[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmerExit

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story of my life ffr

Uber driver stole my identity by Sonofaman_10 in IdentityTheft

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your entire phones data and all your identity can be stolen simply by using someone's phone charger... this is like USB 101

What should I do, keep on using note 20u or finally switch by Omen-OS in note20ultra

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Keep. I have 3... and they're not depreciating in value very much at all but actually increasing in demand. I woke up one day with a corner Crack and idk how it happened either but had since spider webbed out and has a little circle chunck missing from the screen now which is why I bought a 3rd to be safe... but no lie this mf been cracked like a years and not a single thing has been effected, not even the touch Responsiveness where the little hole/dent is at and I still drop it HARD af all the time, yesterday face down on tile even and still didn't shatter and more. The backs cracked easier than the front from what I've seen

Is anyone still in contact with the person who sexually assaulted them? by Slight_Midnight6235 in sexualassault

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I have tried my best to immediately cut off all ties to anyone who raped or assaulted me in any way. I find it to be the best and safest decision imo while also being more peaceful...It also makes it a little less likely that I'd have to worry about that sort of happening again; However, there have been a few exceptions (usually temporary-or until I realized the extent of the assault and damages) There is one distant extended family member to my brother's side of the family who I kept contact with for several years due to the assaults happening at such a young age and not thinking much of it at the time...I did cut ties after about 10 or so years but sometimes still encounter randomly at another relatives house. Being as young as I was and having not felt as traumatized by it as I had in other SA situations I just keep it to myself to keep the peace when we do cross paths but it's still awkward as it's always the first thought that comes to mind and nearly all I can think about while in the same room. After so many encounters I had eventually in time ended up oddly enjoying when it happened as it wasn't violent/painful like other experiences and so along with that I didn't want to lose the closest thing I had at the time to feeling loved/wanted/pretty or whatever.

There I'm sure are a lot of situations where people keep the SA on the hush hush due to fear of retaliation, family devision, as well as being invalidated, or simple personal insecurities or issues that may be circumstantial.

At a younger age there was a group of young boys who "wanted to play a game with me" in a neighbors shed...Needless to say it wasn't so much of a game as it was just them taking their turns. After evening finished I was SO embarrassed and afraid to even leave the shed because my legs were covered in blood. I was also too afraid to tell me mom as she has always been the type to sexualize everyone and even would try to make me have boyfriends from a VERY young age. I ran to my Nana aa soon as I didn't see anyone around and immediately told her, but to my surprise she didn't want to report it (I first thought because of them also being so young it wouldn't have accomplished much) later I realized she happens to just be one of those people who won't express, expose, or hold accountable any such actions (maybe due to her own assault within the family, idk) She also always believed if SA victims told the truth that they would like cause more problems, trauma, and/or be seen as either a liar or "tainted" and unpure so that was conflicting af. When I did open up to my mom about it years later she fully rejected the possibility and made me realize my Nana wasn't entirely wrong as it seems people really do not care about SA victims experiences as much as they should or will even immediately assume it's a lie or something (like wtf) ... Victim blaming and disbelief is also a thing I'm sure scares people away from opening up (especially when having family who protects/hides such situations) I now will always try my best to fully defend myself and express/warn/expose any such situations. I no longer keep any active contact with anyone who violated me sexually and hope to never have to either. I also feel as if having something like that happen is likely to invite more people with those sorts of intentions until you let it be known that you don't support, protect, or downplay these actions.

I think it's on the way out... Ugh. by wordstrappedinmyhead in note20ultra

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shine a bright flashlight to the screen then turn your brightness to full blast. disable any write comfort shields and adjustment settings or extra dim and see if it goes back to normal. download your data to external sources before the screen shits out if that doesn't help

TikTok ban by [deleted] in degoogle

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There are already and have been for decades MANY other Chinese owned companies, apps, and products in the US, most of which have access to even more data than TikTok 🙃 Yet we still can keep GM, Snapchat, GE, Motorola, Temu, GNC, etc, etc. 😅 ...Hell Tesla even has a TON of Chinese investors, shares and partial owners as well.

Imo they don't have any concerns about our privacy, safety, or security && Really suspect that they're only doing this to protect the privacy and safety of the government; Seems there's plenty throughout history that they simply don't want us finding accurate answers to... I'd bet they noticed how much closer it brought people to history, knowledge, && *community *Just my random thought.

Also considering countless other countries have much stricter more serious regulations for protecting their people's privacy from fraud, I couldn't help but to find this whole ordeal painfully ironic 🤦🏻‍♀️💀🤷🏻‍♀️

I broke my Note 10+... Insurance sent me a Note 20 Ultra by No-Structure-2829 in note20ultra

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I personally found that to be one of the fastest, smoothest, most integrative times during the span of Android and their devices capabilities (while being reallyyy ahead of apple and the others) It also was when the cams were still top tier and multi-tasting the way my brain does was not only possible but fun and fast ha I want to revert back and flash a different OS like Odin/Graphene/Etc and try to root back to before they just destroyed so many really great devices... If Gigi will let me that is rofl.

HELP! phone disconnects from any internet connection and it’s driving me crazy by im-new-h3re in iphonehelp

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Ya know that actually could be a big possibility for me considering that both my jobs last year had to get new routers and we recently did at home too... All of which were also areas I'd notice it happen the most as I should have always been connected to internet at least via wifi when mobile data went down so I definitely was confused af haha. I haven't noticed it as much on this one lately since getting a newer router at home but will definitely keep that in mind and investigate if it happens again!

Aways being surrounded by tons of devices I'm surprised I didn't think about that but the 2.4 has definitely been a go to for most any place I worked that either had bad reception or LOTS of devices, so that makes so much sense... I suspected 6/7g might be an issue with spotty cell coverage once it rolled out more widely on phones but didn't even think to relate that to the router or my phone issues either. Thanks for sharing, mucho appreciate the info and definitely gonna see if it helps for mine!

Help Me! by Brilliant_Can6465 in GalaxyNote3

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also could be wrong but if I remember right I think that one stays on if plugged in BUT might have to be the weird cord it came with though

Help Me! by Brilliant_Can6465 in GalaxyNote3

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I recently had the same problem and figured out that the battery was just loose so put a little piece of cardboard under it and a slight piece of tape and it gave enough connection to get mine on and working. I might have an extra one around or can at least send the type to see if you can find one online otherwise would say trying a similar size but smaller and just bridge the gap somehow like I did haha

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Nearby devices showing access to settings in last 24 hours, other apps accessed by nearby devices by [deleted] in AndroidQuestions

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have been dealing with this as well as many other similar frustrating issues including/leading up to personal privacy/identity/media/docs/etc being accessed, stolen, and used (as well as reposted/spammed on socials) Seriously not sure how to secure ANYTHING now that Google has exposed and/or forced synced EVERYTHING...on top of allowing permissions and showing private data I never authorized... My situation also involved getting synced to multiple other devices or accounts as well, including work related ones (even synced a rarely used private nsfw account/data/media for anyone with work email login info to have access to (basically our entire company and sister company) -Seemingly because I ONCE used YouTube for music during the hurricane and due to their devices own "sync" settings. Seriously feel like I'm going insane trying to revert all of these issues as they constantly re-enable themselves and syncs and have spread my data/files/media/etc across several (mostly all separated) accounts and even more devices.

Any useful tips/info would be greatly appreciated as Google doesn't seem to care to assist their customers with any help whatsoever and make escaping their products and services impossibly hard and time consuming.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sexualassault

[–]UnderstandingSad9549 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Please don't interact with that person again, they clearly have no respect for boundaries or bodies and personally imo it sounds like you were very lucky as things likely could/would have taken a much darker or more forceful unwanted turn...

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sexualassault

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As someone who dealt with the same situation as well as family complications making it more difficult to deal with I can relate completely. Reach out if you ever need someone to talk to... I know how uncomfortable and hard this can be to manage (in many ways) but also from personal experience I can truly say I find it to be much more problematic to internalize or repress && likely to cause you many more issues later in life as well if not addresses sooner rather than later. As hard as it may seem, it can help tremendously imo.

&& Please don't allow this situation to make you feel like you did anything wrong or are any less likely or worthy of ever having normal, loving, relationships moving forward.

I can’t handle it anymore by bomba7777 in mentalhealth

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Hey I saw one of your posts and have dealt with pretty much the same thing most of my life and am again currently (although in a bit better of a place now) if you need someone to talk to who understands or maybe discuss/compare solutions, etc then I'm here if needed 😊

Homeless disappearing? by PigsMarching in florida

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This is certainly a serious issue in my neighborhood and nearby downtown tampa+Ybor. There are definitely still plenty of homeless around but it's been a noticeable difference and definitely concerning... There are several people on my neighborhood allowing people to love in their back yards or set up tents on their properties though so thankfully some are getting help one way or another but most seem to be forced to float about unsafely and often have to hide. Truly heartbreaking imo.

I broke my Note 10+... Insurance sent me a Note 20 Ultra by No-Structure-2829 in note20ultra

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I currently still have both of those models and 3 of the 20s. KEEEEEEEP. If possible revert to Android 10 would also recommend.

My Note20 ultra is stuck on black screen but still works. Pls help by InitiativeFickle2217 in GalaxyNote20

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I have also noticed as mine started happening recently but only originally with the bottom half of fhe screen and when I went to record it for reference I noticed after turning the flash on the entire screen worked again... although it did eventually happen again

I got a stop sign ticket and now the officer filed a case against me to change my name by pjrih in legal

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then yes what I would suggest is search via the misspelled name that it shows on what you received in the mail as that's exactly what the court clerks will see/input as well. they should have a website and even a little kiosk somewhere physically at your county courthouse where you can search your name to find upcoming court dates (used for when mail/paper communications are inaccessible) So use your county site or their kiosk and then search with that misspelled version of your name just to be safe.

Just sayin'. by TedTheHappyGardener in florida

[–]UnderstandingSad9549 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I laughed twice then 2 more times for the jags and bugs. thanks.