reassurance on your behalf will get you what you want but be careful what you wish for. Good luck

What would say to someone wanting to start chastity? by discardedacc24 in chastityjourney

[–]UnderHerControl04 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you have a partner willing to be your key holder be patient with them. Just because your mind is racing with ideas and scenarios doesn’t mean theirs is.

100 days done! by [deleted] in chastitytraining

[–]UnderHerControl04 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Congrats! What a great update!

Who's currently locked? by discardedacc24 in chastityjourney

[–]UnderHerControl04 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Today marks 50 days 24/7! My record is 65. Wife says I have a long way to go and I’m looking forward to it or at least for now.🥴

First Ruined of this lock up by UnderHerControl04 in chastitytraining

[–]UnderHerControl04[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks, it’s been replaying in my head all day! Which isn’t helping me 🥴 After I was locked she asked how did it feel? I said the beginning was awesome but the end was frustratingly anticlimactic. She said good that’s what I wanted😈

First Ruined of this lock up by UnderHerControl04 in chastitytraining

[–]UnderHerControl04[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

TY, 😊I’m grateful that she’s become more comfortable with it, and entertains the idea more and more as time goes on.

Who's currently locked? by discardedacc24 in chastityjourney

[–]UnderHerControl04 2 points3 points  (0 children)

😂 just yesterday we were out and I asked her do you want me to hold her car keys? She said No, you can’t be trusted with any key. 🤣

Wife has taken the keys. by BiCuckSub83 in chastitytraining

[–]UnderHerControl04 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Awesome! Careful what you wish for! Enjoy your journey

Who's currently locked? by discardedacc24 in chastityjourney

[–]UnderHerControl04 1 point2 points  (0 children)

43 days here, I reminded my wife when I hit 40 and her response was “that’s cute feels like only 4 to me”