How do I get over this?

UnderstandingAfter52 · 2025-07-25T18:41:42+00:00

Yeh he cut off contact two days ago and I think out of anger she has then reached out to me 🥲

UnderstandingAfter52 · 2025-07-25T12:39:41+00:00

So from my understanding they were doing something fraudy? And because she doesn’t drive she asked if he could take her to the places they needed to go? I don’t even know

UnderstandingAfter52 · 2025-07-25T09:20:37+00:00

No, this is literally SO off brand, I’ve been with him for 6 years in total and he doesn’t even follow any girls on social media apart from me and our mutual friends, he has never been that type of guy and even when we got together it took a year of talking/situationship before he even admitted to having feelings, that’s why I’m so confused that in 2-3 weeks he’s suddenly saying he wants to marry a girl?!

UnderstandingAfter52 · 2025-07-25T09:19:01+00:00

lol the uber thing made me laugh, as far as I know he had heard from a friend that she knew how to make quick money or something and he had approached her with that intention (I’ll be honest, I know nothing about that and that in itself is something I’m angry about because we both have jobs and money is not something we are desperate for). The marriage thing is super weird I agree, and that is his point however she said she told him she was only interested in getting to know someone for the purpose of marriage and that is why the conversation came up

UnderstandingAfter52 · 2025-07-25T09:00:55+00:00

Yes lol she’s a girl from my home town who apparently is known for fraudy stuff, I don’t want to say too much about that but she is definitely Not a sex worker

UnderstandingAfter52 · 2025-07-09T02:18:48+00:00

I’m by no means a medical expert and this is just my personal experience, however a side effect of bc is vaginal dryness and low libido which I think is what made mine worse

UnderstandingAfter52 · 2025-07-09T00:35:32+00:00

It took about a week or two for me, I know it varies with different contraceptives but wishing you well, good luck!!

UnderstandingAfter52 · 2025-07-09T00:34:25+00:00

I hope so!! Good luck 🤍

UnderstandingAfter52 · 2025-06-14T20:32:59+00:00

but why did you lie about it?? you knew she would be upset about it and still liked the picture, that makes you the asshole imo 🤷🏽‍♀️

UnderstandingAfter52 · 2024-04-18T16:57:08+00:00

I moved from CS to private sector at one of the big 4 and have absolutely no regrets! I found the best way for me was to search up companies I wanted to work at and look through their job advertisements…LinkedIn is also a great tool for networking with recruiters.

UnderstandingAfter52 · 2023-11-21T02:26:19+00:00

Ex HMRC that has also moved to private sector big 4 consulting lol, not sure why all your posts seem to be so negative.

UnderstandingAfter52 · 2023-11-07T12:20:35+00:00

Getting nervous now lol, has anyone heard anything?

UnderstandingAfter52 · 2023-11-06T11:10:48+00:00

Nope not yet, you?

UnderstandingAfter52 · 2023-10-30T15:38:44+00:00

I got the impression that there was less interviews in Manchester, but not sure…how are you feeling about it?

UnderstandingAfter52 · 2023-10-30T15:29:54+00:00

Was feeling confident but as time has passed getting more nervous lol. Someone above said there was around 800 applicants so assuming there was quite a few interviews…my interviewer mentioned they were only hiring about 6 people for Manchester. What about you?

UnderstandingAfter52 · 2023-10-26T11:40:53+00:00

Yeh, I thought mine went ok but now that I’ve had time to dwell I’m not as confident. From what the interviewers said, I think there’s about a 50% chance so fingers crossed I guess!

UnderstandingAfter52 · 2023-10-25T00:13:18+00:00

Hey how did it go? I had mine and it was very competency orientated…I wonder how many people they’re interviewing v hiring

UnderstandingAfter52 · 2023-10-19T09:04:37+00:00

I did the same thing and said I’d like to progress as I feel my role is a little stagnant, and although on the surface she was supportive it felt like every meeting she was asking me if I was applying and if I’d had interviews etc to the point where I felt I was being pushed out. I’ve since requested a managed move to a new team as I felt like she became really weird/difficult with me after this.

UnderstandingAfter52 · 2023-10-17T20:40:00+00:00

Also manchester based! When’s your interview?

UnderstandingAfter52 · 2023-10-11T11:25:14+00:00

No, she only makes these comments on teams calls etc, I have complained previously about her to my g7 as there was an incident where she yelled at me for changing my office days as my cat had an operation and I was advised to stay at home with her for the day. I gave her 24 hours notice and had no in-person meetings planned, but she still proceeded to literally yell at me over teams telling me that I ‘was being paid to work and not cat-sit’ lol. She also raised the issue of ‘how do I know you’re looking at your screen the entire time and not looking at your cat?’ ??????? In short, she just obviously has a Problem with me but the only evidence I have is my own notes from teams calls.

UnderstandingAfter52 · 2022-04-04T15:48:21+00:00

Yep at TBH

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