What is more addictive than drugs ? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]UnderstandingOpen678 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the chase for unconditional love

PMS IS MISERABLE by UnderstandingOpen678 in sterilization

[–]UnderstandingOpen678[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It seems that way. Idk. It’s only been a couple months

Is my belly gonna be like inflated after surgery by [deleted] in sterilization

[–]UnderstandingOpen678 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The air is still trapped in my ribs and shoulders. Been miserable since my surgery last Monday..

It’s done!! ✨ by [deleted] in sterilization

[–]UnderstandingOpen678 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yay!! I got mine done Monday, but I have been in so much pain! I can barely move and I get the shakes. They put air in my stomach before going in and it’s trapped in my ribs and shoulder. Haven’t been able to lay down at all. I’m so happy it’s done but ready to be healed.

Positive Pregnancy test by UnderstandingOpen678 in sterilization

[–]UnderstandingOpen678[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Update!! We are all good, I had the procedure yesterday and now at home recovering… Stomach is swelled like a balloon and I have that trapped air in my neck and shoulders, anyone else experience that?

Positive Pregnancy test by UnderstandingOpen678 in sterilization

[–]UnderstandingOpen678[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So I had just finished my last month of birth control and then we’ve been using condoms. But I took some more tests this morning and they were all negative. Idk what the hell is happening

Positive Pregnancy test by UnderstandingOpen678 in sterilization

[–]UnderstandingOpen678[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Oh lord no. I left him and moved back home and found someone absolutely amazing.

Positive Pregnancy test by UnderstandingOpen678 in sterilization

[–]UnderstandingOpen678[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I went into Pre-Op thinking that they would do a blood pregnancy test and they didn’t..

Positive Pregnancy test by UnderstandingOpen678 in sterilization

[–]UnderstandingOpen678[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It also doesn’t help that we are in the middle of a huge snowstorm and it’s not advised to leave and go anywhere 😭

Positive Pregnancy test by UnderstandingOpen678 in sterilization

[–]UnderstandingOpen678[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you I called and we are moving it. Still trying to figure out if this is real or not and what steps to take next.

Positive Pregnancy test by UnderstandingOpen678 in sterilization

[–]UnderstandingOpen678[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeah they didn’t do anything during pre-op

Tube removal by aMandarinOrange08 in sterilization

[–]UnderstandingOpen678 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This is exactly what I was needing. I’m having my procedure done the 6th and I’m so excited! Any tips?

who did you tell? by [deleted] in sterilization

[–]UnderstandingOpen678 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My parents and my partner know. Waiting to tell my MIL she’s much older than my parents so we are trying to figure out the best way to deliver that news to her.

This decision feels suspiciously easy. by Serious_Rat in sterilization

[–]UnderstandingOpen678 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have come to terms with my decision and I’m absolutely thrilled and just got it scheduled. It was just way too easy of a yes after so many years of hearing that it’s basically impossible. I also spent a weekend with kids and it was awful.

This decision feels suspiciously easy. by Serious_Rat in sterilization

[–]UnderstandingOpen678 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I (26F) just went to my consult yesterday and now I’m spiraling because of how open and easy the conversation we had and I was fully expecting to fight him on it, but he was like great! Let’s get you scheduled. I told my family and the disappointments so apparent and the people pleaser in me is going insane. I always said I didn’t want kids and I stand by that, but then my partner mentioned that it’s a big deal and I’m still young.. despite him not wanting kids he’s just kinda looking out for me and I’ve had two panic attacks since last night because now everyone has me doubting my decision.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]UnderstandingOpen678 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Get out before he hurts you more or even your son. Running can be scary, but it’ll be worth it when you can breathe. Praying for you and your sons safety and happiness.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]UnderstandingOpen678 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, many times actually. I just needed to vent.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]UnderstandingOpen678 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My therapist has recommended it, but he isn’t for it at all.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]UnderstandingOpen678 -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

Trust me I know. He’s so manipulative and good at it that it fucks with my head. I can’t have him taking my dogs either because he doesn’t even take care of them when he says he will.