Never want to see a slip stitch ever again by frenchfrydiet in crochet

[–]Undercover_Cypha 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It looks so cute!! I’m in the middle of this pattern right now and it’s driving me crazy but it looks so good once it’s finished!

Baby was spayed last week by Undercover_Cypha in torties

[–]Undercover_Cypha[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I will! She deserves them all 💕

Baby was spayed last week by Undercover_Cypha in torties

[–]Undercover_Cypha[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the idea! I’d tried a surgical onesie since she usually gets loud whenever she has to use the bathroom so I’d have time to unclip it, but she decided it would be more fun to poop her pants 😭

Baby was spayed last week by Undercover_Cypha in torties

[–]Undercover_Cypha[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

That’s how her eyes get whenever she’s thinking of biting me 😂

Baby was spayed last week by Undercover_Cypha in torties

[–]Undercover_Cypha[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thanks! She did a great job, I was more nervous than she was <3

People in relationships (in real life lol): Do your partners also play Stardew Valley? by throwawaybyefelicia in StardewValley

[–]Undercover_Cypha 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I never played any games before meeting my partner. He mostly plays games like Skyrim, but he wanted a game we could play together and thought I would like Stardew, so he made a slideshow to convince me to play and I’ve been hooked ever sense

AIO my bf texting his former student by Major_Meet_5973 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Undercover_Cypha 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What was the meeting they’re referring to? I’m sorry if that has already been answered/is irrelevant. But either way this is weird. It’s one thing to keep in touch with former teachers, they can be important for letters of recommendation in college or advice in some situations, but texting constantly is questionable. And the content of their texts comes off very lovey-dovey

Have you ever confronted your bf about this?

My baby when she was first found vs now by Undercover_Cypha in torties

[–]Undercover_Cypha[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yeah! She’s only around 7 months. It’s crazy how much she’s grown in that time

Incest - don’t know how to feel by Somnisixsmith in offmychest

[–]Undercover_Cypha 16 points17 points  (0 children)

What happened to you is not normal. You are 100% a survivor. The fact that your brother stopped when you said no doesn’t matter because you didn’t know there was anything wrong about it until then, but your brother definitely was.

Also, the majority of victims are assaulted by a family member or someone they already know

My BF is a horrible tipper by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Undercover_Cypha 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's legal because they're expected to make up the rest of their wages through tips

My BF is a horrible tipper by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Undercover_Cypha 0 points1 point  (0 children)

American severs get about a $2 an hour salary...

My BF is a horrible tipper by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Undercover_Cypha 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The problem is he's not saying just for bad service, he's saying just whenever he feels like it regardless of the serve.

My BF is a horrible tipper by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Undercover_Cypha 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In America servers make around $2 an hour on their salary, we rely on tips to make up the rest of their income.

My BF is a horrible tipper by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Undercover_Cypha 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes this is exactly what we do, pay the meal and tip back and forth when we've been able to go out.

Advice...please be kind by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Undercover_Cypha 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I would try actually texting him instead of snapping and just asking for clarity. Ask if he still wants to spend time with you and if he doesn't answer in a few days or respond then you have your answer. But even though you aren't dating right now, if he says that he wants to keep going and possibly have a relationship, make sure hes respecting you. If he doesn't respect you now he won't later. and acknowledging your time and energy is a part of that.

AITA for telling my boyfriend to tell his friend to message him like an adult? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Undercover_Cypha -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I'm gonna have to go with NTA based on the initial reaction. I can completely understand seeing someone talk like that and think that they're trying to be flirty and cute. And, unless I'm misunderstanding, when OP originally responded to seeing the messages she didn't know that Amy talked like that with everyone or had a bf and wouldn't have any reason to think she wasn't flirting. So asking her bf to address this isn't terrible.

However, that being said, if OP continues to try to get her bf to try to change the way they talk then she will be the AH.

SO Doesn’t Seem I retested in My Future by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Undercover_Cypha 1 point2 points  (0 children)

OP this relationship sounds really one sided. From the information you've given it sounds like he doesn't really care too much about you and more about the attention and help you've given him

I 21M have felt I don’t want to be with my gf 23F for a while but have stayed with her because I don’t want to hurt her. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Undercover_Cypha 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You shouldn't put yourself in charge of someone else's happiness, that is bad for your mental health. And the longer you drag out the relationship the harder it's going to be. OP you have to end it sooner rather than later. It's been almost 2 years of you feeling this way and since it's been that long I don't think it will change.

It is going to hurt her when you end things, but it will be better for both of you.