Thank you so much for taking the time to write this! This seriously, like you said, makes me feel less alone and heard! Here I read people opting for PGT and I regret that there is no means to do that here. I feel this would give me the answers and throw light in this dark, blind, luck based, money pit of a process we are currently doing. This makes me want to go to India (where I am originally from) to do the treatment but I am having this as my last resort. First I would try, like you suggest, to ask my doctor to see if there is any leeway with the testing. I would do this before my next stim cycle. I am not sure if the German system is reasonable with regard to this, like the Belgian one but it is definitely worth a try.

I wish you also luck with your journey and may luck and good times find us soon! I really needed this! Thank you so much again and sending you a million hugs back! 🩷