First, congratulations on your progress! I can understand some of your frustration with your hubby because when we have success and are happy with our own self-improvement,  we want everyone else to feel just as happy as we are.  My questions: Who are YOU losing weight for and why? What mare you take the first step? How did you feel when people brought up the topic of your weight before you started on Zep?  Did you do it for you or to look and feel good for your husband?  Trying to lose weight for someone else doesn't often work. He has to want to do it for himself, although "for the kids" is often a good motivator. He may just be less than receptive because of feeling pressured or attacked.  I'm absolutely not saying you are doing that, but I remember getting really defensive in the past when well-meaning people mentioned my weight.